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[[SD]Frites]

ok I will explain some things.

It all started when I heared that a good friend of mine got cancer and was certain to die soon. Around that time I met my girlfriend.
Now 4 months later my friend is dieing and I don't think he will live for long I'm going tru a lot of shit right now and i'm changing because i cant really handle the situation.
This is affecting the relationship with my girlfriend because she doesnt know how to help me and I think that Im changing so drastically that eventually my girlfriend will break up with me. I really don't want this to happen because she's the only one for me who can save me from this situation.

I talked with her and also on msn but she only gives short answers like 'yes', 'no' 'oh ok'

Now i just feel like everything sux but im going to be fine, its a matter of time

[Verfo]

everything that has a beginning has an end. you cant do anything to your friend expect stand by him, just make him have a good time, i know cancer is really painful, and sometimes you cant even stand staying with him cuz you can see him through a lot of pain, but you will get through it.

[[SD]Frites]

Yes I believe that time is the key but my girlfriend isnt really supporting me now. and that's painfull

[IceCrash]

Yes I believe that time is the key but my girlfriend isnt really supporting me now. and that's painfull

Talk with that about that mate
at least itll get somethings off ur shoulder
that's what i'd try, but i know its easier said than done

[Squirt]

Thats sad . People on this forum are so nice that sometimes i forget that people really do die in real life. Well all you can do now is talk to her and tell her that you need her at this time. Explain why your acting that way...

[Doron]

Myabe it is time for you two to have a little break...

and when you need a shoulder, she is there for you.

If she doesn't understand the situation, it's not her fault. She doesn't go through what you're going through.

[True Story]
One of my dearest friend's mother passed away on cancer end of August. She was in the same year as me, only she is two years older (she's 18) she had to redo a class, and that was also hard on her. She had great friends then, but all good things came to an end. So, after she went to school again, one of her old classmates saw her comming in the hallway. They were the only to there. The old classmate ran away with fear on her face.

Now imagine. You are in the role of my friend, who will eventually lose someone dear to you.
Your girlfriend is in the role of the old classmate.

She doesn't understand it, and will run away from it with fear on her face.

She has to snap out of that, and you have to explain to her that she has to be there for you when your friend has passed away and you could really need a shoulder to cry on.

That's what relationships are all about, right?

[Squirt]

Right on Icealya...

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[Verfo]

Right on Icealya...

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[MrJoey]

Everytime I see a +1 post, I want to get a rusty spoon, and stab the person in the eye.

[Verfo]

everytime i see someone spam posting i wanna stab him in the eye

[Squirt]

Everytime I see a +1 post, I want to get a rusty spoon, and stab the person in the eye.

Dam it mrJoey your pissing me off you say you hate people who post +1 but you always go into threads and reply to the person by saying you want to stab them or something. if you did not notice you just made a post that had nothing to do with the post so you should stab your selfin th eeye with a rusty spoon.


BTW this is not a good place to argue when Frites is going trhough a hard time.

[Silkroad]

LMAO tripiest thread ever

[[SD]Frites]

LMAO tripiest thread ever

dude **** you..

Ok i talked to my girlfriend now and everything is a bit more clear now. She told me she loves me and that she'll always be there for me but she finds it hard because this situation is new for her because before everything was good and joyfull and she isnt used to this situation now. thanks for the help people

[LillDev!l]

LMAO tripiest thread ever

dude **** you..

Ok i talked to my girlfriend now and everything is a bit more clear now. She told me she loves me and that she'll always be there for me but she finds it hard because this situation is new for her because before everything was good and joyfull and she isnt used to this situation now. thanks for the help people

Dont mind that guy, hes being a little kiddy.
nice that you are clear with your girl now, as long as you have her it'll be enough to get you through it

Thats sad . People on this forum are so nice that sometimes i forget that people really do die in real life. Well all you can do now is talk to her and tell her that you need her at this time. Explain why your acting that way...

you forget, that ppl die ? you must be a lucky man then

[-Evan]

OTL has become "Post your porblems with life/girl" Section. -___-

[marjin_boo]

If your gf can't see the heart of the matter, thats telling you something about her, isnt it?

I could be wrong.

[mahumps]

If your gf can't see the heart of the matter, thats telling you something about her, isnt it?

I could be wrong.

he has a point..

OT: at least it's ok now for you.