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Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 5:47 pm
by theblindarcher
Do they? I kno this is stupid but my parents once beat the **** outta me...and i wanna kno have your parents ever beat you
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 5:50 pm
by Nitro
My dad took a belt when I was kid ... and started to smack me ... It was painful ... I call that beat up ... now my parents are divorced and I dont get hitted anymore (well ofc , I'm 16 , mom wont hit me ...) but my dad isnt bad ... hehe atleast I'm not pussy ...
He done good thing when he was hitting me
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 5:55 pm
by agent420
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 5:57 pm
by Casey613
When I was 6-11 they used to but nothing too harsh, only one time when I did something terrible (I don't remember what it was though).
In my honest opinion they should have done it more often.
Beating up your children is not the solution, but new parents make lots of mistakes especially the young ones and they actually forget to teach their kid/s life values and little details. They realize that when their kid is around 10 and a bit 'rotten' already.
My 6 years old cousin is over my place everyday and my father and sister let him do whatever he wants such as playing with scissors, throwing garbage to the floor, breaking things, etc. And when I tell him not to because he can either hurt himself, hurt others or leave a mess for other people to clean up, he stars crying and my father says I'm a tyran and a bad cousin and shit.
If I decide to have a child, I'll teach him/her everything my father didn't teach me as a kid.
Agent, if I were you I'd stop the attention whoring, it's lame.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 5:58 pm
by XMoshe
I am like 20-30 cm taller then my parents...So they wouldnt dare to do it lol...
Even if I was little, they wouldnt do it either...You shouldnt smack your kids, even if they did something terrible.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 5:59 pm
by XCaosX
sure,sometimes my dad beated me when i was under 12 coz i dont wanna listen him..
now i can easily beat him so he's "afraid" of me..
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:02 pm
by huejas
i never got beat, and will never beat me kid.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:06 pm
by satman83
huejas wrote:i never got beat, and will never beat me kid.
and that is why you fail
i got beats all the time as a kid...you have to beat your kids people...BEAT THEM
HARD.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:10 pm
by .//curb
Don't hit your children and you raise a bunch of pussys.
My children are gonna be tough.
When they **** up, they're gonna get owned by me.
and when they bitch about things, that's when their ass will get beat the hardest.
I'd rather me kick my children's ass, then other kids kick their ass.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:12 pm
by agent420
Casey613 wrote:Agent, if I were you I'd stop the attention whoring, it's lame.
ok...last time i checked, this is a forum...
what do you do on a forum???? you make posts.
so what if most of my post are humorous...
just 'cause you have a stick up your ass it doesn't mean that others don't enjoy my posts...
so what if i like to add some humor and look at things from the lighter side...
lighten up!!!!!
i am not attention whoring...i just enjoy trying to make people laugh!
i've said it before and now i will direct it towards you:
"Opinions are like assholes...everybody's got one...
I just like to drop my pants more than others..."
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:16 pm
by Hostage
The kids these days that don't get beat walk around like they're big shit because they don't learn that there are consequences to there fucktart ideas. If they where beat as a child for every half ass idea they had, lighting shit on fire, jumping off things, they wouldn't grow up to the arrogant dicks they are.
In my house there was always a "good cop bad cop" thing after I would do something dumb, I liked breaking stuff and putting it back together or just melting my toys, my dad would beat the living **** out of me and then my mom would come home and explain to me what I did wrong and that "... My dad only loves and cares about me. So he doesn't want you to get hurt..." and you know what till this day I still remember those lectures and I actually think before I do something.
It's not like kids won't do dumb stuff it's how the parent approaches it that lovey touchy stuff works sometimes but other times you need to bust out the wooden spoon and go to town.
XChaosX wrote:sure,sometimes my dad beated me when i was under 12 coz i dont wanna listen him..
now i can easily beat him so he's "afraid" of me..
Cool guy aren't you.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:31 pm
by Juno
"Spare the rod, spoil the child"....
My parents never hit me other than for the reason above.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:34 pm
by Smoke
Never! They have maybe smacked me on my ass when i was a little kid. but no more as i remember.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:35 pm
by Calico
"Beat" is a pretty harsh word. My parents disciplined me physically when needed, yeah.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:36 pm
by Millenium
I can't believe how many people voted for no. Growing up in my culture I just assumed EVERY KID was beaten up in the process of growth. Gah.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:37 pm
by Smoke
Millenium wrote:I can't believe how many people voted for no. Growing up in my culture I just assumed EVERY KID was beaten up in the process of growth. Gah.
Maybe they are afraid for voting "Yes" and they parents see it and beats them up again?
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:47 pm
by Katling
Yeah, my step dad beat me when I was a kid.
Not my mom though, she just gave me a slap accross the face every now and then. lol.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:48 pm
by Nuklear
Wow, lots of violent people in this thread. You people do understand that discipline doesn't mean violence, right? You can raise a kid using discipline and he won't turn into a 'pussy,' and you don't have to beat them to ensure they aren't full of themselves. I hope some of the people here learn a bit more about raising a kid before they have one.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:49 pm
by satman83
Millenium wrote:I can't believe how many people voted for no. Growing up in my culture I just assumed EVERY KID was beaten up in the process of growth. Gah.
lol me too...there was this one kid who never got beaten at school...lol we were SOO
shocked at him.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:56 pm
by agent420
just to clear the air...earilier when i so blatently advocated the beating of one's child and talked about the beatings i recieved, i never meant that my dad used me as a punching bag... or threw me down the stairs...or set me on fire...or would use me as a urinal ( i have read over the years horror stories like these.) i do not condone these either...but the first day my son does something stupid or disrespects me...he won't be sitting down for a while...
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 7:03 pm
by _Lana_
My dad never touched me like that,but my older brothers weren't that lucky
Bu my mom is not..... that nice when she gets angry
I remember when i was like 7-8 and i had like longer hair then,and i didn't care about it my mom always took care about it.
Then she wanted me to short little of it,but i didn't want and i kept yelling and then she took the scissors and cut my hair really short,not like a boy,but short
I welt like i was naked w/o my hair and ashamed
And i remember when i was bad she would put me in the closet all in dark
I was so afraid of dark i was freaking out,today im not that scared of dark,but i don't want to be a lone if i am
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 7:03 pm
by Posei
Never.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 7:03 pm
by Nuklear
agent420 wrote:he won't be sitting down for a while...
Why do you feel violence is a better way to raise a child then punishment, discipline, reasoning, etc.?
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 7:09 pm
by _Lana_
Nuklear wrote:agent420 wrote:he won't be sitting down for a while...
Why do you feel violence is a better way to raise a child then punishment, discipline, reasoning, etc.?
I have to agree,i would never hit my baby,even if i don't have one atm
Yup,i remember when she locked me in the bathroom,damn i almost ended sleeping in the bathtub
Sure.... I was annoying and loud all the times,maybe she wanted some peace watching tv
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 7:27 pm
by Calico
Nuklear wrote:agent420 wrote:he won't be sitting down for a while...
Why do you feel violence is a better way to raise a child then punishment, discipline, reasoning, etc.?
People have different ways of teaching things. It's not your child, so what does it matter? As long as it isn't abuse..
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 7:41 pm
by Sharp324
satman83 wrote:huejas wrote:i never got beat, and will never beat me kid.
and that is why you fail
i got beats all the time as a kid...you have to beat your kids people...BEAT THEM
HARD.
if you have to beat or scare a kid to do something, then you would be the one failing. But that explains a lot about you.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 7:49 pm
by Foilin
There is a diff between a spanking and a beating... i was spanked glad i was kept me from doig stupid shit more than once (Maybe twice). I will spank my kids when needed.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 8:06 pm
by agent420
Nuklear wrote:agent420 wrote:he won't be sitting down for a while...
Why do you feel violence is a better way to raise a child then punishment, discipline, reasoning, etc.?
i am not advocating violence...
punishment-go to your room...have you seen most kids rooms today? they have every electronic gadget under the sun. being sent to their room is like a vacation...
discipline- thats all i'm saying...a good whack every now and again. you sure as hell can't scold them. tv has desensitized them so much it goes in onwe ear and out the other.
reasoning-you do not reason with children. the parent is the do-all end-all. if your kid gets caught stealing,m what are you gonna do? tell him you will reward him every week if he can go without stealing?
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 8:13 pm
by Nuklear
Calico wrote:Nuklear wrote:agent420 wrote:he won't be sitting down for a while...
Why do you feel violence is a better way to raise a child then punishment, discipline, reasoning, etc.?
People have different ways of teaching things. It's not your child, so what does it matter? As long as it isn't abuse..
It matters because I believe dearly in the non-initiation of violence. If someone has not harmed your livelihood, why should you? Also, we as humans need to step away from the notion that violence solves things and a good step would be educating your child, not harming them.
I almost agree with you agent. I do not think violence, no matter the degree, is ever necessary. I do think you can reason with a child as long as you set good examples and be consistent.
Re: Your PArents Ever Beat You
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 8:23 pm
by Calico
Nuklear wrote:Calico wrote:Nuklear wrote:Why do you feel violence is a better way to raise a child then punishment, discipline, reasoning, etc.?
People have different ways of teaching things. It's not your child, so what does it matter? As long as it isn't abuse..
It matters because I believe dearly in the non-initiation of violence. If someone has not harmed your livelihood, why should you? Also, we as humans need to step away from the notion that violence solves things and a good step would be educating your child, not harming them.
I almost agree with you agent. I do not think violence, no matter the degree, is ever necessary. I do think you can reason with a child as long as you set good examples and be consistent.
Great, so use your beliefs on your children, and see how they turn out? That wasn't meant to be a knock on you or your beliefs, but this is an opinionated argument in which 99.9% of the time neither side benefits. You can write a long essay if you wanted, but it won't matter. People will discipline their children in the way that they feel is best. There's nothing you can do about it.
