Hair + Girl= Dateable?

[Gaigemasta]

hell, if i loved her, I date her if she ended up lookin like CeLL (of course if she is still a girl of course)

[William-CL]

What do you guys think about girls and hair.
If you were to have a girl one day that was beautiful ( lets say a theoretical 10/10) and she happened to lose all her hair the next day for some reason, would you continue dating her?
Would you date a bald girl or does hair on a girl matter to you?

sounds like she has cancer. you better get the fuck away from that shit fast!

also natalie portman rocked the shaved look wonderfully.

umm do you think Cancer is contagious? juss wondering.

[Vaya]

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I like being honest, a lot of people like to say the politically correct thing because they want to have other people to approve of them rather than just approving of themselves, no matter what.

So to answer this question honestly (because it seems like you are asking this question because you're in this situation and are afraid of doing whatever you want because you're afraid of how other people who don't even know you/or do know you it doesn't matter- will think or feel about you when you could never control other peoples feelings or thoughts about you in the first place. So really ill tell you this:

I would not date a bald girl if she intentionally cut off her hair, in my opinion she is trying to clamor for attention and is probably needy or going down that route. I cant respect people like that, and wouldnt want that in my life and its pretty easy to find another girl that matches more of what I want anyway.

Now if she had cancer or something and I still liked her then it wouldnt matter to me since she would probably grow her hair back when she got better.

now the real question is: what if someone else did or did not leave their gf over it what would I do and what would I think?

I wouldn't think anything of it, in fact Id look at it as he did what he wanted to do, none of my business to pass judgement on that, my only business is with me and how I feel and what I want, as people are going to do what they want ANYWAY so trying to force people into acting a certain way, as well as trying to PLEASE people who want you to act in a certain way is a futile waste of energy I could be doing working on things I like/enjoying things I like etc etc.

1) It is a waste of energy to base how you feel at any given moment on the actions of someone else, for one you give them your power when you rely on other people to do things to make you happy when only you can make yourself feel good and be happy period.

2) You can not stand on your head in enough ways to please people. For one if you say decide to please one person and you do things that they want for a long time (i.e your parents) you have to realize that peoples preferences and desires evolve, You can not possibly keep up with that when you try to act in a way that makes THEM happy or feel better. Second thing is, just add another person to the mix and you have to try to please two (or more) peoples desires/preferences/etc etc just to make them feel good so that they can look at you with love and appreciation...what happens when one of the persons desires for you conflict with the other persons desires for you? You would be farked if you were relying on them instead of you to appreciate yourself.

it would be a LOT easier to just do what YOU want to do and work on feeling better about following your own desires, rather than following the desires of even one other person who has NOT:

Lived your life
Had the experiences you have had
Formed the preferences about what you want in your life in every aspect.
Thought your thoughts (no one can control what you think and how you feel it is all you)
Become you.

There is no ONE RIGHT way to live or one RIGHT way about ANYTHING, if more people realized this, realize that it goes both ways and actually practiced this, we would have no more wars, and very little day to day conflicts with each other.

But people have yet to realize the power they really have.

Tl;DR I would do whatever I wanted and be at peace with that since I live my life, and no one else lives my life for me.

psychiatrist?
nice answer

[Swindler]

hair matters a whole god damn lot, i would dump that girl in a second if she lost all her hair, imo bald girls or girls with very short hair are the ugliest things ever.

[SwordCloud]

All depend if it'sLOVE or you LIKE her.
If you like enough to date her,i wouldn't may run away.
If you love her ,hair or not in any case when she will be old byebye hair,i rather stay all my life with a trustable one with no hair than a bimbo that just gonna stay with me because of fackinh money or sex.

[Mirosuke]

Well i'd still date her srsly.
I think people think most of what others say than the girl herself.

[vietxboy911]

natalie portman looked like a lil boy in that pic

[Lempi]

It's time for another...

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A relationship based on looks is a bad relationship.

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[Stress]

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A relationship based on looks is a bad relationship.

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[MasterKojito]

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A relationship based on looks is a bad relationship.

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[TOloseGT]

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[cpinney]

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A relationship based on looks is a bad relationship.

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[Doron]

[Key-J]

You can't lie and say that hair does not contribute towards you thinking that a girl is attractive or not, there is absolutely no guy on the face of this earth that does not take Attractivness into account when chasing a girl.

Sure, your reason for STAYING with her may be based on personality, respect, amazing sex... blah blah blah. but the one factor that says "Hey, i wana go see if this girl has a personality, should have my respect, or enjoy my amazing sex" is because you are attracted to her, physically.

And unfortunately, by evolution and social structures, girls which do not have hair, well they generally are perceived as being less attractive.

The same logical reasoning as to why we think girls with nice hips and big breasts are generally more attractive can be used. They are better reproductive mates, nice hips are Child Bearing Hips, and Big Breasts are better Mammary glands to provide Nutrients for our growing offspring.

A girl with no hair, because of thousands of years of evolution and social conformity is seen as unattractive, because the lack of hair goes against the Social norm, meaning that she could be somehow inferior as a Reproductive mate.

Think of it like certain tribes in Africa, Indonesia, Papa New Guiney and Borneo. Perceptions of Beauty is different. Some tribes beauty is in how fat a woman is, others is how long her neck, other tribes require women to remain bald because it's what they perceive as beautiful.

But in our current Society, hair does make a difference for us. Even styles of hair. Sure the difference could be as little as a 7/10 (no hair) to 8/10 (hair) but the difference is there.

Sorry to get all Science on us, but it's my Major

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tl;dr
Hair Matters, it's in your Biology.

[Fiction]

Well said Key-J

For example:

Girl without hair... not so attractive

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Girl with hair... Hot!!!

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... but really Key-J is right, it's all comes back to perpetuation of the species.

[Amarisa]

if a guy dumps a girl because she lost her hair it just shows the guy was a waste of time. at least in my opinion

[Barotix]

Question.
Are you asking:
Would I stay with a woman I'm in a relationship with if she cut her hair or would I date a bald woman. The former: If I liked her or other aspects yes, of course. Now, the latter, if we had coffee and she goes bald because of some enlightened sense of fashion I probably wouldn't call her the next day.