Its never the same is it.

Key-J · Post by **Key-J** » Wed Dec 06, 2006 12:38 pm

See girls are mean, they take pleasure in others suffering

O and the power they have over men... With their puppy dog pout... Its unfair.. they can get us to do.. like almost anything..

Draquish · Post by **Draquish** » Wed Dec 06, 2006 12:57 pm

Key-J wrote:See girls are mean, they take pleasure in others suffering

O and the power they have over men... With their puppy dog pout... Its unfair.. they can get us to do.. like almost anything..

+1

Back on topic:

My gfs dad........

nothing more 2 say.....oh yeah....HES HUGE!! :shock:

RuYi · Post by **RuYi** » Wed Dec 06, 2006 1:19 pm

Key-J wrote:See girls are mean, they take pleasure in others suffering

O and the power they have over men... With their puppy dog pout... Its unfair.. they can get us to do.. like almost anything..

True. But it's mere returning karma, pay back for the violence.

Key-J · Post by **Key-J** » Wed Dec 06, 2006 1:32 pm

Dont lie, your female.. U live on our foolishnes.. N if ur BF was a complete jerk, well thats just crap for him... N his karma that u no longer date...

Post by **dom** » Wed Dec 06, 2006 8:27 pm

**** karma and being a tool. That's why I beat my women.

Kitty · Post by **Kitty** » Wed Dec 06, 2006 8:30 pm

Key-J wrote:Dont lie, your female.. U live on our foolishnes.. N if ur BF was a complete jerk, well thats just crap for him... N his karma that u no longer date...

*looks at zune*
*looks at necklace*
*looks at dress*

thank you bf :love:

jk jk....but my bf did get me all of those

Nuklear · Post by **Nuklear** » Wed Dec 06, 2006 8:31 pm

dom wrote:**** karma and being a tool. That's why I beat my women.

lol

Talk about a stereotype

Website · Post by **satman83** » Wed Dec 06, 2006 9:02 pm

Basicly if you cannot tell that your best mate doesnt really like you
when you ask her/him out then your a re.tared.

But if its clear that they fancy you then go for it ok.

Deacon · Post by **Deacon** » Thu Dec 07, 2006 3:59 pm

draquish wrote:My gfs dad........

nothing more 2 say.....oh yeah....HES HUGE!!

I had some advantage their. My girlfriends parents are deforced ( seperate ? Dnno in english sorry

) ( he lives to far away etc works too much ) So i only had too meet the mother. Was better then meeting them both at once i guess

lexies2 · Post by **lexies2** » Thu Dec 07, 2006 4:23 pm

Lol the last time i snapped at a boy was like 4days ago and lemme tell you it surely was not my fault :wink:

Key-J · Post by **Key-J** » Sat Dec 09, 2006 4:25 pm

U know what, **** her!

Kitty · Post by **Kitty** » Sat Dec 09, 2006 4:34 pm

Key-J wrote:U know what, **** her!

Owned, huh.

Key-J · Post by **Key-J** » Sun Dec 10, 2006 2:53 am

Um... Yah kinda, she still loved the present, but before anything she gave the first slice of cake to, sumoneelse...

kome566 · Post by **kome566** » Sun Dec 10, 2006 5:38 am

was it the "someone" who "told" her parents? :shock:

Anh_Hung_Rom · Post by **Anh_Hung_Rom** » Sun Dec 10, 2006 6:49 am

keyJ bro... I'm also tired of the mind game girls put up. WTF? we're NOT SMART. We DON'T understand your little games. We see what we see, hear what we hear. Don't play your casual cake giving game! Either 1 = you like us, or 0 = no, no chance. And we don't know that a tree is the symbol our love and killing it means we kill the love. Don't give us trees!Sex is always welcome though!

man I get confused with girls. Seriously...

This is my story. I'm wordy as usual so if you don't want to feel bored, don't read. Go grind!

<rant>
I've been dating for what only 5.5 years? We met in college and we did just fine when we were away all those college years. I mean some years we don't see each other for 2-3 months. Soon after i got a job, she's done w/ college and got a job. Now she's head-over-heel with work, studying, side projects, her family bullshit.

Of course, all the stress she's got from these non-Rom sources, she takes it on me and my game playing habit. God dam! I've been playing games since I met you??? *banghead* And I do try to balance girl and game (sometimes I don't cut the pie evenly but I try k?) Now all of the sudden, she's the adult one and looks at me like an immature game junkie. OK.

Anyway, I don't like to loose what we have. 6 years is a freaking long ass time and obviously we had something in common. HAD. I want to see fun, energetic, smiles, happiness not the frown face all the time. she don't laugh no more. It used to be fun. I do stupid thing, say random stuff, she laughs. I can't do that now. the air is unnatural, uncomfortable between us.

I'm trying to be supportive. I try to tell her to lay off some of the stuff because the stress is killing her. I told her she'll feel better after this season. I think she thinks I'm a freaking slacker, that's why I say so (I emphasize 'I think'). I just bought her a nice necklace. I know she would like it; she bought one and returned it because she felt bad about spending the money. I'm gonna be a freaking UN peacemaker, again.

oh i forgot. We had a plan to go to Vietnam this winter to see her parents - I didn't talk to them once for 6 years because I'm a chicken on the phone. So we planned this trip for like half a year, bought the tickets for us and my parents.

Now guess what? She changed her mind and doesn't want to go! She says she doesn't want to see her dad because her dad has these expectations on her that she couldn't do and thus she feels like she disappointed him. Just one of the BSs that make me kinda resent the man already. I kept telling her to break away from the Confucianism thinking. Dad can't run your life forever. Once I thought I had her and then boom, back to where it was.

So yeah, we have our bullsh*t this winter. We never were so seperated before.

<end rant>

Nuklear · Post by **Nuklear** » Sun Dec 10, 2006 7:18 am

I'd say the best thing you could do is show her what you just wrote rom. It's straight from the heart. :love:

Thx 4 the reading material.

Key-J · Post by **Key-J** » Sun Dec 10, 2006 3:23 pm

kome566 wrote:was it the "someone" who "told" her parents?

Nah, this was some guy, a friend of mine she met during the SEASAC (South East Asia Sport and Arts Competition) whilst i was away back home in Colombia.

The cake, well i didnt mind to much, but then his hand, and the kiss... Thats when i lost it, went to where she had placed my present ( $200 Tiffany & Co. "Please return to tiffany" collection heart shaped studds. Which where given to her when she was young, and meant the WORLD to her, which she had lost a week and a bit before, thus it took me a long time to track those down, and SHIP them into Indonesia so i could give them to her) ripped of tha card which had something written in it, and just forggot about it all...

The worst thing of all, is that the guy was like, pissing me off. Like when we were leaving, my two friends said bye first, then as im leaning in to say goodbye, he GRABS her, and starts making out with ther, right there and then... I was like WTF?! Wait like 20 seconds, untill they are done... and then say goodbye... I swear yesterday was absolute BULL!!!

Well at least, now i know the truth...

Anh_Hung_Rom · Post by **Anh_Hung_Rom** » Sun Dec 10, 2006 5:35 pm

that pisses me right off. bullcrap

In in front of u? geesus. the gut of that girl... I thought her parents don't like her to have bf.

WTH? Man forget her. I reallize you lost a friend because you liked her and she sorta betray all the caring, loving... But hey, anyone with a lick of sense wouldn't make out to another person when they know you care about them.

Rockshmo · Post by **Rockshmo** » Sun Dec 10, 2006 9:02 pm

dom wrote:You should make her realize you don't need to go out to have sex.

Quite true.

Also, act like you don't need em. Girls go nuts when they can't have what they want.

Edit: Damn KeyJ.. I just read what she did at her party.. apparently she pulled the parent bullshit just to get rid of you. That's weak, **** that bitch dude she's not worth it no matter how you think of it. I know you're still young but it's about prime time for you to brush off this relationship garbage and start pimpin. I stopped doin the relationship shit a while ago and I'm just seein a girl now, basically.. we just chill and do it all the time. No restraints of any type.

Kitty · Post by **Kitty** » Sun Dec 10, 2006 11:56 pm

Ouch.

Anh_Hung_Rom · Post by **Anh_Hung_Rom** » Mon Dec 11, 2006 2:25 am

apparently she pulled the parent bullshit just to get rid of you. That's weak, **** that bitch dude she's not worth it no matter how you think of it. I know you're still young but it's about prime time for you to brush off this relationship

I agree THAT much. She's playing your for the gift, leading you on bro.

Key-J · Post by **Key-J** » Mon Dec 11, 2006 3:06 am

Yah, man... I swear... ARG!!

Everything was a lie, i was just used to get over her ex... One she had for like 7 months.. N then she uses me to get over him. Feels better and BAM...

I hate to admit it, but i was PwNeD by love!

So yah, i agree with yall.. Time to move on, go for something else, n even though satarday was like, Crapola! Im kinda thnxfull for it, cuz now i really know, that there is no lil hope and can move on....

But thnz guys yah, for advice...

Anh_Hung_Rom · Post by **Anh_Hung_Rom** » Mon Dec 11, 2006 11:03 am

yeah boi, experiencing life - one nightstand at a time. SHOUT OUT MY MOTTO!!!

i keed, i keed.

Rockshmo · Post by **Rockshmo** » Tue Dec 12, 2006 6:23 am

Anh_Hung_Rom wrote:one nightstand at a time.

That's the only way to roll..

Key-J · Post by **Key-J** » Tue Dec 12, 2006 10:25 am

Not the only way to roll.. Sometimes, rolling with someone is bettah, especially if thats rollin in bed :wink:

Priam · Post by **Priam** » Tue Dec 12, 2006 12:30 pm

damn.. sad story man, i feel for ya..

XuChu · Post by **XuChu** » Wed Dec 13, 2006 7:11 am

Key-J wrote:
kome566 wrote:was it the "someone" who "told" her parents?

Nah, this was some guy, a friend of mine she met during the SEASAC (South East Asia Sport and Arts Competition) whilst i was away back home in Colombia.

The cake, well i didnt mind to much, but then his hand, and the kiss... Thats when i lost it, went to where she had placed my present ( $200 Tiffany & Co. "Please return to tiffany" collection heart shaped studds. Which where given to her when she was young, and meant the WORLD to her, which she had lost a week and a bit before, thus it took me a long time to track those down, and SHIP them into Indonesia so i could give them to her) ripped of tha card which had something written in it, and just forggot about it all...

The worst thing of all, is that the guy was like, pissing me off. Like when we were leaving, my two friends said bye first, then as im leaning in to say goodbye, he GRABS her, and starts making out with ther, right there and then... I was like WTF?! Wait like 20 seconds, untill they are done... and then say goodbye... I swear yesterday was absolute BULL!!!

Well at least, now i know the truth...

gratz, u are now one step closer to priesthood

edit:i dont mean it in a bad way.

XuChu · Post by **XuChu** » Wed Dec 13, 2006 7:19 am

man, its suppose to be the time of the year when everyones happy doesnt matter where u come from, europe/america etc etc u hav christmas China u got new year. But I've had the most depressing couple of weeks, so depressing i cant even sleep.Think im going to go crazy soon :S
I'm sure u are very sad also.

ShizKnight · Post by **ShizKnight** » Wed Dec 13, 2006 8:05 am

draquish wrote:
Key-J wrote:See girls are mean, they take pleasure in others suffering

O and the power they have over men... With their puppy dog pout... Its unfair.. they can get us to do.. like almost anything..

+1

Back on topic:

My gfs dad........

nothing more 2 say.....oh yeah....HES HUGE!!

I lol'd at first. Then I slapped myself for being an idiot.

Draquish · Post by **Draquish** » Tue May 15, 2007 11:28 pm

@ Poster above: Dot dot dot...

anyhow.

DraQ's Story:

Hello, my name is Draquish; and this is my story.
My gf is two years older than me, I'll start with that, even though it doesn't mean much...it's an ice breaker; on to my story. She is bi-sexual. She's had many family problems, like her dad cheating on all his gfs, and so on and so forth. Her dad is a total jerk, her mom being the opposite. Now, enough background, on to me. I used to be the kind of person who: 1)Plays the girl 2)Gets what he wants 3)Leave, look for next victim. Rinse/repeat. But last year, I decided to make a change in my life, and since then have dated 3 girls on a more "serious" matter. Now, I dated some chick, which turned out to be a horrible/awkward relationship...and the relationship died. While I was w/ the awkwardness girl, I met my current gf. So we start talking more and more...and one day her sister(who I've known for 1year.) tells me that she's into me. Without thinking twice I embark on this relationship. *skips a while*. She's anti-social/I'm the opposite. She dresses dark/I'm the opposite. She's always been a "sad" person/I'm the opposite. Lets just say it's an emo/prep relationship.(To stereotype it a bit) Ok. She once thought about leaving me, and going w/ her ex. Which she was IN LOVE with. But he treats her like cheesenips. She finally realized how great I am. *skips a few*. Now we're in love. The thing is, every1 of her ex's that I've met(she stays friends w/ ALL of her exs...I couldn't really do that...you would know why if you read this whole story >_>) is really on to her. Of course I always take her away from him whenever he tries to flirt...and then rub it in his face. But all of my gf's exs are OBSESSED w/ the girl. Anyhow, I told her my story. I confessed that I've changed, she cried because she <3's me and she doesn't want to get hurt, and believed(or does) that I'll go back to the old me. *skips a few more*. Anyhow, things are going great now. I'll update when I have any "current" problems. Thanks for reading part 1 of:

DraQ's Story

Thank you.

(The story was bits and pieces...no time for writing full story ATM.)