Its never the same is it.

MastaChiefX · Post by **MastaChiefX** » Tue May 15, 2007 11:41 pm

Wow.
Just friends.
I hate that shit so much. I just got that, but its like, I dont want to be your friend lol.

PureOwnage · Post by **PureOwnage** » Wed May 16, 2007 12:08 am

To put it quite poetically, Love is like a flower, nurture it and it will bloom and live for quite sometime. Disreguard the flower and treat it badly and it will wither and die.

Also once the flower has bloomed and died it can never be the same as it once was

thus it lays down seeds and blooms anew later on. Thus allowing for many more flowers to bloom over the years to come

I myself personally have experianced the greatest loss when it comes to love. I lost that person to death. So it will take longer for my "flower" to bloom again, but for you it will hopefully come sooner

BrokenSaint · Post by **BrokenSaint** » Wed May 16, 2007 1:39 am

*sniff* that was beautiful PureOwnage

lol

cin · Post by **cin** » Wed May 16, 2007 1:42 am

darn KJ sad story

i have to see how it will go between me and my gf in august, when i come
back from 6 months abroad. so far so good but you never know.

hitokiri · Post by **hitokiri** » Wed May 16, 2007 7:26 am

I would say you take a risk of not being as close to try and get closer. Its is horrible when you dont have things work out...but when you do, it almost all seems worth it.

Key-J · Post by **Key-J** » Wed May 16, 2007 7:52 am

Holy Crap, blast from the PAST!

I thought this thread was lost with the...

"Incident"

<.< >.>

Bakemaster · Post by **Bakemaster** » Wed May 16, 2007 1:32 pm

HTVHitokiri wrote:I would say you take a risk of not being as close to try and get closer. Its is horrible when you dont have things work out...but when you do, it almost all seems worth it.

When you do, it is worth it. Having things not work out is bad. It hurts a lot and it takes a while to stop hurting. But not having tried is worse.

A lot of the time "just friends" doesn't work because the two people involved feel like they can't be close at all if they aren't going to be close romantically or sexually. But that's silly—there are many kinds of intimacy, and the basic ingredient is always honesty. If you were friends to start with, and you both want to stay friends, a little truth goes a long way. Try not to think about what other people say, what other people do, what happens on TV, and etc, because the only ones with real power over a relationship are the two people in that relationship. "It can't work" only means that one or both of you are too scared to make it work.

PureOwnage · Post by **PureOwnage** » Wed May 16, 2007 8:14 pm

BrokenSaint wrote:*sniff* that was beautiful PureOwnage

lol

ty

Anh_Hung_Rom · Post by **Anh_Hung_Rom** » Wed May 16, 2007 8:29 pm

PureOwnage wrote:Also once the flower has bloomed and died it can never be the same as it once was thus it lays down seeds and blooms anew later on. Thus allowing for many more flowers to bloom over the years to come

I concur that part. It's weird after things have been done, words have been said.

PureOwnage · Post by **PureOwnage** » Wed May 16, 2007 8:30 pm

Anh_Hung_Rom wrote:
PureOwnage wrote:Also once the flower has bloomed and died it can never be the same as it once was thus it lays down seeds and blooms anew later on. Thus allowing for many more flowers to bloom over the years to come

I concur that part. It's weird after things have been done, words have been said.

Yep its nearly impossible to go back to the origional way the relationship was before said occurances.