Are you a virgin?

[PB_and_J]

deamon didn't think he was

[Jstar1]

Just give them some sleeping pill...

thats the lowest way you could go

[Verfo]

Just give them some sleeping pill...

=/, thats called rape

[takolin]

Just give them some sleeping pill...

=/, thats called rape

Not if do you this first.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f--u_puzhGs


PS how do you youtube something?

[Verfo]

[youtube][/youtube] and you put that part ine between f--u_puzhGs

[XemnasXD]

Just give them some sleeping pill...

=/, thats called rape

Not if do you this first.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f--u_puzhGs


PS how do you youtube something?

that guy is so gay its not even funny....but i do love that vid

[emperor3000]

[quote="tedtwilliger"]Im a virgin and proud, i've kept it for 18 years and im gonna keep it for much longer.

Personally i dont see the point to losing it "randomly". The way i see it for anytihng sexual to occur it should be an expression of a deep emotional connection, as opposed to a simple physical pleasure. But sadly for most people, they get drunk, see someone attractive and go for gold. Its a concept i have never quite understood.

Until i find that deeper connection with someone, "love" per say i wont be expressing myself in that kind of way. There has to be a great level of trust and commitment before i can open myself up to someone. At this point in my life i haven't found that kind of bond so i haven't delved into that side of a relationship. Until the day i do find it, i will be proud to call myself a virgin.quote]

+1

I WITH YOU DOOD!!!

[StealMySoda]

Im a virgin and proud, i've kept it for 18 years and im gonna keep it for much longer.

Personally i dont see the point to losing it "randomly". The way i see it for anytihng sexual to occur it should be an expression of a deep emotional connection, as opposed to a simple physical pleasure. But sadly for most people, they get drunk, see someone attractive and go for gold. Its a concept i have never quite understood.

Until i find that deeper connection with someone, "love" per say i wont be expressing myself in that kind of way. There has to be a great level of trust and commitment before i can open myself up to someone. At this point in my life i haven't found that kind of bond so i haven't delved into that side of a relationship. Until the day i do find it, i will be proud to call myself a virgin.

+1

I WITH YOU DOOD!!!

-You have the people tryna say "I'm waiting for the right one" tryna tell themselves that that is the reason they have never got laid. These are the people that, I guess have respect for having the balls to say that they are a virgin. Okay, maybe just maybe they want to wait for the right person, but generally its just because they are just tryna tell themselves thats the reason why they've never been laid.

[XemnasXD]

lol i know right....

[tedtwilliger]

So you think you can make a generic statement that completely sums up my morals based on predetermined mind thought of yours? Honesty thats quite unjustified of you Soda and frankly its the kind of thing i didn't expect from you.

Why would i lie about something like this? Why does it matter? If i have had sex or not, who cares? If i was so ashamed about not having sex wouldn't i say that i have had sex? Why would i write such a rant if its not what i believe? If sex was such a big deal i would just hire a prostitute, right? That is why they exist do they not?

Sure you can go and think whatever the dam hell you wish, it doesn't mean its gonna be correct though. Don't get all cynical and preachy when you have no idea who you are talking about. Different people different cultures, not all of us care about such trivial things.

Better luck next time.

[[SD]Master_Wong]

im a virgin, sro has nothing to do with it.

and about the ongoing subject within this thread, im not looking to randomly lose it, but nor am i going to wait for love, if i have feelings for someone and a connection thats good enough, people use the word love too much and within a year split up, love is something for life not a few months, the latter is called lust

[XemnasXD]

Ted i think that was directed at emperor...you know the guy who came behind your nice post and like some jacked up 14 year old in caps said IM WITH YOU DOOD!....

[IceCrash]

So you think you can make a generic statement that completely sums up my morals based on predetermined mind thought of yours? Honesty thats quite unjustified of you Soda and frankly its the kind of thing i didn't expect from you.

Why would i lie about something like this? Why does it matter? If i have had sex or not, who cares? If i was so ashamed about not having sex wouldn't i say that i have had sex? Why would i write such a rant if its not what i believe? If sex was such a big deal i would just hire a prostitute, right? That is why they exist do they not?

Sure you can go and think whatever the dam hell you wish, it doesn't mean its gonna be correct though. Don't get all cynical and preachy when you have no idea who you are talking about. Different people different cultures, not all of us care about such trivial things.

Better luck next time.

lol

i'm not taking any sides, but the way Soda tryed to steriotype was really funny xD
Maybe he was in some mood or something O.o idk

But yeah Soda, what makes you think you aknowledge whats neeeded to compreehend this stuff to the point where you can just tell 100% sure whats everyone's thoughts/ideas/behavious, etc.. on this? lol

Even tho i agree with like 45% of what you said, things/thoughts(w.e , you know wht i mean) aren't that linear >.> lol
There's a wide variety of reasons..but still, this topic's funny, so go on xD

[StealMySoda]

So you think you can make a generic statement that completely sums up my morals based on predetermined mind thought of yours? Honesty thats quite unjustified of you Soda and frankly its the kind of thing i didn't expect from you.

Why would i lie about something like this? Why does it matter? If i have had sex or not, who cares? If i was so ashamed about not having sex wouldn't i say that i have had sex? Why would i write such a rant if its not what i believe? If sex was such a big deal i would just hire a prostitute, right? That is why they exist do they not?

Sure you can go and think whatever the dam hell you wish, it doesn't mean its gonna be correct though. Don't get all cynical and preachy when you have no idea who you are talking about. Different people different cultures, not all of us care about such trivial things.

Better luck next time.

I wasn't aiming it at you. I was aiming it at the +1 more than anything, as Mr mansex has said. One of the, quick say something GTFO people.

As I also said, I agree with what you said. Who cares if you've had sex or not, no matter what anybody says on here, chances are Xemnas could be a 99 year old virgin. So really, it doesn't matter.

I'm not judging YOU or anyone else, just the general stereotypical things that people say in threads like this. I mean, jeez, how many of these have we had now?

im a virgin, sro has nothing to do with it.

and about the ongoing subject within this thread, im not looking to randomly lose it, but nor am i going to wait for love, if i have feelings for someone and a connection thats good enough, people use the word love too much and within a year split up, love is something for life not a few months, the latter is called lust

No. Lust is a sexual desire for someone. Where as love is more general term, as a desire for someone. They are entirely different things.

You can love someone, and not love them for a lifetime. Shit happens. People get over it. If people were in love with the first person they loved for the rest of their life, divorces would never happen.

[emperor3000]

Ted i think that was directed at emperor...you know the guy who came behind your nice post and like some jacked up 14 year old in caps said IM WITH YOU DOOD!....

Uh... yeah, mostly if girls tend to have respect for you why not be a gentlemen and give them back some respect.

Look, man has too much power over the woman and shit, don't you ever believe in happiness, rather than just Sex, sex, and more sex. That right there is like drugs, you get addicted and one day you may die from it.


And im not 14 years old FYI


I am 16 ya dodo.


And i'm not jacked up, if you like to make fun of people, then sir, you have a problem yourself

[IceCrash]

Ted i think that was directed at emperor...you know the guy who came behind your nice post and like some jacked up 14 year old in caps said IM WITH YOU DOOD!....

Uh... yeah, mostly if girls tend to have respect for you why not be a gentlemen and give them back some respect.

Look, man has too much power over the woman and shit, don't you ever believe in happiness, rather than just Sex, sex, and more sex. That right there is like drugs, you get addicted and one day you may die from it.


And im not 14 years old FYI


I am 16 ya dodo.


And i'm not jacked up, if you like to make fun of people, then sir, you have a problem yourself

isn't that kinda obvious? lol

[[SD]Master_Wong]

So you think you can make a generic statement that completely sums up my morals based on predetermined mind thought of yours? Honesty thats quite unjustified of you Soda and frankly its the kind of thing i didn't expect from you.

Why would i lie about something like this? Why does it matter? If i have had sex or not, who cares? If i was so ashamed about not having sex wouldn't i say that i have had sex? Why would i write such a rant if its not what i believe? If sex was such a big deal i would just hire a prostitute, right? That is why they exist do they not?

Sure you can go and think whatever the dam hell you wish, it doesn't mean its gonna be correct though. Don't get all cynical and preachy when you have no idea who you are talking about. Different people different cultures, not all of us care about such trivial things.

Better luck next time.

I wasn't aiming it at you. I was aiming it at the +1 more than anything, as Mr mansex has said. One of the, quick say something GTFO people.

As I also said, I agree with what you said. Who cares if you've had sex or not, no matter what anybody says on here, chances are Xemnas could be a 99 year old virgin. So really, it doesn't matter.

I'm not judging YOU or anyone else, just the general stereotypical things that people say in threads like this. I mean, jeez, how many of these have we had now?

im a virgin, sro has nothing to do with it.

and about the ongoing subject within this thread, im not looking to randomly lose it, but nor am i going to wait for love, if i have feelings for someone and a connection thats good enough, people use the word love too much and within a year split up, love is something for life not a few months, the latter is called lust

No. Lust is a sexual desire for someone. Where as love is more general term, as a desire for someone. They are entirely different things.

You can love someone, and not love them for a lifetime. Shit happens. People get over it. If people were in love with the first person they loved for the rest of their life, divorces would never happen.

imo thats not love then, most people who left a marriage for someone else who they remain with for year or until death say it was a different feeling, you can even see it when parents and such remarry they know usually know more and wont marry unless they are sure its love

and the lust love thing, we are drived by sexual desire and attraction so in some sense they are one in the same

[Reise]

Do we win a prize or something if we say we've f*cked somebody?

Grow up a bit.

[XemnasXD]

Ok. Look at this topic. Now look at the way you post. I've never met you, i don't know you irl. I can only judge by what you post. Instead of making a mature response you, like i said, responded in all caps and spelled dude wrong. I can't can't picture the guy who responds like that getting laid constantly or even having the opportunity to get laid. Im only working with what you give me here, if you expected ppl to treat your response with respect then make a respectable response...

StealMy is right. He's pointing out the cliche archetypes present in these kinds of threads and while yes they don't apply to EVERYONE, the reason why the 17 year old basement dweller isn't getting laid is not because he's holding out. Not one person has said "I've tried and have had no luck with getting rid of my virginity" or "I wish i wasn't a virgin still working on it" Those are believable, honest responses. No one here has the balls to say that though which just make threads like this a joke because its a bunch of guys ages 16-22 that are horny as ****( which is completely natural) and everyones either saving themselves or a playa. High school is not filled with ppl like this, there are guys that are getting laid and there are guys that are not, and the guys that are not keep looking at the guys that are wondering "What the hell does she see in him." Thats reality, i'd like to see those ppl, real ppl, instead of a self help thread filled with ppl lying to themselves.

[Pally]

Im a virgin and proud, i've kept it for 18 years and im gonna keep it for much longer.

Personally i dont see the point to losing it "randomly". The way i see it for anytihng sexual to occur it should be an expression of a deep emotional connection, as opposed to a simple physical pleasure. But sadly for most people, they get drunk, see someone attractive and go for gold. Its a concept i have never quite understood.

Until i find that deeper connection with someone, "love" per say i wont be expressing myself in that kind of way. There has to be a great level of trust and commitment before i can open myself up to someone. At this point in my life i haven't found that kind of bond so i haven't delved into that side of a relationship. Until the day i do find it, i will be proud to call myself a virgin.

Has sro had an impact on this? No. Ever since i started to mentally mature i have believed in these morals of mine and always stayed true to them. What i beleive is of my own choice, what i personally think is the correct way of going about things. I dont beleive SRO has had an impact upon this.

+1

Couldn't of said it better my self. 100% agree

[StealMySoda]

imo thats not love then, most people who left a marriage for someone else who they remain with for year or until death say it was a different feeling, you can even see it when parents and such remarry they know usually know more and wont marry unless they are sure its love

and the lust love thing, we are drived by sexual desire and attraction so in some sense they are one in the same

To be honest. More than anything, love is what YOU make it. If you think it's forever, then so be it. If you think its lust, then that's what it is. Love is a very personal thing, and for that reason nobody can tell you what love is, and isn't. I can't say your wrong with what your saying, but I can definitely say I disagree.

However if you think that life is driven by physical and sexual desires, then your a very shallow person.

[[SD]Master_Wong]

i didnt say life was driven by them i said its usually what brings two people together, not always but even in a relationship why do we have sex if we dont intend to reproduce when we do it?

[Draquish]

i didnt say life was driven by them i said its usually what brings two people together, not always but even in a relationship why do we have sex if we dont intend to reproduce when we do it?

Sexual tension causes stress. Stress makes you cranky. Relieve that stress and you're not cranky anymore! (I'm speaking relationship-wise)

[Voluptas]

No im not a virgin. I lost it to the same girl im with now, and we have been together since our last year of school. And thats 3 years, next month.

(She keeps dropping hints about kids, but if she thinks im getting her pregnant at 18, shes having a laugh. Im still a kid myself at heart )

God i hope she doesnt ever find this post.

[emperor3000]

Ok. Look at this topic. Now look at the way you post. I've never met you, i don't know you irl. I can only judge by what you post. Instead of making a mature response you, like i said, responded in all caps and spelled dude wrong. I can't can't picture the guy who responds like that getting laid constantly or even having the opportunity to get laid. Im only working with what you give me here, if you expected ppl to treat your response with respect then make a respectable response...

StealMy is right. He's pointing out the cliche archetypes present in these kinds of threads and while yes they don't apply to EVERYONE, the reason why the 17 year old basement dweller isn't getting laid is not because he's holding out. Not one person has said "I've tried and have had no luck with getting rid of my virginity" or "I wish i wasn't a virgin still working on it" Those are believable, honest responses. No one here has the balls to say that though which just make threads like this a joke because its a bunch of guys ages 16-22 that are horny as ****( which is completely natural) and everyones either saving themselves or a playa. High school is not filled with ppl like this, there are guys that are getting laid and there are guys that are not, and the guys that are not keep looking at the guys that are wondering "What the hell does she see in him." Thats reality, i'd like to see those ppl, real ppl, instead of a self help thread filled with ppl lying to themselves.

Very well said,
I'm sorry for having a naive nature, but thats who i am, so i can't change the fact.

Besides, I spelled dude wrong because I'm using a kind of vernacular tone towards my speaker.

[mike2007]

yes and maybe.

cant say im proud of it nor can i say that im ashamed of or embarrased by it. i havent exactly been looking to get laid nor have i been waiting for the right girl. i dont have a religion so i dont care about "staying pure," and late night a few weeks ago my group of friends and i all asked each other if we were still virgins. now we're all guys just a few yrs out of highschool, ages ranging from 20-22, yet the answer we all gave was yes so its not like i have peer pressure going ither. in fact i have no pressure at all from ither side.

secondly and most importantly i also dont intend upon purposely looking for a slut or prostitue that would prbly do it in an instant, but more of a girl who i could say we just both liked each other enough and wanted it enough at that time and place (hopefully without being under the influence of drugs/alcohol).

revisiting the second question; do my activities (excessive video game playing, ie: sro) have something to do it? maybe; i could prbly get out more, go clubbing and such to increaes my chances of getting laid if i didnt play sro or other video games all day long. but this is also prbly my personality; i can b a bit of a jackass, and i find it ammusing sometimes if a girl hates me. for instance a couple of my friends have sisters and they both dislike me a lot, which i find extremely ammusing and usually end up contributing to their disliking me by annoying them.

but heres the bigger question; do i care if it does? no. and y should i? when the time comes that im with a girl that wants to do that, because she likes me enough and i like her enough then and only then will it happen. i guess u could say im waiting for the right girl after all, but its more like im lazy and im just waiting for a girl that would b worth losing it for, even if its not the 1 i spend the rest of my life with.

[tedtwilliger]

I wasn't aiming it at you. I was aiming it at the +1 more than anything

Ted i think that was directed at emperor...you know the guy who came behind your nice post and like some jacked up 14 year old in caps said IM WITH YOU DOOD!....

Ahh, i seemed to have misunderstood your original posts. My apologies for my mini rant.

[Grimm-.-]

My...
So Uptight people.
~Relax.

[takolin]

i didnt say life was driven by them i said its usually what brings two people together, not always but even in a relationship why do we have sex if we dont intend to reproduce when we do it?

Sexual tension causes stress. Stress makes you cranky. Relieve that stress and you're not cranky anymore! (I'm speaking relationship-wise)

On can relieve the stress by wanking as well.

[StealMySoda]

i didnt say life was driven by them i said its usually what brings two people together, not always but even in a relationship why do we have sex if we dont intend to reproduce when we do it?

Sexual tension causes stress. Stress makes you cranky. Relieve that stress and you're not cranky anymore! (I'm speaking relationship-wise)

On can relieve the stress by wanking as well.

Hardly the same. Sure it relives your stress but not hers. There's a reason why people enjoy make up sex.