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uhm, help decode girl's feeling :P
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 12:31 am
by NuclearSilo
I told a girl that I like her a lot. But after i expressed my feelings, she tried to ignore it. Uhm, what is she thinking?
Any pro about this can help?

Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 12:46 am
by fena
We're not her. She might be thinking
so many different things right now.
She might be ignoring it because she doesn't feel the same way about you.
She might be ignoring it because she likes you back, but she doesn't want to.
She might be ignoring it because she doesn't know what to say.
She might be ignoring it because she's so happy with joy that you like her, because she likes you too, that she's gone dumb and it only seems like she's ignoring it.
Facial expressions, body language, what she says - all of those help. I highly doubt anybody here could tell you what she thinks just by that tiny shred of information.

Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:03 am
by dom
She probably doesn't like you.
Next person please!
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:03 am
by Jstar1
body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:04 am
by LemonDrop
dom wrote:She probably doesn't like you.
Next person please!
Okay..Should boobs ever be to big? :o
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:05 am
by dom
Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you
Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.
emoticons =/= body language.
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:05 am
by Silkroad
dom wrote:She probably doesn't like you.
Next person please!
+1
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:06 am
by ShizKnight
LemonDrop wrote:dom wrote:She probably doesn't like you.
Next person please!
Okay..Should boobs ever be to big? :o
I dig flat chicks.
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:07 am
by Sharp324
From my love experiences all girls are confusing, gl with it.
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:14 am
by torinchibi
I've said this before, and I will say it again. The 1st person that makes a device that will spell out female thoughts for you deserves 100 nobel prizes.
Ignoring you = not good most of the time. She either doesn't like you, and in fact dislikes you or she hasn't figured out what she thinks of you.
What I want to know is what she said after you told her?
NuclearSilo: "I like you."
Girl: ".......ugh...." *truns around and walks away*
If that looks familiar, move on.
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:15 am
by mosiac
ShizKnight wrote:LemonDrop wrote:dom wrote:She probably doesn't like you.
Next person please!
Okay..Should boobs ever be to big? :o
I dig flat chicks.
Delicious.
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:20 am
by RavenousRAWR
ShizKnight wrote:I dig flat chicks.

Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:51 am
by †erminal
1:Does she know who you are? Or have you just been watching her and glancing away everytime she looks at you?
2:Whats her # and what would you *Honestly now* give yourself?
Chances are mate, shes not interested.
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:52 am
by Amelie
dom wrote:Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you
Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.
emoticons =/= body language.
rofl

Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:53 am
by †erminal
Amelie wrote:dom wrote:Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you
Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.
emoticons =/= body language.
rofl

Might work if he sent heart/flowers/kissyface all at once.
Nothing says i love you like emoticons.
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:53 am
by Reise
Damn it.
When in doubt, just whip it out.
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:57 am
by Millenium
First you need to give us more details.
If I try to pretend something like that didn't happen, its because I don't trust what you've said, either because its only the 5th day we met or you're a playboy/flirty who I usually see with a lot of girls around.
Its just natural how we try to protect ourselves from things that might harm us, like believing in what you said and get hurt when you turn around and say, oh I was just kidding, or I changed my mind, or something like that.
She's probably placing more attention to you as we speak, asking around her friends what they think and all that. But most importantly she's waiting for you to make more moves.
I mean if he likes me he'll ask me out to movies/dinners/dates right? If he doesn't, meh just as I thought he was only playing around with me.
You should find a way to spend more time with her, then find a suitable time and express your feelings again.
Unless you were just being rushy or if you think it was only a crush or if she's not worth your effort, go for another one.
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:06 am
by Hitman144
do what dom says he the srf love guru
guru- meaning "teacher"
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:18 am
by Jstar1
dom wrote:Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you
Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.
emoticons =/= body language.
lol hehe
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 9:56 am
by Priam
dom wrote:Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you
Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.
emoticons =/= body language.
Emoticons > body language.
Msn is life.
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 7:34 pm
by Valkasdar
Girls are confused all the time, so because of that they make man be confused about them
Find some non confused girl, they are the best for a long realetionship and in the same time less painful

Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 7:43 pm
by Fat_Smurf
†erminal wrote:Amelie wrote:dom wrote:Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you
Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.
emoticons =/= body language.
rofl

Might work if he sent heart/flowers/kissyface all at once.
Nothing says i love you like emoticons.
all at once is a sure way to get laid.
ot: you should put her face in your avy and make some creepy gif sig with lot of pics of her.
girls like attention.
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 7:48 pm
by SM-Count
If a girl ignores you, it clearly means this:
She wants you to...
1. Rent hotel room.
2. Buy flowers.
3. At 8:34 P.M. arrive at her window.
4. Go in and get laid.
5. Leave.
6. Take flowers to hotel room and sit alone in silence while thinking about the fact that you just got laid but wasted $400.
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:25 pm
by NuclearSilo
A dilemma... I like her a lot. But I also like the one in my avatar. I dont know what to do, who to choose

Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:27 pm
by XemnasXD
dom wrote:Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you
Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.
emoticons =/= body language.

Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:28 pm
by Barotix
NuclearSilo wrote:A dilemma... I like her a lot. But I also like the one in my avatar. I dont know what to do, who to choose

lol, be realistic...
do you know the one in your avatar and is she available [think about this for a long time]
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:28 pm
by SM-Count
I thought LYF had a boyfriend? Either way it's highly unlikely you'll get her >.>
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:32 pm
by dom
NuclearSilo wrote:A dilemma... I like her a lot. But I also like the one in my avatar. I dont know what to do, who to choose

Nice rep save. I think it worked.
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:35 pm
by NuclearSilo
SM-Count wrote:I thought LYF had a boyfriend? Either way it's highly unlikely you'll get her >.>
WTF, who said YF got bf o.o? Who then?
I know that it's nearly impossible to be with YF, but whenever there's still hope, i'll go on... maybe until she get married :S
But my heart is divided and it's hard to forget 1
Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:54 pm
by Fat_Smurf
NuclearSilo wrote:SM-Count wrote:I thought LYF had a boyfriend? Either way it's highly unlikely you'll get her >.>
WTF, who said YF got bf o.o? Who then?
I know that it's nearly impossible to be with YF, but whenever there's still hope, i'll go on... maybe until she get married :S
But my heart is divided and it's hard to forget 1
lul
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