bastards are always talkin!

[Dark Shifty]

i have 2 gay friends and after they told me they were gay, i just thought, as long as i don't get hit on or touched, im fine with you being who you are.

[Grandpa]

It's normal to talk about friends, isn't it?
Seems like you are still on a friendship basis with all.
That's not bad.

Slander and liable are different than gossip, but who's perfect in our world?
If you go around trying to find things out about somebody who may have spoken out of turn, would you not really be attempting to remain the focus of attention? Pardon my bluntness but your big news to your friends just had a bit of a wet blanket thrown on it. Get over it. When you are conducting your 'investigation' are you not indulging in gossip yourself?

Nobody 'knew' anything about your private business and you're right that they 'should' not have speculated about you in that manner, still... the offense isn't that great in the bigger scheme of things.

~Granps

[Grimm-.-]

Farking people...
Honestly this thread pissed the Farking shit outa me...
First there is the people we were talking about.. The people who spread rumors, Which I CANNOT Stand...
And then there are the pricks who come in this thread and start saying that they hate gays... Honestly get the **** out...
If you don't Like people that are gay stay out of the Farking topic... Excuse my cursing.
Edit:.... Nvm it blocks the curses.

Another thing... Aimed at Twist...
So just a question...
If all of your friends, Your parents, And just about everyone you knew turned out to be gay you would hate all of them.
You would completely despise who used to be your friends, or the people that raised you, Just Because they are gay. Honestly... A horrible opinion.

[Verfo]

why do you hate them twist? Did they do anything bad to you?
and dont say: God made Adam and Eve, Not Adam and Steve

[Yasakira]

Gays are around and i am the one who will mess this world up?OKKKKKK
It is my opinion,why u need start with smart talk shit?I never said gays shouldnt exist,i just said i hate them,period.

You sir, are a Farking idiot.

[TOloseGT]

u can't stop ppl talking about u, u can confront them and tell them it's making u feel bad.

[XemnasXD]

It's normal to talk about friends, isn't it?
Seems like you are still on a friendship basis with all.
That's not bad.

Slander and liable are different than gossip, but who's perfect in our world?
If you go around trying to find things out about somebody who may have spoken out of turn, would you not really be attempting to remain the focus of attention? Pardon my bluntness but your big news to your friends just had a bit of a wet blanket thrown on it. Get over it. When you are conducting your 'investigation' are you not indulging in gossip yourself?

Nobody 'knew' anything about your private business and you're right that they 'should' not have speculated about you in that manner, still... the offense isn't that great in the bigger scheme of things.

~Granps

lol im not of fan of you gramps but im a fan of what you write. I don't expect you to understand my relationship with my friends. Yes people gossip, i expect that but you should understand that i also expect better of my friends. The gossip is annoying but whats really annoying is walking around with your friends feeling like you should tell them something very important about you but not having the courage to do so. Only to find out that not only did they already know but they spread the knowledge amongst themselves based solely on an unfounded rumor and not one of them had the common decency to confront me about something they had heard that was spreading around.

It a sickening feeling like you've had extra eyes on you and everything you've been saying for the past months has been taken as double speak. Not all of my friends acted like that so i know people can do better and i know im owed better from the few people i decide to call my friends, those that didn't participate in the gossip agree and so do some that did.

you paint me out like a spoiled attention whore looking for more attention, don't confuse my internet personality with my RL one. Here i can be as out and as loud, as rude as cute as i want. But its only because in RL im a very discrete and private person, i keep my head down most of the time and let ppl be ppl around me. I only think, and know, that i should expect alot better from ppl i call my friends.



btw keep the homo arguments to a min, if you don't like me and mine go not like me and mine elsewhere, im not out to change worlds over srf, so unless you say something ridiculous like all all gays smoke badgers your not going to get a rise out of me....just go be anti-whatever for whatever reason in some other topic.

[Barotix]

im going to spit hot fire.

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OnT: Confront the Rumor starter and ask him why he didn't ask first. He should have had enough respect to see if it was true instead of going behind your back and spreading things that may have not been true.

[IceCrash]

It's normal to talk about friends, isn't it?
Seems like you are still on a friendship basis with all.
That's not bad.

Slander and liable are different than gossip, but who's perfect in our world?
If you go around trying to find things out about somebody who may have spoken out of turn, would you not really be attempting to remain the focus of attention? Pardon my bluntness but your big news to your friends just had a bit of a wet blanket thrown on it. Get over it. When you are conducting your 'investigation' are you not indulging in gossip yourself?

Nobody 'knew' anything about your private business and you're right that they 'should' not have speculated about you in that manner, still... the offense isn't that great in the bigger scheme of things.

~Granps

lol im not of fan of you gramps but im a fan of what you write. I don't expect you to understand my relationship with my friends. Yes people gossip, i expect that but you should understand that i also expect better of my friends. The gossip is annoying but whats really annoying is walking around with your friends feeling like you should tell them something very important about you but not having the courage to do so. Only to find out that not only did they already know but they spread the knowledge amongst themselves based solely on an unfounded rumor and not one of them had the common decency to confront me about something they had heard that was spreading around.

It a sickening feeling like you've had extra eyes on you and everything you've been saying for the past months has been taken as double speak. Not all of my friends acted like that so i know people can do better and i know im owed better from the few people i decide to call my friends, those that didn't participate in the gossip agree and so do some that did.

you paint me out like a spoiled attention whore looking for more attention, don't confuse my internet personality with my RL one. Here i can be as out and as loud, as rude as cute as i want. But its only because in RL im a very discrete and private person, i keep my head down most of the time and let ppl be ppl around me. I only think, and know, that i should expect alot better from ppl i call my friends.

i know you're not answering me.. or talking to me.. but

that's why "friends" meaning can be very relative, you should always know who your "true/deep" friends are.
ofc there's some ppl that just can't keep something to themselves, and talk what you talked with him with someone else. But if they really are true friends they'll talk with someone they know wont tell it to anyone else.. so the secret or talk stays " secret " or unknown..

and, if they're your true friends they'll normally make one joke about it, but thats it, otherwise, it's bs. If you feel that way towards those friends, it means they arent true friends.

True friends, you only find couple ones through life..
What you find most of the times is normal friends, the ones that sometimes will do what you said.

It's a complex matter, that can be very simple, if ppl, or your friends are what i call "decent" ppl.
People with values = Oh yeah.

a true friend is kind of psicologist, he'll listen to you, give your opinion, make you feel good, sometimes bad when you need to, and he/she'll care about you.

That's basicly it imo.
That's why i honestly, like i dont really have any secrets but, i dont bother with people that gossip like that, seriously, idk why you bother either.
It'd be ok to hang out with em ofc, i mean yea why not
But you shouldnt feel connected like that imo, find other ppl that will respect you and not make gossip about what you tell em, then they'll be beeing true friends

[Grimm-.-]

Shame, I have no true friends.
Here, A Secret is only a secret If no one knows.
This is why i keep things to myself, Because there are no trustworthy people I know.

[IceCrash]

Shame, I have no true friends.
Here, A Secret is only a secret If no one knows.
This is why i keep things to myself, Because there are no trustworthy people I know.

well true but, if that someone the secret got told to from the friend you told it to, is just listening, like he should.
Then it'll make the tolder happy, and wont feel the need to tell it to nobody else, and since the listener was just beeing a friend, the secret will like.. be forgotten.
But yeah, not the strict meaning of a secret, but you know what i mean

Shame, I have no true friends.
Here, A Secret is only a secret If no one knows.
This is why i keep things to myself, Because there are no trustworthy people I know.

that sucks >.<''
sorry to hear that
but dont stop believing, you'll find some ppl/someone to share your world with i believe.

sometimes you gotta be lucky tho, it kinda depends on the place you live too >.>


Imo, it's something i've learnt recently about myself even if it isnt only this,generally, for me, as a person that really gives an important meaning to the people to that surround me, it's really important what kind of people the ppl that surround me are, because my motivation is based on the people that surround me (mostly ofc, not only) most of the times..
When i combine, some nice goal, and achieving it surrounded of "decent" ppl, it's awsome..

I hope my class is "decent" next year.. i need to get lucky this time... if it's the same as it was last year im gonna kill myself jking .... /random thought

[XemnasXD]

@icecrash My true friends are the ones that didn't tell. Trust my i know the difference and yeah im using friends as a general term is but i know how i can call if shit hits the fan and who not...But just because i don't hold the gossipers as close as my true friends doesn't mean i should expect them not to act like good friends should.

[IceCrash]

@icecrash My true friends are the ones that didn't tell. Trust my i know the difference and yeah im using friends as a general term is but i know how i can call if shit hits the fan and who not...

alright alright

then there's no reason to, expect better from your "not true" friends,that way you wont feel the way you do too.
and, i dont see why you said sometimes you felt the way you said you do, like, just get together with your true friends and have a talk ^^
about your other friends, just dont tell em anything personal , and you wont have a prob ever, if you do, it'll be way easier for you to discover who did it, where the rumour came from, and slowly the ppl that really shouldnt be friends with ya will go away..
till you have a tight circle of friends = happy life

just saw your edit and

@icecrash My true friends are the ones that didn't tell. Trust my i know the difference and yeah im using friends as a general term is but i know how i can call if shit hits the fan and who not...But just because i don't hold the gossipers as close as my true friends doesn't mean i should expect them not to act like good friends should.

Indeed mate, but if you keep thinking like that, you'll always feel that way, like you wanted to tell em something and you cant, then you'll end up telling em something personal, the rumours will start gossip, bla bla bla you see.

to end that, let's call it "suffer", better prevent it, and expect both things, if you accept that they're the way they are (make gossip), you wont really expect em not be good friends, they're just, friends that are the way they are and you're expecting they be the way they are so you're prevented and wont get hurt.. (means not tell em more personal things)

so basically, you're just accepting the way your friends are and dealing with it for your own good, nothing bad : )

[Grandpa]

It's normal to talk about friends, isn't it?
Seems like you are still on a friendship basis with all.
That's not bad.

Slander and liable are different than gossip, but who's perfect in our world?
If you go around trying to find things out about somebody who may have spoken out of turn, would you not really be attempting to remain the focus of attention? Pardon my bluntness but your big news to your friends just had a bit of a wet blanket thrown on it. Get over it. When you are conducting your 'investigation' are you not indulging in gossip yourself?

Nobody 'knew' anything about your private business and you're right that they 'should' not have speculated about you in that manner, still... the offense isn't that great in the bigger scheme of things.

~Granps

lol im not of fan of you gramps but im a fan of what you write. I don't expect you to understand my relationship with my friends. Yes people gossip, i expect that but you should understand that i also expect better of my friends. The gossip is annoying but whats really annoying is walking around with your friends feeling like you should tell them something very important about you but not having the courage to do so. Only to find out that not only did they already know but they spread the knowledge amongst themselves based solely on an unfounded rumor and not one of them had the common decency to confront me about something they had heard that was spreading around.

It a sickening feeling like you've had extra eyes on you and everything you've been saying for the past months has been taken as double speak. Not all of my friends acted like that so i know people can do better and i know im owed better from the few people i decide to call my friends, those that didn't participate in the gossip agree and so do some that did.

you paint me out like a spoiled attention whore looking for more attention, don't confuse my internet personality with my RL one. Here i can be as out and as loud, as rude as cute as i want. But its only because in RL im a very discrete and private person, i keep my head down most of the time and let ppl be ppl around me. I only think, and know, that i should expect alot better from ppl i call my friends.



btw keep the homo arguments to a min, if you don't like me and mine go not like me and mine elsewhere, im not out to change worlds over srf, so unless you say something ridiculous like all all gays smoke badgers your not going to get a rise out of me....just go be anti-whatever for whatever reason in some other topic.

Yeah, I understand what you're saying here and I had second thoughts about "painting" you in that fashion. On the other hand, I do know you to be a thoughtful individual and made my suggestion with an eye toward keeping the trouble that could arise between you and your friends to a minimum.

It was too harsh. Kindly accept my apology You badger smoker (if 'badger smoker' has some meaning other than smoking a small furry somewhat vicious mammal, I don't know it)..

[Priam]

Think of it this way, you have great friends. Whereas you could've been farked with douchebags like Twyst.

[LeMasters]

lol, i always wondered what was up with your avy

other than that, its at least good that most of your friends respect you for who you are.

~LM

[Reise]

im going to spit hot fire.

[youtube]K37e8XiRLK0[youtube]

Lmfao I love that skit.

[XemnasXD]

im going to spit hot fire.

[youtube]K37e8XiRLK0[youtube]

Lmfao I love that skit.

i think that and the Prince one are my favorites.


BTW for the record the avatar has nothing to do with my sexuality...it just thought it was funny and unique and i wouldn't have to worry about 8 ppl having the same one.

also on the advise of some people, i've decided to end my my little hunt. Im not going to say "omg they don't hate me im so lucky!" cause thats BS and no one should live life thinking like that, i won't start now. I don't hang out with homophobes, some of my friends are more liberal than me so its no coincidence they didn't have a problem with it, in retrospect i should've told them sooner, but theres more to it than that, like any story and thats for a later day. I think they get the gist of how i feel anyway.

but i do like how ppl think i should settle for the "they like me"....as if you settle for 2nd best all the time or you think i should....my mom didn't raise me like that.

[TOloseGT]

yea, show them who's boss