Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

A place for general discussion about Silkroad Online. Talk about the game or ask questions. Please keep threads Silkroad Online related.
Post Reply
User avatar
yajaec
New Member
Posts: 25
Joined: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:57 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Neptune

Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by yajaec »

Hi all, I'm new here, looking for advices and helps with a psycho/exfriend turn bully situation thing if anyone have exp with that.

A little background here...
I'm from the states, started playing SRO back in 2003-2004ish. Back then there weren't bots around or none that I seen. LVL up was pure hard work, took me forever to get to lvl 20, mostly on my own since pt with other real play can be hard to come by. It was frustrating so I stop playing for 3-4 years.
I started back on this year again, so much has changed, especially the annoying over crowded bot server. I started playing again, made a few new friends, Egyptian, Spanish, etc. One guy I be friended online was really cool, help me out a lot, gold, exp, lvl up, tips, etc. The guy is Egyptian, not that it matters to me, if they are cool, I'm cool.

Dude was nice, but bit crazy at time, but nothing too serious. My character gone from lvl 20's up to now 63 in only a month or two. I also started with a new character or two to try to build character correctly now.
This dude's got connection with many ppl online, major guild and stuff, someone gave him a lvl 73 character for free, he also started a few character now in lvl 20's. Everything was cool till last week, I know the dude is a bit crazy at time, he was messing around while I was AFK, with me out of hp potion and broken armor, his lvl 20's character actually managed to PK my lvl 63 character. I was kinda pissed, I was like, dude, at least res me or something. He lied, said it wasn't him, and didn't even res me, so I was still mad, just don't wanna talk to him for a while.

Now I AFK from time to time, dude didn't like the fact that I was ignoring his pm, so he PK my other lvl 20's character, which pissed me off even more, I told him to ..... off, and keep ignoring his pm, and now he just keep threatening to pk me every chance he got. So now I got a bully situation. Friend turn psycho and have connections.

Now it would be easy just to start a new character or even go play on other server, but it sucks to give up my lvl 63 character and the small guild that I finally establish after long hours of putting in the exp and golds. So I'm looking for sound advice, and maybe this time find friends that are normal, maybe from the states if that would help with the survival of life in SRO, cuz ppl online now are getting so bored with their lvl 90+ characters and going around pk ppl and stuff.

User avatar
XMoshe
Ex-Staff
Posts: 17293
Joined: Sun Apr 09, 2006 10:13 am
Location: Ghosting around

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by XMoshe »

Go afk in a safezone? unless you mean a different afk...

Just ignore the brat and he'll find someone else to irritate after a while.
Image
Props to chrisorg for the sig <3

User avatar
yajaec
New Member
Posts: 25
Joined: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:57 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Neptune

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by yajaec »

well, my lvl 30's character is doing taxi so it sucks to have to run into safezone everytime I AFK. And living daily on SRO of hidding from the guy makes life on SRO sucks big time
Image

User avatar
XMoshe
Ex-Staff
Posts: 17293
Joined: Sun Apr 09, 2006 10:13 am
Location: Ghosting around

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by XMoshe »

Still not sure how you mean that but ok, and don't hide from him. Just don't give him fuel to keep going. Let him pk you as much as he wants and eventually he'll grow sick of it.
Image
Props to chrisorg for the sig <3

User avatar
Tia
Active Member
Posts: 859
Joined: Tue Jun 15, 2010 7:25 pm
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Azteca

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by Tia »

that's why you dont make egyptian friends....

well, just do what xmoshe said, try to get some other higher lvl friends to help you, hmm if u wouldnt have created ur own guild, you could have joined one, where someone would ussually help you with him, lvl 60+ is easy to get into a guild, unless its a guild that takes lvl 90+ botters -.-

Gl mate

User avatar
ZaKnighT
Loyal Member
Posts: 1730
Joined: Tue Sep 08, 2009 5:10 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: home

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by ZaKnighT »

dude come to my server pm me _ZaKnighT_ i will help you.. and if your in my server give me his pm i will f*** him up for you :D.. even if he is a full nova :P and im serious. you will love it at my server. and im really old in my server i know a lot of people if some one makes a problem with you np i will get a whole union vs them :)

Tia wrote:that's why you dont make egyptian friends....

well, just do what xmoshe said, try to get some other higher lvl friends to help you, hmm if u wouldnt have created ur own guild, you could have joined one, where someone would ussually help you with him, lvl 60+ is easy to get into a guild, unless its a guild that takes lvl 90+ botters -.-

Gl mate

don't say this shit .. i have a lot of Egyptian awesome friends.. doesn't mean you deal with an ass hole makes all of them the same. :rant:
Last edited by ZaKnighT on Tue Aug 17, 2010 2:42 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Image

Spoiler!

User avatar
jyushinshuu
Frequent Member
Posts: 1232
Joined: Sat May 17, 2008 6:23 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Off Topic
Contact:

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by jyushinshuu »

with your 63 just go grind, he cant follow you everytime, silkroad is too big for him to find you.
Image

User avatar
Tia
Active Member
Posts: 859
Joined: Tue Jun 15, 2010 7:25 pm
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Azteca

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by Tia »

^^ can be in same acadamey :D

User avatar
yajaec
New Member
Posts: 25
Joined: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:57 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Neptune

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by yajaec »

I see, yeah, I guess if I don't want to give up my lvl 63 character, I'll just have to let him pk as much till he gets bored, it's just annoying that's all cause he could show up as anyone.

About joining another guild, that'd be nice but the whole point of starting own guild is to be able to enjoy the half price storage and joining one prob won't give you that authority so easily.

Thanks for the offer ZaKnighT, I just might take your offer sometime if you have a high lvl character on Neptune where I am. LOL. Yeah I agree, I don't believe 1 psycho apple means the whole basket is psycho. LOL
Image

User avatar
Pan_Raider(`_´)
Senior Member
Posts: 4737
Joined: Fri Jul 28, 2006 11:20 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Athens

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by Pan_Raider(`_´) »

if guys like that make pass their time by pissing on your leg, ignore the sucker.

Best thing to shut him up would be to "wingtribe-chaser-spawn" him with the help of a higher leveled friend.
Image

User avatar
yajaec
New Member
Posts: 25
Joined: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:57 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Neptune

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by yajaec »

yeah, I don't really have much friends, most of them are foreign and not very high up.
Image

User avatar
Tia
Active Member
Posts: 859
Joined: Tue Jun 15, 2010 7:25 pm
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Azteca

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by Tia »

what server you on?

User avatar
yajaec
New Member
Posts: 25
Joined: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:57 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Neptune

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by yajaec »

Neptune
Image

User avatar
Tia
Active Member
Posts: 859
Joined: Tue Jun 15, 2010 7:25 pm
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Azteca

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by Tia »

hmm well hopefully if anyone notices this from neptune, they might help, but i dont think a lot of SRFers are from neptune...IMO most are either on venus, or Tigris or some old servers, like aege xian etc etc, gl mate

User avatar
yajaec
New Member
Posts: 25
Joined: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:57 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Neptune

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by yajaec »

I have a few lower lvl character on few other server, it's just hard to let go of my highest lvl character happened to be on Neptune. =(
Image

User avatar
XMoshe
Ex-Staff
Posts: 17293
Joined: Sun Apr 09, 2006 10:13 am
Location: Ghosting around

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by XMoshe »

Tia wrote:that's why you dont make egyptian friends....

well, just do what xmoshe said, try to get some other higher lvl friends to help you, hmm if u wouldnt have created ur own guild, you could have joined one, where someone would ussually help you with him, lvl 60+ is easy to get into a guild, unless its a guild that takes lvl 90+ botters -.-

Gl mate


Some of the best guys I met in sro are egyptian so really, it's the person and not the race >.>
Image
Props to chrisorg for the sig <3

User avatar
ZaKnighT
Loyal Member
Posts: 1730
Joined: Tue Sep 08, 2009 5:10 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: home

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by ZaKnighT »

yajaec wrote:I have a few lower lvl character on few other server, it's just hard to let go of my highest lvl character happened to be on Neptune. =(

63 is nothing You can come my server good amout of English speaking compared vs other old servers like yours. any way just saying I can really help you ^^
Image

Spoiler!

User avatar
sn1kzZe
Regular Member
Posts: 246
Joined: Tue Jan 02, 2007 7:30 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: 127.0.0.1

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by sn1kzZe »

lets summarize

- he helped you get to 63
- you are now ignoring him
- hes trying to dlvl you back
- it seems you wont reach higher lvl without his help

conclusion: hes not a bully.

User avatar
Pan_Raider(`_´)
Senior Member
Posts: 4737
Joined: Fri Jul 28, 2006 11:20 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Athens

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by Pan_Raider(`_´) »

sn1kzZe wrote:lets summarize

- he helped you get to 63
- you are now ignoring him
- hes trying to dlvl you back
- it seems you wont reach higher lvl without his help

conclusion: hes not a bully.


i lolled so hard at this

and to be honest, he's not a bully, he's a pest.

The squad i was in ffed many....
a friend to 120, another guy to 110 and even lvled with them till they were almost 9d.
There were times after that when we didn't talk, but it's their life, you can't always expect people to be extremely greatful.
People you helped should appreciate what you've done for them, but that doesn't suddenly make you god.
Image

User avatar
ZaKnighT
Loyal Member
Posts: 1730
Joined: Tue Sep 08, 2009 5:10 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: home

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by ZaKnighT »

He is a moron ... Why he kills him in a taxi ?? So he should expect to be insulted .. And he didn't accept that insult so **** him lol...
Image

Spoiler!

User avatar
yajaec
New Member
Posts: 25
Joined: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:57 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Neptune

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by yajaec »

He didn't help me get to lvl 63, I did that through bot taxi, he helped with job, gold, tips and pt when I had no one to pt with. He pk'ed me maybe started as accident, but then he lied about it, blame it on someone else, but then he pk me again, possible a 3rd time using someone else's lvl 90+ character because I was AFK, he think I'm ignoring him (which now I really am after all those pk's) so he keep threaten to pk me now.

If that's not bully I dunno what you call it? S&M ?
Image

User avatar
yajaec
New Member
Posts: 25
Joined: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:57 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Neptune

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by yajaec »

ZaKnighT, you on Hercules? Well if things goes even worse on Neptune, I'll def take you up on that offer. Thanks.
Image

User avatar
ZaKnighT
Loyal Member
Posts: 1730
Joined: Tue Sep 08, 2009 5:10 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: home

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by ZaKnighT »

Yup, just gemme a pm ;]
Image

Spoiler!

User avatar
yajaec
New Member
Posts: 25
Joined: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:57 am
Quick Reply: Yes
Location: Neptune

Re: Need Advice, suggestion about bully issue. Or am I SOL?!!

Post by yajaec »

Awesome, thanks man.
Image

Post Reply

Return to “Silkroad General Discussion”