Do you?

Tasdik · Post by **Tasdik** » Tue May 20, 2014 4:43 pm

Play fair in love and war?

Or do you consider everything to be fair?

Or is there a certain line that you draw. And if so, what is it?

*BlackFox · Post by *BlackFox » Tue May 20, 2014 6:56 pm

What kind of war? xD

Tasdik · Post by **Tasdik** » Tue May 20, 2014 7:36 pm

I call it the "who's getting to put their dick in "x" orifice" war.

Or WGTPTDIXO, for short.

poehalcho · Post by **poehalcho** » Tue May 20, 2014 10:25 pm

What exactly is considered unfair?
blackmail :P?

BuDo · Post by **BuDo** » Tue May 20, 2014 10:42 pm

I try to play fair in nearly all cases/instances...But I also will mirror the unfairness that's being played towards me...

TheDrop · Post by **TheDrop** » Wed May 21, 2014 12:25 am

wat.

afaik nothings fair, trying to play fair just opens you up to getting screwed over.

Tasdik · Post by **Tasdik** » Wed May 21, 2014 1:42 am

My deal is this, there's a girl, who has a boyfriend, and I'm interested. But I feel bad about potentially making a "move" because I feel like it's a shady thing to do.

But on the other hand, not making a move would mean we'd never have a chance, however slim it may be.

#tryingnottobeahomewrecker

#butprobablygoingtobeoneanyways

iSinnnn · Post by **iSinnnn** » Wed May 21, 2014 2:04 am

just do it and be happy for a bit until she lets another guy come along and do the same to you. nbd

Post by **Gaigemasta** » Wed May 21, 2014 2:08 am

Tasdik, from experience don't do it. A lot of times if she's willing to cheat, she'll most likely end up doing it to you as well. Not always true but avoiding drama in life is always best. Hurting people to get what you want isn't the way someone should live.

Tasdik · Post by **Tasdik** » Wed May 21, 2014 3:01 am

For the record, I'd never let it progress anywhere "risque" while she is still with her boyfriend. That's not how I roll.

But my deal is this, isn't so wrong to be a bit flirty with her, nothing over the line of course, to kind of make her consider me as an option?

Like, I know I should just leave it alone and let her be happy with her BF. But what about my happiness? Do I do the noble thing and place her happiness above my own? Or do I try and at least put forth some effort to see if it'll go anywhere?

Post by **Blindfire** » Wed May 21, 2014 3:18 am

If she hasn't told you she has a boyfriend, be interested. If she has mentioned it, she probably did so to keep you from hitting on her.

BuDo · Post by **BuDo** » Wed May 21, 2014 5:11 am

Tasdik wrote:For the record, I'd never let it progress anywhere "risque" while she is still with her boyfriend. That's not how I roll.

But my deal is this, isn't so wrong to be a bit flirty with her, nothing over the line of course, to kind of make her consider me as an option?

Like, I know I should just leave it alone and let her be happy with her BF. But what about my happiness? Do I do the noble thing and place her happiness above my own? Or do I try and at least put forth some effort to see if it'll go anywhere?

Don't go further complicating things for yourself and possibly putting her in a uncomfortable and awkward position by flirting around... If you have to resort to that to win her from her man then that's probably not a good start to a relationship with her...If something develops naturally then that would be the best result in my opinion...

Tasdik · Post by **Tasdik** » Wed May 21, 2014 5:30 am

You know, come to think of it, she hasn't mentioned her boyfriend to me specifically...

BuDo wrote:
Don't go further complicating things for yourself and possibly putting her in a uncomfortable and awkward position by flirting around... If you have to resort to that to win her from her man then that's probably not a good start to a relationship with her...If something develops naturally then that would be the best result in my opinion...

I agree. That would be ideal.

Slight problem; She lives 12 hours away. Sooooo, at best I'll see her 2-3 times a year. So that complicates the whole "developing naturally" thing.

Grounded · Post by **Grounded** » Wed May 21, 2014 6:35 am

Tasdik wrote:My deal is this, there's a girl, who has a boyfriend, and I'm interested. But I feel bad about potentially making a "move" because I feel like it's a shady thing to do.

But on the other hand, not making a move would mean we'd never have a chance, however slim it may be.

#tryingnottobeahomewrecker
#butprobablygoingtobeoneanyways

That broke my home and my heart.

OT: 2~3 times a year ain't enough, besides, if she cheats for you she might cheat on you, its all about principles and values. Yet you might just give her the D and run away, that way is a 50% win (no love story / you get over with the fact that u want to have something with her).

#NuffSaid

PS: You can't make a post like this without posting a pic of her. No creepy thoughts intended (Can't promise that tho)

Tasdik · Post by **Tasdik** » Wed May 21, 2014 7:52 am

Grounded wrote:That broke my home and my heart.

OT: 2~3 times a year ain't enough, besides, if she cheats for you she might cheat on you, its all about principles and values. Yet you might just give her the D and run away, that way is a 50% win (no love story / you get over with the fact that u want to have something with her).

#NuffSaid

PS: You can't make a post like this without posting a pic of her. No creepy thoughts intended (Can't promise that tho)

I don't know how I feel about you doubting my seductive powers.

Also, I'm not trying to just bang her. Like I said, that's not how I roll. Plus, with a woman that special, she's totally worth waiting for.

P.S. I love you.

Oh, I should probably mention that this girl is my sister-in-law's sister. Because, you know, it wasn't complicated enough.

Grounded · Post by **Grounded** » Wed May 21, 2014 8:57 am

"P.S. I love you". Stop watching gay movies.

It's funny how you throw a fun fact about the girl in every comment you make lol, like shes 12h away, that she's your sister's sister in law. GIB ALL INFO OQE OR BB.

And yes, I know how you roll cuz u did that on me..

MrTwilliger · Post by **MrTwilliger** » Wed May 21, 2014 9:12 am

I've been cheated on by a few girlfriends so perhaps my opinion is incredibly biased. I truly believe that if she's willing to leave her boyfriend for you then she's not worth a second of your time. If she is with a person but is so quick to drop him then she has no idea what being in love actually is. Chances are she will just drop you for some other guy, too. If she's done it once why wouldn't she do it again? She's 12 hours away buddy and those cold lonely nights in Russia are tough. I have a big issue trusting people and someone like her just screams "back the fuck out Dylann."

Move to Australia. Come marry me. Kthnx

omier · Post by **omier** » Wed May 21, 2014 10:01 am

I'm kinda in a similar situation actually...

*BlackFox · Post by *BlackFox » Wed May 21, 2014 4:05 pm

Tasdik wrote:But on the other hand, not making a move would mean we'd never have a chance, however slim it may be.

Seriously, Just forget It... And move on!

I Am Vegeta · Post by **I Am Vegeta** » Wed May 21, 2014 4:44 pm

Tasdik wrote:My deal is this, there's a girl, who has a boyfriend, and I'm interested. But I feel bad about potentially making a "move" because I feel like it's a shady thing to do.

But on the other hand, not making a move would mean we'd never have a chance, however slim it may be.

#tryingnottobeahomewrecker

#butprobablygoingtobeoneanyways

you wanna pump and dump or you wanna make it your girl?

if it's the first thing then go ahead and it's not your problem if she's a sloot.

if it's the second option then i would just skip this one tbh, if she leave her bf for another guy that hit on her then she'll probably do the same to you, and even if she don't it'll bug you forever.

.curve · Post by **.curve** » Wed May 21, 2014 6:03 pm

I Am Vegeta wrote:
Tasdik wrote:My deal is this, there's a girl, who has a boyfriend, and I'm interested. But I feel bad about potentially making a "move" because I feel like it's a shady thing to do.

But on the other hand, not making a move would mean we'd never have a chance, however slim it may be.

#tryingnottobeahomewrecker

#butprobablygoingtobeoneanyways

you wanna pump and dump or you wanna make it your girl?

if it's the first thing then go ahead and it's not your problem if she's a sloot.

if it's the second option then i would just skip this one tbh, if she leave her bf for another guy that hit on her then she'll probably do the same to you, and even if she don't it'll bug you forever.

Actually, this is spot on.

If all it takes for you to get on her radar is a little flirting, then that's all it will take for the next guy and the next guy to get on her radar while she's with you.

Then even if she does pick you, there will always be that doubt in your mind, especially with a 12 hour difference, about whether or not she's going to stick around. That's toxic for a relationship right out the gate

Tasdik · Post by **Tasdik** » Wed May 21, 2014 9:33 pm

That moment when Vegeta actually makes sense...

I see the logic in y'alls points. It's just hard, not to be overly dramatic, but this is literally my dream girl in every single possible way. It'll be tough letting that go.

*packs his bags for Australia*

BuDo · Post by **BuDo** » Wed May 21, 2014 11:50 pm

Tasdik wrote:That moment when Vegeta actually makes sense...

No shit lol... Anyways time to start looking elsewhere...She's not the only person who can make you feel this way...Expand your gaze and you'll realize other possibilities...

Ganja · Post by **Ganja** » Thu May 22, 2014 2:10 am

If she's related to your sister-in-law then you might see her 2-3 times a year anyway. Get on her radar if/when she breaks up with her boyfriend be there to snatch her up.

Grounded · Post by **Grounded** » Thu May 22, 2014 4:02 am

Dear stranger,

Pease log off of Vegeta's account.

Sincerely,
SRF's Community.

Tasdik · Post by **Tasdik** » Thu May 22, 2014 4:42 am

So, before we wrap up this "wait and see what the **** happens" decision, I have a question.

Her graduation is next weekend. I'm contemplating on sending a framed "selfie" and being like "Bet you don't have one of these".

I love it for two reasons.

1.) Her BF will be sitting right there when she unwraps it.

2.) It's a "harmless" yet amusing gift to give someone. Because fake vanity is the best.

Thoughts?

Grounded · Post by **Grounded** » Thu May 22, 2014 1:18 pm

Dont make it a selfie.
Make it a Dickpick.

I Am Vegeta · Post by **I Am Vegeta** » Thu May 22, 2014 3:30 pm

Tasdik wrote:So, before we wrap up this "wait and see what the **** happens" decision, I have a question.

Her graduation is next weekend. I'm contemplating on sending a framed "selfie" and being like "Bet you don't have one of these".

I love it for two reasons.

1.) Her BF will be sitting right there when she unwraps it.

2.) It's a "harmless" yet amusing gift to give someone. Because fake vanity is the best.

Thoughts?

*BlackFox · Post by *BlackFox » Thu May 22, 2014 3:55 pm

Tasdik wrote:Her graduation is next weekend. I'm contemplating on sending a framed "selfie" and being like "Bet you don't have one of these".

If she is happy with her boyfriend.. and she is in love with him.
Why the hell do you want to "ruin their relationship?"

RoOF · Post by **RoOF** » Thu May 22, 2014 8:19 pm

*BlackFox wrote:
Tasdik wrote:Her graduation is next weekend. I'm contemplating on sending a framed "selfie" and being like "Bet you don't have one of these".
If she is happy with her boyfriend.. and she is in love with him.
Why the hell do you want to "ruin their relationship?"

we are talking about tasdick after all
he is a dick!

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