I have a girl problem
Posted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 4:37 pm
Hey, all.
Normally I'm not one to post these sort of questions, but it seems like I don't have anybody to talk to about this. I'd appreciate it if I could get some serious comments instead of just some flames. TL;DR? Don't bother posting, then, please.
I'm a sophomore in high school right now. And there's this girl.
See, the thing is, I'm a pianist. I have a two-hour lesson once a week, but once every month, instead of a normal lesson, I have something called a Master Class, where all the students in a certain grade come together for an hour or so to learn theory and just other things that don't exactly have to do directly with playing music.
n so there's this girl that's one year younger than me. I've known her since, I guess it would be 5th grade. She would've been in fourth grade then, We've always been in the same Master Class until this year.
Its always once a month, but she never went much in the first place. So instead of seeing her maybe once a month, it'd be more like three times a year. The last time I saw her was last year, towards the end of my 9th grade year. And when I did see her, I couldn't help but notice how pretty she had become, you know?
It just kinda startled me because I had never paid much attention to her. And I hadn't seen her for a LONG time, and all of a sudden I see the same girl, except now she's gorgeous.
And then after that time last year, I haven't seen her since.
Then about two weeks ago, I was having a conversation with my friend debating over something that I probably shouldn't post here. I was trying to prove my point, and he told me to ask a girl. So I grabbed some random girl coming down the stairs, and... well, you know. It was her. Turns out she's a freshmen going to my school. We said hi. She recognized me. I recognized her. I had thought she quit piano because she never showed up at my Master Classes anymore, but it turns out that she's now in the 8th - 9th grade class, while I'm in the 10th - 12th grade class.
N ever since I said hi, I guess I've been kinda... you know, infatuated. Believe me when I say I'm not the type of guy to be like this. N believe it or not, girls always come to me instead of it being the other way around. I'm a good athlete at my school, a great student, polite, dress nice, among other qualities. Not an emo, goth, punk, or a real badass, although I do things from time to time that would probably get me into alot of trouble.
And over the past two weeks, I've been looking all over the place for her, asking around about her. I keep waiting at the place that I bumped into her every day, but I've never seen her. I've asked around, and barely anyone knows her. But one of my friends used to be in her Biology class last year, and they were pretty tight. I got her phone number, AIM screenname, and just some basic information about her. She's one of the sweetest girls that my friend knows, and I could tell from the start that she was really sweet from the way she acted at my Master Classes. Oh, and she has a boyfriend that goes to a different high school.
Other than that, I'm confused so much on what to do. She never gets on AIM. I can't just call her. What would I say? I can't seem to find her at school. And for some reason, I feel like I'm genuinenly head over heels for this girl, even though I barely know her. Call it one of those love-at-first-sight sort of things, although I know I'm nowhere close to loving her. But I just can't get her out of my head and I can't stop thinking about her. I really can't. First time in my life I've chased after a girl like this, and I'm clueless on what to do.
Help. Tips. Advice?
Thank you.
Normally I'm not one to post these sort of questions, but it seems like I don't have anybody to talk to about this. I'd appreciate it if I could get some serious comments instead of just some flames. TL;DR? Don't bother posting, then, please.
I'm a sophomore in high school right now. And there's this girl.
See, the thing is, I'm a pianist. I have a two-hour lesson once a week, but once every month, instead of a normal lesson, I have something called a Master Class, where all the students in a certain grade come together for an hour or so to learn theory and just other things that don't exactly have to do directly with playing music.
n so there's this girl that's one year younger than me. I've known her since, I guess it would be 5th grade. She would've been in fourth grade then, We've always been in the same Master Class until this year.
Its always once a month, but she never went much in the first place. So instead of seeing her maybe once a month, it'd be more like three times a year. The last time I saw her was last year, towards the end of my 9th grade year. And when I did see her, I couldn't help but notice how pretty she had become, you know?
It just kinda startled me because I had never paid much attention to her. And I hadn't seen her for a LONG time, and all of a sudden I see the same girl, except now she's gorgeous.
And then after that time last year, I haven't seen her since.
Then about two weeks ago, I was having a conversation with my friend debating over something that I probably shouldn't post here. I was trying to prove my point, and he told me to ask a girl. So I grabbed some random girl coming down the stairs, and... well, you know. It was her. Turns out she's a freshmen going to my school. We said hi. She recognized me. I recognized her. I had thought she quit piano because she never showed up at my Master Classes anymore, but it turns out that she's now in the 8th - 9th grade class, while I'm in the 10th - 12th grade class.
N ever since I said hi, I guess I've been kinda... you know, infatuated. Believe me when I say I'm not the type of guy to be like this. N believe it or not, girls always come to me instead of it being the other way around. I'm a good athlete at my school, a great student, polite, dress nice, among other qualities. Not an emo, goth, punk, or a real badass, although I do things from time to time that would probably get me into alot of trouble.
And over the past two weeks, I've been looking all over the place for her, asking around about her. I keep waiting at the place that I bumped into her every day, but I've never seen her. I've asked around, and barely anyone knows her. But one of my friends used to be in her Biology class last year, and they were pretty tight. I got her phone number, AIM screenname, and just some basic information about her. She's one of the sweetest girls that my friend knows, and I could tell from the start that she was really sweet from the way she acted at my Master Classes. Oh, and she has a boyfriend that goes to a different high school.
Other than that, I'm confused so much on what to do. She never gets on AIM. I can't just call her. What would I say? I can't seem to find her at school. And for some reason, I feel like I'm genuinenly head over heels for this girl, even though I barely know her. Call it one of those love-at-first-sight sort of things, although I know I'm nowhere close to loving her. But I just can't get her out of my head and I can't stop thinking about her. I really can't. First time in my life I've chased after a girl like this, and I'm clueless on what to do.
Help. Tips. Advice?
Thank you.
