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Just press p and then click party match. If you want exp gains join the parties that allow 4 members in :P

Then you wont ask, people reject your offers like 50% of the time so get used to it.
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Ask them like "Can i join your party?" dont go party plz
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Yeah, everyone hates "Party plz" because it's what you usually get from foreign people looking for power leveling.

Most people have 2 reasons to reject you for a party. 1, they don't need a chinese char in the party. 2, your level is too low. Sometimes the party is friends only, but you can still get in it because people don't mind outsiders as long as they listen to instructions.

As for asking girls out, remember, don't ask when their friends are around (cuz they might be embarrassed to be asked and try to act cool and reject straight away), and know that even if a girl likes you, they are just as embarrassed to tell you as you are.

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torinchibi wrote:As for asking girls out, remember, don't ask when their friends are around (cuz they might be embarrassed to be asked and try to act cool and reject straight away), and know that even if a girl likes you, they are just as embarrassed to tell you as you are.


True that, or they might accept you out of pity and apologize and dump you later. Just set the mood and you're good to go.

As for the party thing, anything other than party plz works. f4g let me in the party, works perfectly for me.
If they reject you, dun mind ^^, pretty sure it's not because they don't like you as a person..
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I hate asking for a res from a cleric in job wars :oops:
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BuddahBless wrote:But itz leik dis mayn....all deez hoez.....dey wont a niga wit some cheeze...deez hoez aint interested in wut a mufugga look leik....if a niga got a brain on his shoulda or some bullsheit like dat. Pusy aint nuttin but meat on a bone to a ***** leik me tho. But sometimes itz best to get u a prostitute and git dat pusy and git day sheit ova wit.


I'm sorry for posting this. Admins said I'm a bigot. DO I write like this all the time? :O

Actually there several different meanings for bigot. Which one was I supposed to be? How can I be bigoted against black people when I'm black? :shock:

The person(s) who reported me, please enlighten me and show me the error of my ways.
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BuddahBless wrote:
BuddahBless wrote:But itz leik dis mayn....all deez hoez.....dey wont a niga wit some cheeze...deez hoez aint interested in wut a mufugga look leik....if a niga got a brain on his shoulda or some bullsheit like dat. Pusy aint nuttin but meat on a bone to a ***** leik me tho. But sometimes itz best to get u a prostitute and git dat pusy and git day sheit ova wit.


I'm sorry for posting this. Admins said I'm a bigot. DO I write like this all the time? :O

Actually there several different meanings for bigot. Which one was I supposed to be? How can I be bigoted against black people when I'm black? :shock:

The person(s) who reported me, please enlighten me and show me the error of my ways.

This black on black hate is killin' me.
If your black its ok to talk smack bout blacks, and white people are too scared to stop people so anyone can talk smack bout us :D
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No. On the contrary, i hope there is always a party around me (since I am euro.
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[quote="dmonsta1"]*cough anyone on Alexander server? cough* Please party me, I'm desperate! cough* :oops: :oops: :oops:[/quote]

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Im not embarassed to ask for parties besides half the time i was on saturn, oasis they just said **** off T_T or they were full
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Sometimes when i go to ask people in real life there age i almost say level haha xDDDD i played to much silkroad
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Nitro, if you're ever around Sam, you can join my party, there are several of us that play every night, we're on Eastern Standard Time. If you're lower level, sometimes I go to the crabs to help people level and answer the inevitable "where are the hungry megalope?" questions. If you're higher level, well then can I party with you :D Just look for any character with Myx in it's name, it's probably me. I've got 3x pure Bard, 3x 1h/Cleric and a 2x pure Wiz.
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BuddahBless wrote:
BuddahBless wrote:But itz leik dis mayn....all deez hoez.....dey wont a niga wit some cheeze...deez hoez aint interested in wut a mufugga look leik....if a niga got a brain on his shoulda or some bullsheit like dat. Pusy aint nuttin but meat on a bone to a ***** leik me tho. But sometimes itz best to get u a prostitute and git dat pusy and git day sheit ova wit.


I'm sorry for posting this. Admins said I'm a bigot. DO I write like this all the time? :O

Actually there several different meanings for bigot. Which one was I supposed to be? How can I be bigoted against black people when I'm black? :shock:

The person(s) who reported me, please enlighten me and show me the error of my ways.



ahha that reminds me on the Maury Povich talk show once there was a black KKK member on, that was some shit !
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I'll party with you!...next week, gotta finish my tests first ^o^, if you want you can even join my guild. my IGN is Arkentos.
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The only time you should be embarassed to ask for a party is if you find yourself begging. If you walk up to a party and just ask, "Invite Please" you really shouldn't feel bad if rejected. Just dont be that guy who follows plevel'rs constantly saying "PARTY PLZ"
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I am always in a European party with my guild, I will never ask anyone outside of the guild for parties, especially not other Chinese players, or most other Europeans as they may not know fully how a party really works, I stick to parties only with people that I know, Chinese parties...? no thanks I'd rather waste my ticket.
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†erminal wrote:I hate asking for a res from a cleric in job wars :oops:


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[quote="SlyckMyx"]Nitro, if you're ever around Sam, you can join my party, there are several of us that play every night, we're on Eastern Standard Time. If you're lower level, sometimes I go to the crabs to help people level and answer the inevitable "where are the hungry megalope?" questions. If you're higher level, well then can I party with you :D Just look for any character with Myx in it's name, it's probably me. I've got 3x pure Bard, 3x 1h/Cleric and a 2x pure Wiz.[/quote]

Lol, sounds good. Although, you're a higher level than me, so I shall be partying with you :P But yeah, I'll keep an eye out for you next time im on :)
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Huh? You don't like asking for a res in job wars?

IMHO, clerics are supposed to res, that's one of their main jobs in addition to trying to keep the party alive and giving out buffs. OTOH if a cleric is on the other side hanging out with the thiefs trying to take your gold, I guess it's kind of pointless.
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Nitro where are you grinding mostly. I can always come look for you. I've got a lvl 2x Wiz right now I'm trying to get up.
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DKFLS OOMFGZ U NVER KISED A GRUL

Kidding. On topic, like others have said, it's just an online game. They have no idea who you are, and you'll never see them in real life. What you do in the virtual world has no effect on the real world (unless you're trying to pick up 14-year-old girls), so don't be afraid to ask for a party. There's no reason to be.

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†erminal wrote:
BuddahBless wrote:
BuddahBless wrote:But itz leik dis mayn....all deez hoez.....dey wont a niga wit some cheeze...deez hoez aint interested in wut a mufugga look leik....if a niga got a brain on his shoulda or some bullsheit like dat. Pusy aint nuttin but meat on a bone to a ***** leik me tho. But sometimes itz best to get u a prostitute and git dat pusy and git day sheit ova wit.


I'm sorry for posting this. Admins said I'm a bigot. DO I write like this all the time? :O

Actually there several different meanings for bigot. Which one was I supposed to be? How can I be bigoted against black people when I'm black? :shock:

The person(s) who reported me, please enlighten me and show me the error of my ways.

This black on black hate is killin' me.
If your black its ok to talk smack bout blacks, and white people are too scared to stop people so anyone can talk smack bout us :D


I'm white, and I'm not afraid to "talk smack" about a black person who talks smack against me. Especially if they're using racial terms, such as cracker, bacon bits, beach-niger, bean dipper, bird shit, bleach boy, blowfish, cabbage, california roll, casper, caulkie, co(ck sauce, cocoa puff, dandruff, ditchpig, etc. I'll be sure to use racial slang in retaliation to their ignorance. I often make black jokes to my black friends, but of course they know it's all fun and games. Particularly fried chicken jokes.. Oh, those never get old.

NOTE: I'm not one bit racist.

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SlyckMyx wrote:Nitro where are you grinding mostly. I can always come look for you. I've got a lvl 2x Wiz right now I'm trying to get up.


I usually grind by the Hyungo Ghosts and I on at around 6 or 7 pm EST so...yeah.
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Deacon wrote:I just run up to people and go like " PT? "

50% it is invite
50% it is full

Or just party match :)

Generals spots always crowded. Always a party to find xD


Don't mislead people..especially if you are grinding on higher lvl mobs(thus higher lvls in pt) chances are like this :
25% Full
50% no
25% get a reply like : FU noob;get lost;die
Why? :
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You figure out yourself.

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