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Ok dude without being too harsh on you, you are a lousy person, at least on her eyes and there is no fixing that unless you are willing to invest on understanding her and you may find out during that process that "actually" being with this person is not for you. a good advice ? every1 is a real person, Bruce Lee was no super human, he understood and was passionate about what he did and that is why he was excellent at it, point of that ? start treating every1 for what they are. As your family already said there are plenty of chicks for you to meet still, you are just heartbroken couse you lost your toy; grow up, move on, or become better and fix it. In life you only get one chance at many things, having a relationship with some stupid girl being one of those :wink: .
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That's the problem, i love her to much...And i keep thinking about her , and the times when we were together ...
As i said, i CAN'T just CAN'T get her out of my head..!!
I really don't know why i still have so much feelings for her after she broke up.. :(
And what does tncm and tcm means??
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slytther wrote:That's the problem, i love her to much...And i keep thinking about her , and the times when we were together ...
As i said, i CAN'T just CAN'T get her out of my head..!!
I really don't know why i still have so much feelings for her after she broke up.. :(
And what does tncm and tcm means??

lol watch some movies or play a new game you enjoy, whether you want it or not your brain will switch out ( fact ).
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slytther wrote:
evilpeta wrote:ps: 17? was she your first gf? your first sex? if so, that might not be love my friend :P


Well letting it go is easier said then done....and she wasn't my first love...i usually said i wouldn't take ex-gf's back either...and i was over my other ex-gf's within 1 day..but not my last girl :? ..
And yes i'm 17 but family still thinks like , oooh he's young he doesn't know what he is talking about .....
And somehow i just CAN'T get her out of my head as i said earlier :(
And how would i play that good??Since i ain't such type i think( or not yet discovered i could =S ).

idk man, you should always be careful to not get too 'into' a relationship cause you might get hurt, like what happened to you now. sure forgetting someone you "love" is really hard, but it is for the better. she already turned you down how many times?

the big thing here is: she doesn't like you for who you are, that should be more than enough reason to forget about her. another thing, that's insanely fckin rude to say to a person. if you said that to her she would've forgotten about you in a second.

the man proposes, the girl disposes. you proposed, she already told you to let go. (again, how many times?)
it's hard to talk about these things in a forum, i don't even know you nor your ex-girl nor anyone you know. so i answer based on what you typed, the way you type, and the sad faces you placed all over your post.

lol watch some movies or play a new game you enjoy, whether you want it or not your brain will switch out ( fact )

+1. if you're not good at this, better start working on it. you're only 17 and suffering from this stuff? try ending a 5 year relationship. i don't wanna jump into conclusions, but i see slashed wrists on your side. (let's hope that doesn't happen, of course)
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Love wrote:
slytther wrote:...

lol watch some movies or play a new game you enjoy, whether you want it or not your brain will switch out ( fact ).


Well i tried EVERYTHING , but still couldn't get her out of my mind.. :(... i just didn't fellt like watching a movie after 5 minutes i shut it off , tried playing one of my fave games..10 minutes...then shut it off...whatever i do i just keep thinking of her...

I love her so much i can't get those feelings and memories out of my mind...I just want her back so badly , cause i can't accept the choice she made , seriously , what we had as lovers was fierce/perfect, she said no one could break us..and then she did it herself...

For the people who don't know i still am crying , why i'm saying this ??So i can tell people have feelings to ( yes even gamers)..and so i can tell how much i love her ( maybe i said that to much but idc) , i'm really depressed and such , everyone telling it will get over , but dam it still isn't over...:(

I don't know what to do.. :banghead:
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If she says "no one could break us" in real life that means nothing. Seriously. You can't assume that teenage relationship lasts forever. Like 0.01% of all cases last trough the life time.

Now my dear friend you start hanging out with friends. Go to places where you meet other ppl same age as you are. And eventually you will find someone else. Cos I bet that your ex has moved on. So should you. It might sound hard but welcome to real world. Life is never fair.
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Well , i really don't know i tried EVERYTHING , nothing seems to work , i cannot even sleep last night i only slept for around 2 hours ..I know life isn't fair , i already know i'm in the real world...
All i can think about is would she come back for some reason??Now if that would happen i would be so glad..!!
But i don't know if i have to give her those directions or from someone/something else..
And if it had to come from my direction...how should i do that..
Really i need to try to get her back..Somehow!! :love:
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Don't try and get her back. The same thing will happen over and over again and you'll end up in a perpetual cycle of hurt.

She's not worth it. Trust me.
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Dont ever change

Be yourself.

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slytther wrote:Really i need to try to get her back..Somehow!! :love:
You can't force her to take you back and really It takes two to repair a relationship.
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@ slytther: every post you make makes me think you're OBSESSED, not in love. serisously, what the ****? just let go and forget. go to parties and meet some new chicks. you need to forget, then start hunting again.
best of luck! :P
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Time'll heal it, you might think you cant live without her, but time will heal, and you'll eventually get over her...

I'm going through pretty much the same you're going, I've lost female friend and I cant stop thinking about her, yet im too full of pride and stubborn to appologise (not that its my fault)...

As the days pass, its getting harder without her, and easier...
We had something only us could understand, and I keep telling myself she will send me message, every time I pass next to her house I look at her window, deep inside I feel everything will be fine again, but I'm not sure do I want it; do I want it to be so nice, perfect and smooth as it used to be... and on other hand, if time advances, im afraid she will forget me, because im SURE that day in her life doesnt pass without her thinking of me.... 18 days passed since we talked for last time...

Good luck, thats all I can say.
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lol u could tell her straight in the face.. or just let it go and find a person who look u even more with the experience u have now...sometimes its better to just let it go..and look on the brighter side it made u a better person ur said urself =)

but if ur rlly gonna try and pull it off to get back together..to something romantic..show that u care alot for her and that u want to spend time with her.
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Happened 2 me 2 =[ :oops:

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Tig3ress wrote:Dont ever change

Be yourself.



wut if ur a dick/ass at first?
shouldnt u change then?

forget about her. she forgot about you most likely she probably has her eyes set on another young fella

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or an old fella
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