Should I tell her?

Post by **Crowley** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:13 am

Well, this is kind of similar to Verfo's topic. I really like this girl and don't know if I should tell her or not..We're great friends, and I don't want to ruin what we have. I really value our relationship. It's not shyness, we always hang out and talk alot. And I think my best friend likes her too >.< As my cousin always says, women and money ruin friendships. And I don't want that to happen.

Edit* She's only around 36 ice cubes. >.< But I still like her :roll:

Isis · Post by **Isis** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:23 am

I have the same dilemma, do I or don't I tell him...

rek · Post by **rek** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:20 am

I had that problem once. I didnt tell her and now shes with someone else. If you really like her, ask her out.

Snoopy · Post by **Snoopy** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:32 am

Tsume wrote:Well, this is kind of similar to Verfo's topic. I really like this girl and don't know if I should tell her or not..We're great friends, and I don't want to ruin what we have. I really value our relationship. It's not shyness, we always hang out and talk alot. And I think my best friend likes her too >.< As my cousin always says, women and money ruin friendships. And I don't want that to happen.

Edit* She's only around 36 ice cubes. >.< But I still like her

As you said, asking her out and her rejecting you would be both embarrassing, and awkward for you and her. A long term friendship with a girl, who you see as only a friend, could be better than being her boyfriend etc, or worst case scenario it could be extremely awkward every time you see her.

I suggest you keep looking for another girl, as there are plenty more fish in the sea.

Post by **Stress** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 12:42 pm

Tell her!

I've always confessed my feelings. It's going to be a great relief after you do it. In my experiences, telling her how I felt never ruined our friendship. We're sill great friends. Give it a try, and if it comes out well, trust me, you won't regret it

Sharp324 · Post by **Sharp324** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 12:45 pm

Well heres a story, girl and i were really close friends, i watched guys treat her like shit without telling her how i felt. So i told her and now shes my fiancee. Dont let things pass you by..

IceCrash · Post by **IceCrash** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 1:10 pm

Sharp324 wrote:Well heres a story, girl and i were really close friends, i watched guys treat her like shit without telling her how i felt. So i told her and now shes my fiancee. Dont let things pass you by..

awsome

Xtra · Post by **Xtra** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 4:39 pm

i pretty much agree with sharp. take a chance, ask her out. if you guys were as close as you say, then even if she says no, you should still remain friends.

i say go for it

StealMySoda · Post by **StealMySoda** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 4:50 pm

If your such great friends, telling her wont ruin it.
In fact it will make your friendship stronger

Squirt · Post by **Squirt** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 4:55 pm

I confessed to a close friend that I liked her like 4 months ago and were still very good friends. I am just blush a bit when I am next to her.

MrFudge · Post by **MrFudge** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 5:00 pm

go out on a date with her, but bring a third wheel along.
tell the third wheel you're tryin to get with this girl and that he should call in at the last second and say he can't make it, leaving you alone with her. Enjoy and make it count.

Squirt · Post by **Squirt** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 5:18 pm

MrFudge wrote:go out on a date with her, but bring a third wheel along.
tell the third wheel you're tryin to get with this girl and that he should call in at the last second and say he can't make it, leaving you alone with her. Enjoy and make it count.

Thats to obvious have him come along and while he's there have someone call and say something happen so he has to leave. And tell him to tell you guys to stay. that will keep the suspision radar down

MrFudge · Post by **MrFudge** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 5:34 pm

Squirt wrote:
MrFudge wrote:go out on a date with her, but bring a third wheel along.
tell the third wheel you're tryin to get with this girl and that he should call in at the last second and say he can't make it, leaving you alone with her. Enjoy and make it count.

Thats to obvious have him come along and while he's there have someone call and say something happen so he has to leave. And tell him to tell you guys to stay. that will keep the suspision radar down

or just have the third wheel jump off a bridge and jump in after him, give him CPR and bring him back to life, then she'll see how brave you are.

and if you're REALLY desperate, push her off the bridge save her and give her CPR.

and if you're REALLY REALLY desperate and she's a lifeguard, jump off the bridge yourself but make sure she'll actually dive in to save you and perform CPR, if not you're farked.

Squirt · Post by **Squirt** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 5:36 pm

If Your more desperate then that then say hello to mister roofie

Priam · Post by **Priam** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 5:46 pm

Sure, don't tell her and keep on drooling everytime you see her. It will make a great impression.

Squirt · Post by **Squirt** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 5:48 pm

Priam wrote:Sure, don't tell her and keep on drooling everytime you see her. It will make a great impression.

But you agree it will make a good impression on her

destructionmama · Post by **destructionmama** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 5:57 pm

Here's my trick in these situations:

Tell her that you have something to tell her, but it might change your current friendship.

Then you let her decide whether she wants to hear you out.

If yes, congrats now she knows

if no, she's not ready for a change, keep your current friendship

hoy. tell me how it goes

LaloHao · Post by **LaloHao** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 7:58 pm

destructionmama wrote:Here's my trick in these situations:

Tell her that you have something to tell her, but it might change your current friendship.

Then you let her decide whether she wants to hear you out.

If yes, congrats now she knows

if no, she's not ready for a change, keep your current friendship

hoy. tell me how it goes

maybe she will suspect when he ask her that

Post by **Doron** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:07 pm

you know what the crappy part is about my class this year??

there are like, three amazingly (is there a higher form of absolutely Beautiful) girls in my class, and I'm starting to become friends with them, and well...

I'm in love.. can't say moar... and the best one is Single, has a cute accent and she's just.... wow...

And she comes from this strange little yet fascinating town, and I wanna see it actually, cuz it's like, a very religious town, but half of the teenagers is on crack or coke, and it seems that the nightlife of that little religious town in amazing.. so she said like: "You should come once, then we can go out, and get drunk..."

I loved every part of that sentance... :love:

blackfalcon · Post by **blackfalcon** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:17 pm

Icealya wrote:you know what the crappy part is about my class this year??

there are like, three amazingly (is there a higher form of absolutely Beautiful) girls in my class, and I'm starting to become friends with them, and well...

I'm in love.. can't say moar... and the best one is Single, has a cute accent and she's just.... wow...

And she comes from this strange little yet fascinating town, and I wanna see it actually, cuz it's like, a very religious town, but half of the teenagers is on crack or coke, and it seems that the nightlife of that little religious town in amazing.. so she said like: "You should come once, then we can go out, and get drunk..."

I loved every part of that sentance...

i thought you were gay?

ot: just tell her, like everyone else said, if shes really a good friend it wont ruin the relationship

Post by **Doron** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:21 pm

no, I'm straight..

and in love...

blackfalcon · Post by **blackfalcon** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:22 pm

Icealya wrote:no, I'm straight..

and in love...

just make sure u pick the right one

would suck to pick the wrong one then the others wont go out with u

btw, wtf does this mean

Edit* She's only around 36 ice cubes. >.< But I still like her

Squirt · Post by **Squirt** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:31 pm

Ice cube = 1 inch
So her hips are 36 inches wide? 2 feet o_O wth?

Refurbished · Post by **Refurbished** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:32 pm

Tell her.. being honest is the best thing!

blackfalcon · Post by **blackfalcon** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:37 pm

Squirt wrote:Ice cube = 1 inch
So her hips are 36 inches wide? 2 feet o_O wth?

oooh i get it

36 inches = 2 feet? lol

seems kinda big for a chick. im 6'2 and have a 36 inch waist(sp?)

MrBow · Post by **MrBow** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:45 pm

Icealya wrote:you know what the crappy part is about my class this year??

there are like, three amazingly (is there a higher form of absolutely Beautiful) girls in my class, and I'm starting to become friends with them, and well...

I'm in love.. can't say moar... and the best one is Single, has a cute accent and she's just.... wow...

And she comes from this strange little yet fascinating town, and I wanna see it actually, cuz it's like, a very religious town, but half of the teenagers is on crack or coke, and it seems that the nightlife of that little religious town in amazing.. so she said like: "You should come once, then we can go out, and get drunk..."

I loved every part of that sentance...

lolol which accent?

John_Doe · Post by **John_Doe** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:48 pm

Just spill the beans.

klokus · Post by **klokus** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:51 pm

Follow your heart, not a forum :wink:

NuclearSilo · Post by **NuclearSilo** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 9:13 pm

Why in the world u need to tell someone to let him/her knows how u feel? There is gazillion of way to express one's feeling.
Follow the heart. A heart and eyes are enough.

Squirt · Post by **Squirt** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 9:17 pm

NuclearSilo wrote:Why in the world u need to tell someone to let him/her knows how u feel? There is gazillion of way to express one's feeling.
Follow the heart. A heart and eyes are enough.

What exactlly does ones heart have to do with this? It just pumps blood and thats about it. She just arouses your physically and mentally so do you what your brain tells you not your heart.

This isn't ..... logical!

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