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what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:27 pm
by cpinney
when the girl u have been planning to go to prom with for the past month decides she doesnt want to go less then 24hours before prom starts......

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:30 pm
by salmissra
cpinney wrote:when the girl u have been planning to go to prom with for the past month decides she doesnt want to go less then 24hours before prom starts......


wait so did you ask her already or just asked her now?

either way....thats a pretty b**chy thing to do >.>

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:32 pm
by Verfo
see if someone else doesnt have a date, or egg the bi*** house

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:32 pm
by cpinney
yeah.. i already asked her, weve been planning on it for around a month....

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:34 pm
by IceCrash
go to the prom, and kiss some girl in front of her face
gg.

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:35 pm
by salmissra
IceCrash wrote:go to the prom, and kiss some girl in front of her face
gg.


DO IT! why though...is she just in a bad mood, something else happened, laziness? or is it ANOTHER GUY!

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:38 pm
by cpinney
shes not going at all i think... shes emo.. which might have something to do with it.

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:43 pm
by salmissra
cpinney wrote:shes not going at all i think... shes emo.. which might have something to do with it.


>.< but if she agreed to go earlier...and changed her mind...there is NO excuse for it. if she had told you earlier, it would've been ok...not 24 hrs before the prom >.<

just go with ur friends...or another girl

i didn't even go to mine, waste of time :P

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:46 pm
by cpinney
heh well i was going with friends anyway, with her, and so idk now, i just dont even feel like going anymore, but i will anyway, ughhhh :(

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:46 pm
by Verfo
Moral of the story: never has an emo gf

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:48 pm
by cpinney
Verfo wrote:Moral of the story: never has an emo gf


she wasnt even my gf xD

but yeah truu lol

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:50 pm
by TacticalMedic
Whys everyone going "Emo, emo!" What does this even have to do with emo? And Im sure theres a pretty good reason behind all this, otherwise, shes a c*nt!

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 9:01 pm
by Doron
d'oh...

I just went alone...

Cuz I know that I will see my so called "Friends" never again after we're done with school...

Everyone is just going their own way..

And the friends I will stay friends with either didn't go or didn't have it the same time as me, they have it next year...

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 9:03 pm
by cpinney
Icealya wrote:d'oh...

I just went alone...

Cuz I know that I will see my so called "Friends" never again after we're done with school...

Everyone is just going their own way..

And the friends I will stay friends with either didn't go or didn't have it the same time as me, they have it next year...
'

what do u mean next year?

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 9:08 pm
by Doron
cpinney wrote:
Icealya wrote:d'oh...

I just went alone...

Cuz I know that I will see my so called "Friends" never again after we're done with school...

Everyone is just going their own way..

And the friends I will stay friends with either didn't go or didn't have it the same time as me, they have it next year...
'

what do u mean next year?


well, in Holland, on the schools we have different levels of smartness...

VMBO (4 years) HAVO (5 years) and VWO (6 years)

Only the people who are in their 4th VMBO, 5th HAVO and 6th VWO year have prom...

The others just have to wait.. I've got friends in 4 HAVO, so they have it next year...

The prom on our school is just as a party before the exams...

So only the people who have their exams this year may enter...

and I'm in 4 VMBO..

But the ages are all the same... but when you finish VMBO you're 16, HAVO 17 and VWO 18...

Well, maybve a year more when you have to do a year over...

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 9:09 pm
by Dark Shifty
take a shit on her lawn.

that'll show her whos boss

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 9:11 pm
by cpinney
ahh i see, thx for the insight :)

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 9:18 pm
by Squirt
Well she owes you big. Next time when you need a date make her feel guilty and she will go. Or something to that matter.

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 9:20 pm
by Reise
cpinney wrote:when the girl u have been planning to go to prom with for the past month decides she doesnt want to go less then 24hours before prom starts......


You tell her to get bent because she's probably lieing so she can go with someone else.

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 9:39 pm
by iGod
Shes obviously insecure.. you mentioned she was emo so ye

getting cold feet

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 10:02 pm
by tedtwilliger
I'll offer my advice as i am the king of being ditched and rejected. Also i have quite a few emo friends so I've learned how to deal with them when times get a bit rough.

Frankly all you can do is go to the prom, have a good time and not worry about it. If she finds out you had a terrible time because she wasn't there it will only make her feel worse. She will blame herself for ruining her night, get even more upset and possibly do something which most people deem stupid. But by going and still enjoying yourself she wont feel as guilty for it. Give her some positive reinforcement and tell her that you understand whats shes going through and it will help her a lot. Sometimes all a person needs, especially of teen years, is someone to say they understand and care.

Hope it all works out for you.

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 12:14 am
by Grimm-.-
Dark Shifty wrote:take a shit on her lawn.

that'll show her whos boss

ROFL.

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 12:50 am
by Dark Shifty
Grimm-.- wrote:
Dark Shifty wrote:take a shit on her lawn.

that'll show her whos boss

ROFL.

haha, just realized that was my 1k post. yay for me :)

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 2:58 am
by Ashikiheyun
Be straight forward with her, ask her why she doesn't want to go. Don't accept her just saying she's not, find out why. Might be something you can help her with and she's just been looking for someone who could help her.

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 3:04 am
by XemnasXD
tell her she let you down then go to prom and try to enjoy yourself....seriously this stuff happens to guys and girls all the time be it cold feet, lack of money, or they found someone better...if proms that important to you then not having her there shouldn't ruin your night....

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 3:18 am
by mahumps
Just enjoy yourself because there's nothing you can do now. You don't have enough time to force her to go with you.

BTW tell us what happened after the prom.

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 3:29 am
by Breed
She owes you.
Don't say "It's ok" and it'll do WONDERS.

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 4:02 am
by Barotix
Tell that trick to go make yo money, son. Corners getting cold. :twisted:

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 4:07 am
by Blurred
Or stay with her and u mite get something better than prom lol

Re: what do u do.....

Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 4:38 am
by Mcclane
That sux,but yea just get in with a group of your friends and theirs bound to be a girl without a date there that you know.

Dont grind(dance) to hard i had to buy my tux vest because my date had metal clasps on the back of her dress and they DESTROYED my vest :wink: