Amarisa wrote:
Right, but that still doesn't answer my question. If it comes to the point where you have to restrain them and pretty much do everything for them then why continue? Pretty much everything you do for the person isn't going to matter a lot because they will constantly need 100% of your attention. I am still talking about the severe cases not the mild to not so severe like with what the.unseen. said. Those people still function and can interact with other people unlike the person in the original video. Maybe they do understand you 100% or whatever but just can't communicate to you in a proper way. Even then that would be like hell doing nothing other then just living. Plus even if you take care of them that takes away from your life and puts it into something that won't get better (unless there can be a cure? idk) and has no chance to function without assistance.
This might sound like a horrible thing to say, that is where care homes come into play. And restbite, where the parents of these children and young adults can have time away from their children.
Our most severe cases of autism at work, (I am a carer), can function in her own way, she can communicate in her own way, yeah it takes some time to understand what she wants, and she has a very basic knowledge of sign language, some are made up by her. But we start to learn what they mean. She does get to go out, and she loves to go shopping, she loves shoes, she loves to go out and to dance and she loves to sing (some are her own songs), but she knows "happy birthday" and "the wheels on the bus", but she cannot form the words properly, but we can still understand what she is singing. She loves to have a hug, and a lot of human contact. Oh and she LOVES men!
But there is a side of her, where she will pull at other peoples hair (mine included), pull at other peoples clothes, she screams, LOUDLY! And she even growls, and she bites her hand, and she hits herself.
But the sad thing is, before coming to live at the home, she had nothing, she was locked away, abused, sexually, financially, and physically, all from a man that called himself her father (not biological father). Her mother doesn't want anything to do with her, and she has limited contact from her, don't even know where her father is.
Her quality of life, is probably better then what most peoples are, she has tones of clothes, shoes, she eat a well balanced meal, three times a day. She has a roof over her head, where she is warm and protected, and she is well loved. That is all anyone needs in life.