uhm, help decode girl's feeling :P

NuclearSilo · Post by **NuclearSilo** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 12:31 am

I told a girl that I like her a lot. But after i expressed my feelings, she tried to ignore it. Uhm, what is she thinking?

Any pro about this can help?

fena · Post by **fena** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 12:46 am

We're not her. She might be thinking so many different things right now.

She might be ignoring it because she doesn't feel the same way about you.
She might be ignoring it because she likes you back, but she doesn't want to.
She might be ignoring it because she doesn't know what to say.
She might be ignoring it because she's so happy with joy that you like her, because she likes you too, that she's gone dumb and it only seems like she's ignoring it.

Facial expressions, body language, what she says - all of those help. I highly doubt anybody here could tell you what she thinks just by that tiny shred of information.

Post by **dom** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:03 am

She probably doesn't like you.

Next person please!

Jstar1 · Post by **Jstar1** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:03 am

body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you

LemonDrop · Post by **LemonDrop** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:04 am

dom wrote:She probably doesn't like you.

Next person please!

Okay..Should boobs ever be to big? :o

Post by **dom** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:05 am

Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you

Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.

emoticons =/= body language.

Silkroad · Post by **Silkroad** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:05 am

dom wrote:She probably doesn't like you.

Next person please!

+1

ShizKnight · Post by **ShizKnight** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:06 am

LemonDrop wrote:
dom wrote:She probably doesn't like you.

Next person please!
Okay..Should boobs ever be to big? :o

I dig flat chicks.

Sharp324 · Post by **Sharp324** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:07 am

From my love experiences all girls are confusing, gl with it.

torinchibi · Post by **torinchibi** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:14 am

I've said this before, and I will say it again. The 1st person that makes a device that will spell out female thoughts for you deserves 100 nobel prizes.

Ignoring you = not good most of the time. She either doesn't like you, and in fact dislikes you or she hasn't figured out what she thinks of you.

What I want to know is what she said after you told her?

NuclearSilo: "I like you."
Girl: ".......ugh...." *truns around and walks away*

If that looks familiar, move on.

mosiac · Post by **mosiac** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:15 am

ShizKnight wrote:
LemonDrop wrote:
dom wrote:She probably doesn't like you.

Next person please!
Okay..Should boobs ever be to big? :o
I dig flat chicks.

Delicious.

RavenousRAWR · Post by **RavenousRAWR** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:20 am

ShizKnight wrote:I dig flat chicks.

†erminal · Post by **†erminal** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:51 am

1:Does she know who you are? Or have you just been watching her and glancing away everytime she looks at you?
2:Whats her # and what would you *Honestly now* give yourself?
Chances are mate, shes not interested.

Amelie · Post by **Amelie** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:52 am

dom wrote:
Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you

Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.

emoticons =/= body language.

rofl

†erminal · Post by **†erminal** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:53 am

Amelie wrote:
dom wrote:
Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you

Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.

emoticons =/= body language.

rofl

Might work if he sent heart/flowers/kissyface all at once.
Nothing says i love you like emoticons.

Reise · Post by **Reise** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:53 am

Damn it.

When in doubt, just whip it out.

Millenium · Post by **Millenium** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:57 am

First you need to give us more details.

If I try to pretend something like that didn't happen, its because I don't trust what you've said, either because its only the 5th day we met or you're a playboy/flirty who I usually see with a lot of girls around.

Its just natural how we try to protect ourselves from things that might harm us, like believing in what you said and get hurt when you turn around and say, oh I was just kidding, or I changed my mind, or something like that.

She's probably placing more attention to you as we speak, asking around her friends what they think and all that. But most importantly she's waiting for you to make more moves.

I mean if he likes me he'll ask me out to movies/dinners/dates right? If he doesn't, meh just as I thought he was only playing around with me.

You should find a way to spend more time with her, then find a suitable time and express your feelings again.

Unless you were just being rushy or if you think it was only a crush or if she's not worth your effort, go for another one.

Hitman144 · Post by **Hitman144** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:06 am

do what dom says he the srf love guru

guru- meaning "teacher"

Jstar1 · Post by **Jstar1** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:18 am

dom wrote:
Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you

Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.

emoticons =/= body language.

lol hehe

Priam · Post by **Priam** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 9:56 am

dom wrote:
Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you

Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.

emoticons =/= body language.

Emoticons > body language.

Msn is life.

Valkasdar · Post by **Valkasdar** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 7:34 pm

Girls are confused all the time, so because of that they make man be confused about them

Find some non confused girl, they are the best for a long realetionship and in the same time less painful :wink:

Fat_Smurf · Post by **Fat_Smurf** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 7:43 pm

†erminal wrote:
Amelie wrote:
dom wrote:
Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you

Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.

emoticons =/= body language.

rofl

Might work if he sent heart/flowers/kissyface all at once.
Nothing says i love you like emoticons.

all at once is a sure way to get laid.

:love:

ot: you should put her face in your avy and make some creepy gif sig with lot of pics of her.

girls like attention.

SM-Count · Post by **SM-Count** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 7:48 pm

If a girl ignores you, it clearly means this:

She wants you to...

1. Rent hotel room.

2. Buy flowers.

3. At 8:34 P.M. arrive at her window.

4. Go in and get laid.

5. Leave.

6. Take flowers to hotel room and sit alone in silence while thinking about the fact that you just got laid but wasted $400.

NuclearSilo · Post by **NuclearSilo** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:25 pm

A dilemma... I like her a lot. But I also like the one in my avatar. I dont know what to do, who to choose

XemnasXD · Post by **XemnasXD** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:27 pm

dom wrote:
Jstar1 wrote:body language is key to knowing what their attitude is toward you

Let's hope he didn't tell her on MSN.

emoticons =/= body language.

Barotix · Post by **Barotix** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:28 pm

NuclearSilo wrote:A dilemma... I like her a lot. But I also like the one in my avatar. I dont know what to do, who to choose

lol, be realistic...
do you know the one in your avatar and is she available [think about this for a long time]

SM-Count · Post by **SM-Count** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:28 pm

I thought LYF had a boyfriend? Either way it's highly unlikely you'll get her >.>

Post by **dom** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:32 pm

NuclearSilo wrote:A dilemma... I like her a lot. But I also like the one in my avatar. I dont know what to do, who to choose

Nice rep save. I think it worked.

NuclearSilo · Post by **NuclearSilo** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:35 pm

SM-Count wrote:I thought LYF had a boyfriend? Either way it's highly unlikely you'll get her >.>

WTF, who said YF got bf o.o? Who then?
I know that it's nearly impossible to be with YF, but whenever there's still hope, i'll go on... maybe until she get married :S
But my heart is divided and it's hard to forget 1

Fat_Smurf · Post by **Fat_Smurf** » Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:54 pm

NuclearSilo wrote:
SM-Count wrote:I thought LYF had a boyfriend? Either way it's highly unlikely you'll get her >.>

WTF, who said YF got bf o.o? Who then?
I know that it's nearly impossible to be with YF, but whenever there's still hope, i'll go on... maybe until she get married :S
But my heart is divided and it's hard to forget 1

lul

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