What age were you when you lost your..

[SD]Master_Wong · Post by **[SD]Master_Wong** » Mon Jul 16, 2007 10:10 pm

XemnasXD wrote:alright all kids out of the pool the grown-ups are talking again seriously guys a flame was answered with a flame lets not keep responding with more flames for we'll have a Hindenburg on our hands...

OT:

i know alot of ppl like to be mature and say sex isn't a big deal but it seems like even for those who've had sex it's still the finish line/peak of any relationship. I don't mean the deep long lasting relationships but you know the "theres that hot chick, god she's got great tits i wanna be with her" relationships.....

So my question is for those who've had it and i want a real answer not what your think your parents would say. Is sex the high point, the finish line, the ultimate goal of any casual relationship your in and if so if don't think its such a big deal why put so much priority on it?

Signed,
Young and Restless

thats what i mean by calm relationship kinda sex isnt everything its the little things that matter and dont say there not i know this much

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Mon Jul 16, 2007 10:21 pm

If sex was unimportant, why do we think about it so often?

PsYch008 · Post by **PsYch008** » Mon Jul 16, 2007 10:22 pm

Blackchocob0 wrote:If sex was unimportant, why do we think about it so often?

cuz its fun.

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Mon Jul 16, 2007 10:39 pm

All I'm gonna say is that a relationship with bad sex or no sex will not last long with your average people.

If you don't need sex at least occasionally, you're not a normal person. That shit is in our genes.

I forget that I'm speaking to 95% pre 16 year olds where sex isn't as big, however...

[SD]Master_Wong · Post by **[SD]Master_Wong** » Mon Jul 16, 2007 10:40 pm

PsYch008 wrote:
Blackchocob0 wrote:If sex was unimportant, why do we think about it so often?

cuz its fun.

+1

Post by **dom** » Mon Jul 16, 2007 10:41 pm

Blackchocob0 wrote:If sex was unimportant, why do we think about it so often?

You don't after your hormones have calmed down.

PsYch008 · Post by **PsYch008** » Mon Jul 16, 2007 10:42 pm

dom wrote:
Blackchocob0 wrote:If sex was unimportant, why do we think about it so often?

You don't after your hormones have calmed down.

not as much, but you still think about it, unless you arent human...

Post by **dom** » Mon Jul 16, 2007 10:44 pm

PsYch008 wrote:
dom wrote:
Blackchocob0 wrote:If sex was unimportant, why do we think about it so often?

You don't after your hormones have calmed down.

not as much, but you still think about it, unless you arent human...

Sex is always desired. But you don't give it the same value you did before, you search for permanence. Sex, through relationship. Not relationship through sex.

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Mon Jul 16, 2007 10:48 pm

What about casual sex with friends? If you're both mature enough to get down and not be weird about it afterward, I see nothing wrong what-so-ever.

**** buddies who are actually friends.

Draquish · Post by **Draquish** » Mon Jul 16, 2007 11:37 pm

Blackchocob0 wrote:What about casual sex with friends? If you're both mature enough to get down and not be weird about it afterward, I see nothing wrong what-so-ever.

**** buddies who are actually friends.

I have one of those...but it's awkward when one is single and the other one is not =/

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Mon Jul 16, 2007 11:40 pm

Haha just be ready for somebody to jump in your car and pull you out by your hair if you got a girl who'se cheating on somebody with you. :wink:

Mugen† · Post by **Mugen†** » Mon Jul 16, 2007 11:43 pm

Elikapeka wrote:
Mugen† wrote:your poor poor bro i feel sry for the guy
i have younger sister and i realy would NOT!! like to see her end up whit my best m8 for her first time

lol, he didn't speak to either of us for almost two weeks after he found out. but we're all buddies still and he only gets angry and upset if we go somewhere without him. :\ guess he doesn't trust his pure, innocent baby sister.

i can bet you hes said next thing to himslef

DAM DAM DAM DAM!!!! soft heart i hate my soft 4giving heart

i know i say that a lot of times ...darn softy

now that would be to much even i would not ever ever!! let u2 alone in that point of veiw would lose my trust 4ever (telling this coz i dont think i would last two weeks :oops:

not at least on my sister...m8? hes whole other story am not sure i would 4give him)

Blackchocob0 wrote:What about casual sex with friends? If you're both mature enough to get down and not be weird about it afterward, I see nothing wrong what-so-ever.

**** buddies who are actually friends.

thats.....WRONG :shock:

but thats just my opinion

Draquish · Post by **Draquish** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:05 am

Blackchocob0 wrote:Haha just be ready for somebody to jump in your car and pull you out by your hair if you got a girl who'se cheating on somebody with you.

I mean that there's tension, and somewhat of a "guilty" feeling when your or her are single and the other one is not...because we you would only get "friendly" when both of ya'll are single.

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:05 am

Whatever floats your boat.

I wonder at people who put such a huge emphasis on sex.

I've said it myself that sex with somebody you have strong feelings for or even love is a completely different experience than sex with somebody you just met a day before and who made your jaw drop and had you go 'daaaaaaaaaaaaaammmnnnnn! Wassup mama!!'

But still, the second kind of sex is very fun. :wink:

Nothing wrong with it at all, in my opinion.

Except that kind of sexual behavior helps to spread STD's I guess...

Elikapeka · Post by **Elikapeka** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:28 am

XemnasXD wrote:So my question is for those who've had it and i want a real answer not what your think your parents would say. Is sex the high point, the finish line, the ultimate goal of any casual relationship your in and if so if don't think its such a big deal why put so much priority on it?

Personal opinion, casual relationship = casual sex. I definitely think it's the high point and usually the main focus of whatever connection you have with the other person.

But when you get into the deeper, long-term relationships it's sort of the cherry on top of the banana split. Y'know it's there and you can have it whenever you want to but you always seem to save it for a "special" bite. No, that's not always the case, but this is still my personal opinion. And I think even at the starting of long-term relationships sex is a big deal. It's a physical way for the two of you to get a feel and understanding of the other, sort of solidify whatever mental and emotional connection and chemistry you have together. It's something intimate that you share because you want to be close in every way. Commit-a-phobs beware.

Grimjaw · Post by **Grimjaw** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:34 am

Went on summer vacation.

Met a nice girl who i liked and in reverse.

Made sweet summer love. :love:

Age 15.

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:39 am

XemnasXD wrote:So my question is for those who've had it and i want a real answer not what your think your parents would say. Is sex the high point, the finish line, the ultimate goal of any casual relationship your in and if so if don't think its such a big deal why put so much priority on it?

By casual relationship are you implying that it's already established that you don't think you'll fall in love with that person and that it's just a temporary thing? If so then yes, good sex is the main priority.

Think about it: If you're in a 'casual' relationship with somebody and you aren't trying to have sex...how is it at all different from just being friends? I have some female friends that I'm very close to but not physically intimate with...but we're almost like a couple, the way we get along and kick it...

So therefore, sex is my goal in a casual relationship.

If it's somebody who I feel like I want to be with forever, sex is definetely not the finish line. Having a magical connection love-wise would be my high priority. However, I have a feeling that good sex ties in with that magical love connection...

Hmm BTW how is it that I'm still the only one to vote 19? Haha I wouldn't trust those results for shit.

Isis · Post by **Isis** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:45 am

I was 14 and I do regret it...

Grimjaw · Post by **Grimjaw** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:48 am

Bastet wrote:I was 14 and I do regret it...

That's to bad then,since time cannot be re-winded.. :oops:

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:53 am

Yes...I regret my first time. I think I already talked about it.

If I had been sober I wouldn't have fucken touched her.

I needed a place to stay, I was drunk and fuct up on um jeeze I gotta make a list HAHAHA:

Kalanapen
weed
hash
opium

Beer....

...I was absolutely taken advantage of LOLOL.

I spent the whole next day wanting to sock myself in the face, I literally felt dirty.

I am so regretful I didn't lose my virginity to a way fine chick. Or even better to a fine ass chick that I really really like.

Post by **dom** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 1:19 am

Blackchocob0 wrote:I needed a place to stay, I was drunk and fuct up on um jeeze I gotta make a list HAHAHA:

Kalanapen
weed
hash
opium

Beer....

noooway dudde that's like totally rad!

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 1:28 am

Know what's radder? Your gay pink bullshit.

And your 'elite' forum attitude, the same exact attitude that Bake and Nightbloom carry around.

Think whatever you want fuckhead, I know when I'm tryin to brag and when I'm not.

I don't brag cos I don't need to. :wink:

See I was leading up to my point that I did something I wouldn't have because I wasn't sober, and I told you guys why.

Somehow that's bragging to pinky though.
:roll:

_wolf_ · Post by **_wolf_** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 1:30 am

passed opportunities...not doin first time with someone i cant even stand whether or not there hot

14 here...thank you god im not in an all guy school i feel sorry for you guys

Crumpets · Post by **Crumpets** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 1:38 am

Oh btw:

Does NOT count as losing your virginity. Just to clear that up with some of the 12 yr olds :roll:

Post by **dom** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 1:41 am

Blackchocob0 wrote:Know what's radder? Your gay pink bullshit.

And your 'elite' forum attitude, the same exact attitude that Bake and Nightbloom carry around.

Think whatever you want fuckhead, I know when I'm tryin to brag and when I'm not.

I don't brag cos I don't need to.

See I was leading up to my point that I did something I wouldn't have because I wasn't sober, and I told you guys why.

Somehow that's bragging to pinky though.

It's sort of arrogant to think I thought you were bragging. To me, bragging would have to be about something good. Being a druggie isn't exactly cool anymore, not past the 8th grade anyways.

That opium part is retro, that's vert rad. I didn't know people still do it, in it's pure form anyways.

And sorry you feel that way, I just wanted to be friends :love:

Blackchocob0 · Post by **Blackchocob0** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 1:45 am

Being a druggie was never 'cool' to me or my friends. I take the drugs I take to have a fun ass time. People give me shit for it, so obviously I don't think it makes me look cool.

Oh and if I see an 8th grader smoking bud it makes me shake my head. You have a wrong opinion about me.

I've tried opium twice. Both times it was mixed with weed and hash as well...those three get you so out of your head...

It's not very big, but sometimes it's around...there are hippies in my area, which explains it.

Nuklear · Post by **Nuklear** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 1:48 am

LOL Crumpets!

OT: Almost 21 and still a virgin.

MastaChiefX · Post by **MastaChiefX** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 2:52 am

Any disagreements I had with blackchocobo are now void.

I offically love you.

Silkroad · Post by **Silkroad** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 3:06 am

no1 wants to have sex with teh silkroad...
girls ask me my name... i say silkroad.... they say silkroad? yea i played that game, its shit... then i cry ... the closest ive gotten to having sex is a slap in the face ...

on topic: 16

EDIT : accidentally put 15 instead of 16 LOL

Itonami · Post by **Itonami** » Tue Jul 17, 2007 3:11 am

14

Don't regret it.. it was just.. awkward.
Some things had trouble fitting. Rofl.

Won't go into much detail but i've only been with one guy and he was my first<3

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