I have a girl problem

[pineapples]

Hey, all.
Normally I'm not one to post these sort of questions, but it seems like I don't have anybody to talk to about this. I'd appreciate it if I could get some serious comments instead of just some flames. TL;DR? Don't bother posting, then, please.

I'm a sophomore in high school right now. And there's this girl.
See, the thing is, I'm a pianist. I have a two-hour lesson once a week, but once every month, instead of a normal lesson, I have something called a Master Class, where all the students in a certain grade come together for an hour or so to learn theory and just other things that don't exactly have to do directly with playing music.

n so there's this girl that's one year younger than me. I've known her since, I guess it would be 5th grade. She would've been in fourth grade then, We've always been in the same Master Class until this year.
Its always once a month, but she never went much in the first place. So instead of seeing her maybe once a month, it'd be more like three times a year. The last time I saw her was last year, towards the end of my 9th grade year. And when I did see her, I couldn't help but notice how pretty she had become, you know?
It just kinda startled me because I had never paid much attention to her. And I hadn't seen her for a LONG time, and all of a sudden I see the same girl, except now she's gorgeous.

And then after that time last year, I haven't seen her since.

Then about two weeks ago, I was having a conversation with my friend debating over something that I probably shouldn't post here. I was trying to prove my point, and he told me to ask a girl. So I grabbed some random girl coming down the stairs, and... well, you know. It was her. Turns out she's a freshmen going to my school. We said hi. She recognized me. I recognized her. I had thought she quit piano because she never showed up at my Master Classes anymore, but it turns out that she's now in the 8th - 9th grade class, while I'm in the 10th - 12th grade class.

N ever since I said hi, I guess I've been kinda... you know, infatuated. Believe me when I say I'm not the type of guy to be like this. N believe it or not, girls always come to me instead of it being the other way around. I'm a good athlete at my school, a great student, polite, dress nice, among other qualities. Not an emo, goth, punk, or a real badass, although I do things from time to time that would probably get me into alot of trouble.

And over the past two weeks, I've been looking all over the place for her, asking around about her. I keep waiting at the place that I bumped into her every day, but I've never seen her. I've asked around, and barely anyone knows her. But one of my friends used to be in her Biology class last year, and they were pretty tight. I got her phone number, AIM screenname, and just some basic information about her. She's one of the sweetest girls that my friend knows, and I could tell from the start that she was really sweet from the way she acted at my Master Classes. Oh, and she has a boyfriend that goes to a different high school.

Other than that, I'm confused so much on what to do. She never gets on AIM. I can't just call her. What would I say? I can't seem to find her at school. And for some reason, I feel like I'm genuinenly head over heels for this girl, even though I barely know her. Call it one of those love-at-first-sight sort of things, although I know I'm nowhere close to loving her. But I just can't get her out of my head and I can't stop thinking about her. I really can't. First time in my life I've chased after a girl like this, and I'm clueless on what to do.

Help. Tips. Advice?

Thank you.

[XemnasXD]

when in doubt, whip it out.

no i kid i kid.

but seriously she has a boyfriend and you don't sound like you know anything about her and she doesn't seem that interested in you from the sound of it. Maybe its just me but i find not many good relationships are built on love at first sight. If your as good looking as you say you are your better of finding someone whose is interested in you and single. Crushes go away eventually and if you and this girl actually start hanging out and get to know each other and you find she's interested in you and what not then give it a try but until then put her out of sight and out of mind.

[Draquish]

Shes taken. Back off.


There is nothing more infuriating than finding out that someone is trying to get your girl while your back is turned.

[.//curb]

do you want to hit and quit?

Or for real?

[Fat_Smurf]

lol trust me on this, dont mess if your not sure you'll keep her.

[pineapples]

Shes taken. Back off.


There is nothing more infuriating than finding out that someone is trying to get your girl while your back is turned.

The thing is, regardless of how great the guy is, I know I could treat her a hundred times better. And he goes to a different high school as well.

And for real, Curb. For real.

[Casey613]

Well dude if you can treat her better, why is she not with you? Fact is you are nobody to tell. What if it was you? How'd you feel if a guy did that to you?

[TacticalMedic]

There is nothing more infuriating than finding out that someone is trying to get your girl while your back is turned.

Thats for sure!

But...

You may call her, say who you are, that youve met before and such. By that you will show that you are actually interested in her and she can decide what to do next. Ask her for her AIM (like you dont know it), ask her if she gets on AIM often, try to put up a convo, why she stoppped coming to Master Classes, which school is she going in now.

This would be important, since from then on you will know if there can be anything between you, or she just isnt interested.

You dont loose anything by trying, though you can achieve much!

[Draquish]

The thing is, regardless of how great the guy is, I know I could treat her a hundred times better. And he goes to a different high school as well.

From what I read from your post, you don't even know the guy that she's with right now, and even less about how her relationship with him is going. I recommend just establishing a friendly(not too friendly..lol) relationship with her, and if stuff starts going downhill with her current boyfriend, play the whole "I would never do that to my gf*cough*see how much better I am than him*cough*" game.

[Blurred]

Shes taken, You dont know her. If she leaves him for you... She will leave you for someone else.

[Dystopia]

Ive been there,

first thing before you do ANYTHING else, find out if it can work out, if shes interested, and dont take too long or the opportunity will pass you by

...and trust me, i know EXACTLY how you feel when you say

The thing is, regardless of how great the guy is, I know I could treat her a hundred times better. And he goes to a different high school as well.

...I have a friend right, okay were really good friends, like extremely good friends, tell each other anything, we can trust eachother with our own lives right. Lives pretty far from where I am, she moved. After she did, I wanted to step up our relationship, 4 problems with that, I waited too long, were too much of good friends, she lives really far, and she has a boyfriend.

And I thought the same thing you said, so I asked about their relationship, he is fucked up beyond anything. He stabbed multiple people, he burned a building while some one was in it, I dont think he lives with his family, I remember she said something about a group home, his brother tried to kill him, his parents hate him, druggie, complete fuck up in life. I was so shocked to hear this. After all that, I asked what do you see in him after all that. She said she sees good in him somewhere. I was so pissed but I kept it to myself.

See I know I can be a better person and a better person to her, but that dosent change the way she feels about him or you, it could but it couldn't.

[Reise]

when in doubt, whip it out.

No, seriously do this.

I'm kinda tired of seeing these sorts of threads so I'm gonna leave this one lol.

[Love]

ok for girls problems that was a long ass read having said that when i like a girl and she has a bf i dont realy care lol if i am serious i get myself in shape become her friend have her hang out with my friends then make my move so............if you have the look and the game go for it

[Inuyasha584]

your gonna get your azz whooped if you mess with her i bet xD if her bf does kill you, leave me in the will and just mail me the things your gonna give to me

[NuclearSilo]

Just try to find her in your school. Threat her well as friend. One day she will find out who is better, u or her boyfriend

[Cereal_Killer]

What do you know about her bf? Is he a pansey? Two words: Cock Block

[Burningwolf]

Shes taken, You dont know her. If she leaves him for you... She will leave you for someone else.

+1

[Breed]

So you've seen her x amount of times in x amount of years and you want to break up her realtion ship for you?....
Move on dude.
Unless she's digging you cheese it............. And not in a dirty way.