How do you know...

[Miguez]

How do you know when you're REALLY in love?

Just say like what you feel and such..

Well, for me, love's when I look at her and it's like the time flies, love is when just the simple touch of her hand makes me shake, love is when I spend my free-time thinking about her (yeah, like that ^^), love is when I don't mind getting grounded just for 1 minute spent with her. Love is when I miss that girl even if I saw her 10 minutes ago. Love is.. magical really.

lol that sounded kind of gay. Whatever,

[rumpleKillskin]

Well to keep this topic alive, I am going to post how it usually happens for me through music.

no need to watch every second of each video, but it gets the point across.

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[Burningwolf]

awww
are you in love?

[rumpleKillskin]

Someone tell me how to embed videos on SRF please.

[Burningwolf]

Someone tell me how to embed videos on SRF please.

Only ones you can do are youtube i think
and it goes like this
[youtube]vs38138183[/.youtube]

[Miguez]

Completely. u_u

[.curve]

When you wake up and the first thing you think about is her. When you look forward to the next time you can see her for even just a minute. When simply talking to her can erase anything bad that had happened to you. When the thought of her is the only thing on your mind before you fall asleep. When you get that butterfly-in-your-stomach feeling every time you're around her, even months after you've been together. When hearing her say "I love you" will put a smile on your face no matter what.

[Burningwolf]

When you wake up and the first thing you think about is her. When you look forward to the next time you can see her for even just a minute. When simply talking to her can erase anything bad that had happened to you. When the thought of her is the only thing on your mind before you fall asleep. When you get that butterfly-in-your-stomach feeling every time you're around her, even months after you've been together. When hearing her say "I love you" will put a smile on your face no matter what.

^completely agree
That person is also the person who can hurt you the most though

[.curve]

When you wake up and the first thing you think about is her. When you look forward to the next time you can see her for even just a minute. When simply talking to her can erase anything bad that had happened to you. When the thought of her is the only thing on your mind before you fall asleep. When you get that butterfly-in-your-stomach feeling every time you're around her, even months after you've been together. When hearing her say "I love you" will put a smile on your face no matter what.

^completely agree
That person is also the person who can hurt you the most though

Truth. You know...when she is the only one who can effect you in ways no one else could. When you know every imperfection about her....and you love them all. When your eyes can meet from across the gym at a basketball game, and you know she's looking at you, and she smiles, and your heart sinks because you know she's smiling because of you.

[Miguez]

I couldn't find better words myself.

You're good. ,p

[Panu]

When you wake up and the first thing you think about is her. When you look forward to the next time you can see her for even just a minute. When simply talking to her can erase anything bad that had happened to you. When the thought of her is the only thing on your mind before you fall asleep. When you get that butterfly-in-your-stomach feeling every time you're around her, even months after you've been together. When hearing her say "I love you" will put a smile on your face no matter what.

^completely agree
That person is also the person who can hurt you the most though

Truth. You know...when she is the only one who can effect you in ways no one else could. When you know every imperfection about her....and you love them all. When your eyes can meet from across the gym at a basketball game, and you know she's looking at you, and she smiles, and your heart sinks because you know she's smiling because of you.

thats how i felt about wolfy ... until he left my bish ass for ecsro

[.curve]

I couldn't find better words myself.

You're good. ,p

I'm a hopeless romantic at heart.
But meh. Been there, done that. Thought she was the one. Those were my feelings the whole time. And I guess this is where it got me. Single and as BurningWolf said, she was the only one who could hurt me like that.

Best of luck to you, really. Hopefully you turn out better than I did in that area.

thats how i felt about wolfy ... until he left my bish ass for ecsro

Fembria is where it's at.

[Burningwolf]

I couldn't find better words myself.

You're good. ,p

I'm a hopeless romantic at heart.
But meh. Been there, done that. Thought she was the one. Those were my feelings the whole time. And I guess this is where it got me. Single and as BurningWolf said, she was the only one who could hurt me like that.

Best of luck to you, really. Hopefully you turn out better than I did in that area.

thats how i felt about wolfy ... until he left my bish ass for ecsro

Fembria is where it's at.

great minds think alike

[Panu]

[Burningwolf]

:(

shat up bish
i liek this thread and dont want spam in it

[.curve]

:(

shat up bish
i liek this thread and dont want spam in it

Bleh, I have mixed feelings towards this thread. On one hand, it's great to think about her. But on the other, I hate thinking about her and how I don't have her anymore.

[MrTwilliger]

edit: sorry about the post that was here, was in a terrible mood and just vented some absolute bullshit which i really dont agree on. my apologies.

[.curve]

Who seriously gives a shit? Since when did a word like love ever have a definition? Its variable for each person, it's not something you can apply to everyone as each person view it differently. Theres no stage of being "in" and "out" of love, its just the rise and decline of emotions. Never is it one state or another, we just dictate it to be.

Your in love? awesome, go tell her, not us.

I appreciate your opinion, and I kindly reject it.

[Burningwolf]

Who seriously gives a shit? Since when did a word like love ever have a definition? Its variable for each person, it's not something you can apply to everyone as each person view it differently. Theres no stage of being "in" and "out" of love, its just the rise and decline of emotions. Never is it one state or another, we just dictate it to be.

Your in love? awesome, go tell her, not us.

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Actually now that I think about it...Probably more than 2 hours

My ex lived 4-5 hours from me, yet I would still visit her each weekend. I am a 2 hour train ride form the city yet I go there a lot to see friends as well. It seems like you aren't trying hard enough.

^

go tell her, not us.

and i bring that up cause you always bring the "my ex bla bla bla"

personally i dont mind you talkin bout your ex, but i found it so wrong for you to rant bout wut curve said

[Panu]

:(

shat up bish
i liek this thread and dont want spam in it

im not spam ...

[Hostage]

When she pisses you off so much you wanna pull a Chris Brown but you can't....because she makes good cherry pie. That my friend is love.


Btw I luled at your definition of love. You should ease up on the romantic movies.

[.curve]

When she pisses you off so much you wanna pull a Chris Brown but you can't....because she makes good cherry pie. That my friend is love.


Btw I luled at your definition of love. You should ease up on the romantic movies.

I love romantic movies!

[inky]

like hostage said, you gotta cut down on rom-coms man.

most of the stuff posted sound like they were copied directly from chick chain mails. i suggest you ask advice dog, he usually has good advice - thus the name.

[.curve]

like hostage said, you gotta cut down on rom-coms man.

most of the stuff posted sound like they were copied directly from chick chain mails. i suggest you ask advice dog, he usually has good advice - thus the name.

I see nothing wrong with it.

[XemnasXD]

when after your done you find yourself staring at them for some odd reason that could only possibly be love otherwise you'd be doing something else....

[Hostage]

when after your done you find yourself staring at them for some odd reason that could only possibly be love otherwise you'd be doing something else....

So that's what you're doing, well, that's a relief. I always thought you were plotting how you're going to kill me the instant I fall asleep.

[XemnasXD]

no thats the "book" im writing...trust me there alot in store for you

[Hostage]

Oh my

You promised you wouldn't make me blush like that in public.

[Grimjaw]

http://people.howstuffworks.com/love.htm

[IceCrash]

imo
it's way too hard to define love, and there's no standart to it, there's no genuine love as far as intelligent exists..There are diff kinds of love, with diff intensities.
Try loving someone you hate, then compare it with what some of you have written in this thread..

Yeah..
And like someone's said in this thread, love has many stages.. i better shut up, cause i keep trying to define love a little but it's just.. too hard.
Ofc, if you wanna be romantic about it, sure but.. if you wanna define a fairytale's love where everything's perfect, and that makes you feel good about it, go ahead it makes me feel good too when i think bout it, and i try to believe something like that can happen irl, even if im aware i'm fooling myself, i don't care.
I guess i can be considered a real romantic >.>
idk.. >.<''