Are you in Love?

Swindler · Post by **Swindler** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 6:48 am

I am.
Well i learnd to know her for like 4 months ago, i had seen here before and just sayed "hi" or something like that. But it was at a festival i really learnd to know her. Well i got drunk as hell and she taked care of me. And after that day, yeah i started to like her. And we talked like of every day. Through MSN or CellPhones. Yeah i said it to ther for like 2 months that ago that i really was liking her, but she didnt belivied me :/. Well now she is together with a guy from a town 6 miles from here. And sometimes she ask if i am jealous. Of course i am. But sometimes it feels like she just messing with me, like she wants to make me jealous.

Thats was a part of mine story^^
But the question is

Are you in love?

XemnasXD · Post by **XemnasXD** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 6:52 am

yes...

Silver0 · Post by **Silver0** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 7:04 am

My psychology teacher told me you cant fall in love but you can fall under lust.
love is a choice
and some other stuff but i found it very truthful he also said no matter what your gunna get sick of the person

had many GF's that said they loved me but in reality i knew it was lust.

never hurts to make yourself believe your in love but always connecting lust with love can make you really believe it and think your in love with certain qualities that if you wheren't under lust they wouldn't be really appealing

its always a confusing subject cuz the word love has A different meaning for everyone.

Sorry for incoherency
and to answer your queation
i Did but meh

FliiipZ · Post by **FliiipZ** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 7:05 am

She realized that She couldn't let me go and I couldn't let her go.

So yes im in love.

San · Post by **San** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 7:05 am

XemnasXD wrote:yes...

XemnasXD · Post by **XemnasXD** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 7:16 am

Silver0 wrote:My psychology teacher told me you cant fall in love but you can fall under lust.
love is a choice
and some other stuff but i found it very truthful he also said no matter what your gunna get sick of the person

had many GF's that said they loved me but in reality i knew it was lust.

never hurts to make yourself believe your in love but always connecting lust with love can make you really believe it and think your in love with certain qualities that if you wheren't under lust they wouldn't be really appealing

its always a confusing subject cuz the word love has A different meaning for everyone.

Sorry for incoherency
and to answer your queation
i Did but meh

not true....i've have no feelings of lust for this girl and im totally in love with her.....

Silver0 · Post by **Silver0** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 7:26 am

XemnasXD wrote:
Silver0 wrote:My psychology teacher told me you cant fall in love but you can fall under lust.
love is a choice
and some other stuff but i found it very truthful he also said no matter what your gunna get sick of the person

had many GF's that said they loved me but in reality i knew it was lust.

never hurts to make yourself believe your in love but always connecting lust with love can make you really believe it and think your in love with certain qualities that if you wheren't under lust they wouldn't be really appealing

its always a confusing subject cuz the word love has A different meaning for everyone.

Sorry for incoherency
and to answer your queation
i Did but meh

not true....i've have no feelings of lust for this girl and im totally in love with her.....

then where does the untruth of what i said come in??
love is a choice like i said so your choosing to lover her when there isnt even lust that makes what i posted more truthful

XemnasXD · Post by **XemnasXD** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 7:30 am

Silver0 wrote:
XemnasXD wrote:
Silver0 wrote:My psychology teacher told me you cant fall in love but you can fall under lust.
love is a choice
and some other stuff but i found it very truthful he also said no matter what your gunna get sick of the person

had many GF's that said they loved me but in reality i knew it was lust.

never hurts to make yourself believe your in love but always connecting lust with love can make you really believe it and think your in love with certain qualities that if you wheren't under lust they wouldn't be really appealing

its always a confusing subject cuz the word love has A different meaning for everyone.

Sorry for incoherency
and to answer your queation
i Did but meh

not true....i've have no feelings of lust for this girl and im totally in love with her.....
then where does the untruth of what i said come in??
love is a choice like i said so your choosing to lover her when there isnt even lust that makes what i posted more truthful

certain feelings you choose. Some ppl can choose to fall in love with love and thus fall into the idea that they're in love. I've done it b4 so i know the difference. If i thought i was good enough to give this girl everything she needed i'd take her up in a heartbeat but i'd rather see her happy with someone else than sad with me, its deeper than that but i think thats love and i know its not something i choose she pretty much just walked into my life and proved herself to be amazing...like getting hit by a car....and tbh i find the feelings irritating and annoying because they only lower my self-esteem every time i think of them...

Silver0 · Post by **Silver0** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 7:38 am

XemnasXD wrote:
Silver0 wrote:
XemnasXD wrote:
Silver0 wrote:My psychology teacher told me you cant fall in love but you can fall under lust.
love is a choice
and some other stuff but i found it very truthful he also said no matter what your gunna get sick of the person

had many GF's that said they loved me but in reality i knew it was lust.

never hurts to make yourself believe your in love but always connecting lust with love can make you really believe it and think your in love with certain qualities that if you wheren't under lust they wouldn't be really appealing

its always a confusing subject cuz the word love has A different meaning for everyone.

Sorry for incoherency
and to answer your queation
i Did but meh

not true....i've have no feelings of lust for this girl and im totally in love with her.....
then where does the untruth of what i said come in??
love is a choice like i said so your choosing to lover her when there isnt even lust that makes what i posted more truthful

certain feelings you choose. Some ppl can choose to fall in love with love and thus fall into the idea that they're in love. I've done it b4 so i know the difference. If i thought i was good enough to give this girl everything she needed i'd take her up in a heartbeat but i'd rather see her happy with someone else than sad with me, its deeper than that but i think thats love and i know its not something i choose she pretty much just walked into my life and proved herself to be amazing...like getting hit by a car....and tbh i find the feelings irritating and annoying because they only lower my self-esteem every time i think of them...

NVM ill end up bursting your bubble GL on loving someone you want 2 not love..

XemnasXD · Post by **XemnasXD** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 7:54 am

Silver0 wrote:
XemnasXD wrote:
Silver0 wrote:
XemnasXD wrote:
Silver0 wrote:My psychology teacher told me you cant fall in love but you can fall under lust.
love is a choice
and some other stuff but i found it very truthful he also said no matter what your gunna get sick of the person

had many GF's that said they loved me but in reality i knew it was lust.

never hurts to make yourself believe your in love but always connecting lust with love can make you really believe it and think your in love with certain qualities that if you wheren't under lust they wouldn't be really appealing

its always a confusing subject cuz the word love has A different meaning for everyone.

Sorry for incoherency
and to answer your queation
i Did but meh

not true....i've have no feelings of lust for this girl and im totally in love with her.....
then where does the untruth of what i said come in??
love is a choice like i said so your choosing to lover her when there isnt even lust that makes what i posted more truthful

certain feelings you choose. Some ppl can choose to fall in love with love and thus fall into the idea that they're in love. I've done it b4 so i know the difference. If i thought i was good enough to give this girl everything she needed i'd take her up in a heartbeat but i'd rather see her happy with someone else than sad with me, its deeper than that but i think thats love and i know its not something i choose she pretty much just walked into my life and proved herself to be amazing...like getting hit by a car....and tbh i find the feelings irritating and annoying because they only lower my self-esteem every time i think of them...

NVM ill end up bursting your bubble GL on loving someone you want 2 not love..

sounds like different outlooks on life...

Silver0 · Post by **Silver0** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 8:11 am

XemnasXD wrote:
Silver0 wrote:
XemnasXD wrote:
Silver0 wrote:
XemnasXD wrote:
Silver0 wrote:My psychology teacher told me you cant fall in love but you can fall under lust.
love is a choice
and some other stuff but i found it very truthful he also said no matter what your gunna get sick of the person

had many GF's that said they loved me but in reality i knew it was lust.

never hurts to make yourself believe your in love but always connecting lust with love can make you really believe it and think your in love with certain qualities that if you wheren't under lust they wouldn't be really appealing

its always a confusing subject cuz the word love has A different meaning for everyone.

Sorry for incoherency
and to answer your queation
i Did but meh

not true....i've have no feelings of lust for this girl and im totally in love with her.....
then where does the untruth of what i said come in??
love is a choice like i said so your choosing to lover her when there isnt even lust that makes what i posted more truthful

certain feelings you choose. Some ppl can choose to fall in love with love and thus fall into the idea that they're in love. I've done it b4 so i know the difference. If i thought i was good enough to give this girl everything she needed i'd take her up in a heartbeat but i'd rather see her happy with someone else than sad with me, its deeper than that but i think thats love and i know its not something i choose she pretty much just walked into my life and proved herself to be amazing...like getting hit by a car....and tbh i find the feelings irritating and annoying because they only lower my self-esteem every time i think of them...

NVM ill end up bursting your bubble GL on loving someone you want 2 not love..

sounds like different outlooks on life...

well re read what you said not flaming just sounds liek your confused
i said ppl view love differently

my definition has yet to been disapproved but opinions im open 2
and what you said sounded 2 me that your in a way do lust/love her but want to move on by saying you wish her the best but in reality you have low self esteem 2 begin with so you avoid a relationship
she doesnt cause the low self esteem, she just reminds you that you have it.
i liked alot of chicks like that and i gave one actually time and let her know i liked them and that i was there if they wanted something
make them decide if im good enough or not without me assuming ,
long story cut short
she ended up loving me and i ended up not,
and i thought the same hence the time
could be wrong

†erminal · Post by **†erminal** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 9:12 am

No.
I'm picky.

Casey613 · Post by **Casey613** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 9:14 am

HejsaN, I once got really wasted at a festival too, I was really young and I met this girl that took me to a park nearby and we sat under a tree, she took gud care of me and I really liked her, but we were only friends, this happend 6-7 years ago and now I'm a proud Godfather, I even got to pick the second name

I still got a 4 years old letter of her on my wallet haha

What I'm trying to say is, there are three kinds of love:
The awesome frustrating great awesome love that is when you just lose it.
The normal kind of love, which is when you got hurt in the past and don't want to have your heart broken again so you take it slowly, it's like liking someone but much greater.
And there's kind of love that you think is love but it's actually you being in love with love, hard to explain.

I think I've been infected with the first one :roll:

Sylhana · Post by **Sylhana** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 10:27 am

Silver0 wrote:
XemnasXD wrote:
Silver0 wrote:
XemnasXD wrote:
Silver0 wrote:
XemnasXD wrote:
Silver0 wrote:My psychology teacher told me you cant fall in love but you can fall under lust.
love is a choice
and some other stuff but i found it very truthful he also said no matter what your gunna get sick of the person

had many GF's that said they loved me but in reality i knew it was lust.

never hurts to make yourself believe your in love but always connecting lust with love can make you really believe it and think your in love with certain qualities that if you wheren't under lust they wouldn't be really appealing

its always a confusing subject cuz the word love has A different meaning for everyone.

Sorry for incoherency
and to answer your queation
i Did but meh

not true....i've have no feelings of lust for this girl and im totally in love with her.....
then where does the untruth of what i said come in??
love is a choice like i said so your choosing to lover her when there isnt even lust that makes what i posted more truthful

certain feelings you choose. Some ppl can choose to fall in love with love and thus fall into the idea that they're in love. I've done it b4 so i know the difference. If i thought i was good enough to give this girl everything she needed i'd take her up in a heartbeat but i'd rather see her happy with someone else than sad with me, its deeper than that but i think thats love and i know its not something i choose she pretty much just walked into my life and proved herself to be amazing...like getting hit by a car....and tbh i find the feelings irritating and annoying because they only lower my self-esteem every time i think of them...

NVM ill end up bursting your bubble GL on loving someone you want 2 not love..

sounds like different outlooks on life...

well re read what you said not flaming just sounds liek your confused
i said ppl view love differently

my definition has yet to been disapproved but opinions im open 2
and what you said sounded 2 me that your in a way do lust/love her but want to move on by saying you wish her the best but in reality you have low self esteem 2 begin with so you avoid a relationship
she doesnt cause the low self esteem, she just reminds you that you have it.
i liked alot of chicks like that and i gave one actually time and let her know i liked them and that i was there if they wanted something
make them decide if im good enough or not without me assuming ,
long story cut short
she ended up loving me and i ended up not,
and i thought the same hence the time
could be wrong

Love would make the most logically governed individual I know (me <.<) act irrationally. I have been in love, not many times mind you, and currently I'm in the same boat as XemnasXD is. I am in love, but I chose not to act on it. Hehe, its funny. I like the idea that I'm married to my work

.

Trice · Post by **Trice** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 10:57 am

†erminal wrote:No.
I'm picky.

like what he said.

even more picky now though. last time i was in love, she left me for my mate. i was not happy, to put it without swearing.

Luoma · Post by **Luoma** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 12:30 pm

I don't agree with you Silver0... How about when you love someone so much you would easily give your life for her?
Then it can't really be just lust for your own need though.

Swindler · Post by **Swindler** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 2:08 pm

Luoma wrote: How about when you love someone so much you would easily give your life for her?
Then it can't really be just lust for your own need though.

yeah you have a point in it, but you cant really love someone like after 2 months.. "i love you" is 3 strong words, and if you use them wrong you can hurt her.. I cant say that i love her but i can say i like her..

I think it is annoying when you see 14- old kids say to her gf that they love them after 1 day.

I have a friend that have been in love in a girl in like 5 years, and she still have say nothing. But he doesnt give up.. Thats true love in my opinion.

Swindler · Post by **Swindler** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 2:14 pm

pedohunter wrote:I'm in love with a big hairy teddy bear named kevin

talk to the hand cuz the face dont care

iGod · Post by **iGod** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 2:16 pm

I had some... flings, haven't found a satisfactory female yet tho. :p

Vibrator · Post by **Vibrator** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 2:17 pm

I cant say i "love" a girl since i am inly 14. And yes i sort of agree with Luoma. We all have a different aspect of love. My point of view from love is a girl that will be there that talks to me at night, And a girl that you can just plain out trust with all your secrets and dreams. you know what i mean? So i'm not going to say that i "love" her till i actually mean it.

Anyone else agree?

Swindler · Post by **Swindler** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 2:21 pm

pedohunter wrote:are you a virgin

you are stupid, what kind of question is that?

Swindler · Post by **Swindler** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 2:23 pm

pedo hunter i swear you are ZOMBIESANTA, same person.

Swindler · Post by **Swindler** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 2:26 pm

pedohunter wrote:
HejsaN wrote:pedo hunter i swear you are ZOMBIESANTA, same person.

I'm just here to bust that pedophile with my girlfriend in his avatar

do it then, dont ask stupid questions like that.