My "asking her out" thread

[XuChu]

i can no longer read your posts without getting distracted by sig+avy every 4 words

Wonder what she thinks...

[the_wicked]

Id help you, but i've only ever asked out a couple girls (long term relations ftw)

Just ask her. I really don't think that the answer would change over a short period of time...

[Tasdik]

I love these threads, sometimes I think maybe the other person might be posting the same thing on another site.

But the best thing is, at first your REALLY happy about being with someone. Then you taste that painful sensation phrase of feeling down that it's no-more. Then you start thinking, I love myself.

i can no longer read your posts without getting distracted by sig+avy every 4 words

+1

[ghostkilla43]

either ask her out now, or go to the movies( in a group) and just work it from there.

[huejas]

I would let her know your interested without telling her it directly(tell her she looks nice or flirt with her, ask for her number and call her, w.e). After that slowy make your move. A good way to let her know yur interested and to find out if she likes yu is make a bet with her(can be anything, better something that you know yu can win)and say that is you win she has to give you a kiss. If she agrees then most likely shes interested even though you already know she is, if she doesnt...well then shes not. So if you win the bet yull get the kiss, and if yu lose yu will probably still get it if she likes yu. Then you pretty much in and just take that final step and tell her you love her when ever you think its right. Could be then, could be later, could ask her out somewere....just dont wait to long.
Me, if i see that a girl is intrested in me back, i just go in for the kiss with out any of this, so if your brave enough do that Hope it helps and good luck

[MasterKojito]

I love these threads, sometimes I think maybe the other person might be posting the same thing on another site.

But the best thing is, at first your REALLY happy about being with someone. Then you taste that painful sensation phrase of feeling down that it's no-more. Then you start thinking, I love myself.

i can no longer read your posts without getting distracted by sig+avy every 4 words

+1

Saddly me too!

[Dark Shifty]

does anyone think that my way(page one) is good?

[Stress]

does anyone think that my way(page one) is good?

Just read through your post. Sounds pretty good, but keep in mind... getting a red light in your approach is a pretty embarrassing moment. It's a risk, but it might just be worth it. I'd only do what you wrote there if I was sure that it would come out well.

[Fat_Smurf]

1- get her drunk
2- get her pregnant
3- marriage
4- ????
5- PROFTIT

[SidiousX]

does anyone think that my way(page one) is good?

Yeah yours is pretty good, thats how i always do it as well... only tho thats boy to boy:P

but yeah, actually last night i had the same problem.. i like someone as well, and i was 90% sure he likes me as well.. and we were watching a movie at my home, and we were laying in my bed.. and i slowly just got closer to him, and after a while we were touching hands and then u know enough...

just try to make physical contact.. always works for me

[Dark Shifty]

i got a quick question also to go with this...

My buddy broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago. They were dating for 2 years and things just didn't work out between them. They were each others, "first love." Me and her have always been good friends and occasionally i have liked her a bit as more than a friend while they were going out. Now that they are broken up and me and her are still good friends, would it be ok if i were to "seek" after her? if i do, i could possibly ruin my relationship with my buddy. i really don't want to do that but i got some good feelings for her and it sucks. we are going to go see juno(alone) this sat night and i don't know if i should try holding her hand at the theaters or anything. help plz

[redneck]

i got a quick question also to go with this...

My buddy broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago. They were dating for 2 years and things just didn't work out between them. They were each others, "first love." Me and her have always been good friends and occasionally i have liked her a bit as more than a friend while they were going out. Now that they are broken up and me and her are still good friends, would it be ok if i were to "seek" after her? if i do, i could possibly ruin my relationship with my buddy. i really don't want to do that but i got some good feelings for her and it sucks. we are going to go see juno(alone) this sat night and i don't know if i should try holding her hand at the theaters or anything. help plz

Sounds like something they would show on a teenage soap opera.

[Doron]

Give her a copy of this song:

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to show her what your made of..

[Doron]

Depends on your age group.

I'm 16, she's 15.

wow... 16 going on 15...

I had that many drinks today...

[Dystopia]

wow sad asking for romance advice on a forum lol

anyways, begin by asking for a study date and eventually ask her out for a date if still interested

You may find it sad, I dont find it sad one bit...when im seeking advice, I was always told to go to a professional because I have some fked up shit in my life, but I never do because I dont want to see some one that gets paid to tell me some random bullshit that they think is best for me. My friends...some I dont feel comfortable talking to, some others i wouldnt even call friends, and maybe one or 2 that really dont give good adivce.

So? I see nothing wrong with asking people for advice on the internet or particular, this forum.

Heres acutally some websites I like to read about peoples problems and solutions, the second one is just confessions, but i like reading them too. and maybe confessing once in a while..

http://teenhealthfx.com/
http://beta.grouphug.us/

i got a quick question also to go with this...

My buddy broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago. They were dating for 2 years and things just didn't work out between them. They were each others, "first love." Me and her have always been good friends and occasionally i have liked her a bit as more than a friend while they were going out. Now that they are broken up and me and her are still good friends, would it be ok if i were to "seek" after her? if i do, i could possibly ruin my relationship with my buddy. i really don't want to do that but i got some good feelings for her and it sucks. we are going to go see juno(alone) this sat night and i don't know if i should try holding her hand at the theaters or anything. help plz

I would never do that to my friend.

Id go up to him, ask him about how he feels for her, and see if hes over her, if he is then id ask if its okay if well you know..

THEN you can make your move, if not, id tell her what happened because at this point it looks like she wants your little relationship to go somewhere, and if youd just ignore her, or be just friends, that could hurt her..

But make sure hes a good friend, that would do the same to you...



I like giving advice, i think im fairly good at it

[XemnasXD]

i got a quick question also to go with this...

My buddy broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago. They were dating for 2 years and things just didn't work out between them. They were each others, "first love." Me and her have always been good friends and occasionally i have liked her a bit as more than a friend while they were going out. Now that they are broken up and me and her are still good friends, would it be ok if i were to "seek" after her? if i do, i could possibly ruin my relationship with my buddy. i really don't want to do that but i got some good feelings for her and it sucks. we are going to go see juno(alone) this sat night and i don't know if i should try holding her hand at the theaters or anything. help plz

too soon, if you really care about your buddy give it awhile and see if he's alright with it....

[andrejat]

Wow, you stole your best friends girl after like, 2 years when they broke up?

If I were him, I might consider finding you in a dark alley and beating you until you were borderline dead.

*Now I know what all these love songs / revenge things are all about ^^

[Itonami]

i got a quick question also to go with this...

My buddy broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago. They were dating for 2 years and things just didn't work out between them. They were each others, "first love." Me and her have always been good friends and occasionally i have liked her a bit as more than a friend while they were going out. Now that they are broken up and me and her are still good friends, would it be ok if i were to "seek" after her? if i do, i could possibly ruin my relationship with my buddy. i really don't want to do that but i got some good feelings for her and it sucks. we are going to go see juno(alone) this sat night and i don't know if i should try holding her hand at the theaters or anything. help plz

Even if he's eventually 'at peace' with the end of their relationship, shit's gonna hit the fan if/when you do pursue her. He's not going to like seeing his best friend with his ex that he loved. Just watch.

[Deadsolid]

i got a quick question also to go with this...

My buddy broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago. They were dating for 2 years and things just didn't work out between them. They were each others, "first love." Me and her have always been good friends and occasionally i have liked her a bit as more than a friend while they were going out. Now that they are broken up and me and her are still good friends, would it be ok if i were to "seek" after her? if i do, i could possibly ruin my relationship with my buddy. i really don't want to do that but i got some good feelings for her and it sucks. we are going to go see juno(alone) this sat night and i don't know if i should try holding her hand at the theaters or anything. help plz

Even if he's eventually 'at peace' with the end of their relationship, shit's gonna hit the fan if/when you do pursue her. He's not going to like seeing his best friend with his ex that he loved. Just watch.

My philosophy is "if it doesn't work out in the movies, it's prolly not gonna work out in life."

[Reise]

i got a quick question also to go with this...

My buddy broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago. They were dating for 2 years and things just didn't work out between them. They were each others, "first love." Me and her have always been good friends and occasionally i have liked her a bit as more than a friend while they were going out. Now that they are broken up and me and her are still good friends, would it be ok if i were to "seek" after her? if i do, i could possibly ruin my relationship with my buddy. i really don't want to do that but i got some good feelings for her and it sucks. we are going to go see juno(alone) this sat night and i don't know if i should try holding her hand at the theaters or anything. help plz

Even if he's eventually 'at peace' with the end of their relationship, shit's gonna hit the fan if/when you do pursue her. He's not going to like seeing his best friend with his ex that he loved. Just watch.

Or if he has a stitch of maturity he'll just get over it.

[andrejat]

Update:

We just had our first date, everything went Farking better then I could have imagined, and if there is a god, I owe him one.

^^

[XemnasXD]

Update:

We just had our first date, everything went Farking better then I could have imagined, and if there is a god, I owe him one.

^^

your welcome....*flies away*

[XuChu]

Update:

We just had our first date, everything went Farking better then I could have imagined, and if there is a god, I owe him one.

^^

Make it two, Jesus died for all of us. *Insert long long preach*

[crunk]

tell her ur a lvl 80 fully farmed nuker with a sun sword

[Dark Shifty]

tell her ur a lvl 80 fully farmed nuker with a sun sword

haha! they can make lil sro babies! XD

[Doron]

tell her ur a lvl 80 fully farmed nuker with a sun sword

haha! they can make lil sro babies! XD

And we'll teach their kids to walk the dinosaur!

yeah... that'll be fun..

[Twist]

Simple:Hey baby,i got red Porsche!

[andrejat]

We spent 7 hours last night at my place just.. talking and watching stuff on tv, cuddling and all that.

I don't get why people are so nervous to just go for it if you like the girl/guy, you might get shot down, but being with that someone for the sake of just being is incredible ^^

Thanks for all the advice guys.

[Fat_Smurf]

:D We spent 7 hours last night at my place just.. talking and watching stuff on tv, cuddling and all that.

I don't get why people are so nervous to just go for it if you like the girl/guy, you might get shot down, but being with that someone for the sake of just being is incredible ^^

Thanks for all the advice guys.

lol?

[Dystopia]

This is the song I can relate to, for waiting too long..
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