Bros before Hoes?

RuYi · Post by **RuYi** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 10:50 am

I think you need to find the balance.
It's no fun for your friends if you're with your girlfriend 24/7 as well it's not fun for your girlfriend if you're always hanging out with your friends.

None of them should claim you. If your friends think it's stupid or whatever if you don't want to hang out with em cuz you had plans with your girlfriend already, they're being stupid.

Same for the GF. If she's gonna claim the poor guy and telling him he can't see his friends anymore or even talk with them: SAD. Seriously sad.
I wouldn't accept it, it's rediculous. Also for your friends that you basically just ditch them cuz you got a claiming bf/gf and are too much of a wuss to tell him/her that it's totally bs.

I loved my bfs and I loved being around them, but they should still be able to hang out with friends and stuff like that.

iBilly · Post by **iBilly** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 10:51 am

I would say, whoever you made plans with first... stick to them.

If a special occasion is upcoming for either party, let the other party know you won't be available for *insert amount of time here*.

XemnasXD · Post by **XemnasXD** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 11:31 am

after reading all this stuff i figure if he thinks like this no matter how long we've been going out he'll always see ANY other friend of his as more important than me which is a shame cause i was his best friend at one point... so im breaking up with him today...maybe tomorrow...depends on when he finds time actually see me

iBilly · Post by **iBilly** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 11:36 am

If he's not willing to make time for you, then you're right to end it.

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 3:21 pm

XemnasXD wrote:
Dystopia wrote:If she a hoe, stay with your bro.

If shes aint, dont.

w-what......im asking if its to much to expect him NOT to always choose friends over me after we've been going out for like 1year and 8 months....no ones answering the question did i word it wrong???

Lol I've always thought you were a guy.

You seem like one.

iBilly · Post by **iBilly** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 3:28 pm

I also made the assumption that Xemnas was a guy.

(He might well be, just homosexually inclined).

I think it's because, unlike other females you see on the net, she doesn't make a point to inform others of her gender every now and again.

- Username not specific to either gender
- No colours in sig/avatar that would directly relate to a particular sex
- No casual flirting with other pixelated entities

Defyance™ · Post by **Defyance™** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 3:30 pm

hoes be4 bros man

ppl call me whipped...but **** it..i like to be with my better half..

right now its just that i dont have a better half..lol :cry:

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 3:42 pm

iBilly wrote:I also made the assumption that Xemnas was a guy.

(He might well be, just homosexually inclined).

I think it's because, unlike other females you see on the net, she doesn't make a point to inform others of her gender every now and again.

- Username not specific to either gender
- No colours in sig/avatar that would directly relate to a particular sex
- No casual flirting with other pixelated entities

But she acts like a guy lol.

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 3:43 pm

There's an in between you guys need to take. You give her too much attention and she may feel smothered. Not enough and she feels left out.

You can't make yourself seem obsessed. Lol you shouldn't be obsessed anyway.

iBilly · Post by **iBilly** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 3:46 pm

Blackchocob0 wrote:
iBilly wrote:I also made the assumption that Xemnas was a guy.

(He might well be, just homosexually inclined).

I think it's because, unlike other females you see on the net, she doesn't make a point to inform others of her gender every now and again.

- Username not specific to either gender
- No colours in sig/avatar that would directly relate to a particular sex
- No casual flirting with other pixelated entities

But she acts like a guy lol.

How so? How does a guy act?

Reise · Post by **Reise** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 5:48 pm

iBilly wrote:
Blackchocob0 wrote:
iBilly wrote:I also made the assumption that Xemnas was a guy.

(He might well be, just homosexually inclined).

I think it's because, unlike other females you see on the net, she doesn't make a point to inform others of her gender every now and again.

- Username not specific to either gender
- No colours in sig/avatar that would directly relate to a particular sex
- No casual flirting with other pixelated entities

But she acts like a guy lol.

How so? How does a guy act?

Xem's a guy. He said so awhile back. I'm pretty sure he said he was bi or something too.

Post by **dom** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 5:53 pm

Blackchocob0 wrote:
iBilly wrote:I also made the assumption that Xemnas was a guy.

(He might well be, just homosexually inclined).

I think it's because, unlike other females you see on the net, she doesn't make a point to inform others of her gender every now and again.

- Username not specific to either gender
- No colours in sig/avatar that would directly relate to a particular sex
- No casual flirting with other pixelated entities

But she acts like a guy lol.

She is a guy.

iBilly · Post by **iBilly** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 6:06 pm

Oh alright, that solves it then.

I asked if he was homosexual, but got no reply, so I just assumed not.

CrimsonNuker · Post by **CrimsonNuker** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 7:20 pm

Relationships are rarely long term. So yes bros before hoes.

UNLESS SEXY TIME OCCURS!

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:03 pm

iBilly wrote:
Blackchocob0 wrote:
iBilly wrote:I also made the assumption that Xemnas was a guy.

(He might well be, just homosexually inclined).

I think it's because, unlike other females you see on the net, she doesn't make a point to inform others of her gender every now and again.

- Username not specific to either gender
- No colours in sig/avatar that would directly relate to a particular sex
- No casual flirting with other pixelated entities

But she acts like a guy lol.

How so? How does a guy act?

You're a guy. You tell me. :roll:

StealMySoda · Post by **StealMySoda** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:10 pm

Can't believe I'm saying this, but I agree with chocob. Smothering is bad, everyone needs their room to breathe.

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:27 pm

Oh since you agree with me that must mean I'm not completely retarded then.

Get over it if you don't like my attitude. It's so lame how I've seen like 2 people in the last 2 days say 'even though i dont like choco i have to agree bla bla'...

Lol there will always be haters...

StealMySoda · Post by **StealMySoda** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:29 pm

Blackchocob0 wrote:Oh since you agree with me that must mean I'm not completely retarded then.

Get over it if you don't like my attitude. It's so lame how I've seen like 2 people in the last 2 days say 'even though i dont like choco i have to agree bla bla'...

Lol there will always be haters...

I never said I don't like your attitude. Its just that I don't find myself agreeing with you very often.

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:31 pm

I get that out of you though. I suppose I'm wrong.

Post by **dom** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:52 pm

Blackchocob0 wrote:Lol there will always be haters...

That's because you got so much game.

Nuklear · Post by **Nuklear** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:53 pm

dom wrote:
Blackchocob0 wrote:Lol there will always be haters...

That's because you got so much game.

lmao

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 9:36 pm

dom wrote:
Blackchocob0 wrote:Lol there will always be haters...

That's because you got so much game.

Why you gotta talk shit?

I have no game at all.

IceCrash · Post by **IceCrash** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 9:47 pm

I think it depends on the situations

Draquish · Post by **Draquish** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 10:23 pm

He's being too awkward.

Dump the weirdo.

iBilly · Post by **iBilly** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 11:03 pm

dom wrote:
Blackchocob0 wrote:Lol there will always be haters...

That's because you got so much game.

lol

[SD]Master_Wong · Post by **[SD]Master_Wong** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 11:18 pm

i know how it should but when you first get with a girl your all over each other even if you dont intend to your gona be ditching your friends until the big this is new type of thing calms down, unless your doing flings then its not fair on your mates

non ego man · Post by **non ego man** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 11:23 pm

iBilly wrote:...No colours in sig/avatar that would directly relate to a particular sex...

Are you talking about Xemnas' avy, because while there may not be any "colors that directly relate to a particular sex" it is an animation of two guys humping. I'll now direct your attention to his sig and let you come to your own conclusion.

Xemnas, I think you're right to break up with him. You've been going out for a while but it sounds like he's not interested anymore. Just from the way you're talking, that's the impression I get.

Draquish · Post by **Draquish** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 11:26 pm

I agree with the last paragraphy thingie NeM said.

Btw, why does Xemma's gender matter?

No offense Xemmy...but I really don't CARE what your gender is, nor your sexual preferences. Put an apple in my mouth and call me Stacey.

XemnasXD · Post by **XemnasXD** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 11:27 pm

iBilly wrote:I also made the assumption that Xemnas was a guy.

(He might well be, just homosexually inclined).

I think it's because, unlike other females you see on the net, she doesn't make a point to inform others of her gender every now and again.

- Username not specific to either gender
- No colours in sig/avatar that would directly relate to a particular sex
- No casual flirting with other pixelated entities

-Xemnas is a guys name
-I thought my guys humping in the corner was being subtle
-I don't flirt with ppl i dunno o0

Im Bi i said this all before

Anyway i went over over there today to break it off and since none of his friends came over we got some time and i remembered why i got out with him in the first place >> *shallow*. So im not gonna force a break up i'll just let our relationship die if it comes to that or wait until i find someone better which might not be to soon cute chick sits next to me in Chem Class ^^ azn

non ego man · Post by **non ego man** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 11:32 pm

[SD]draquish wrote:Btw, why does Xemma's gender matter?

I think they were just surprised when Xemnas talked about having a boyfriend and didn't consider the bi/gay possibility until after a few posts.

I've found that it can get messy if you let the relationship wither away. Personally, I'd bite the bullet and move on. Just my opinion.

I want to ask a question...at what point would you mention that you are bi to someone you would like to have (or are in) a relationship with? Do you mention it right off the bat, in case it turns out to be a deal breaker? Do you let the topic come up naturally and be honest but don't push the issue yourself? Do you try and keep it a secret and hope you never have to cross that bridge?