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Doubting about a girl....
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:25 pm
by [SD]Kratos
Not rly my type to talk a lot about my RL but...im doubting about something and wanted to hear some advices
Like 1 yr ago i really loved a girl, she knows it but we never been together...

lol
I used to talk a lot with her and we've been good friends, until this school year started cuz we're in different classes.
I didnt talk seriously to her for like...5 months now
Saturday we were both invited to a party and i was like..normal lol i was talking with everyone and having fun but she seemt to be , very talkative with me, like more interested than before...ehm
I'm not sure if its just me or if she really do talks more to me since saturday but anyways
What shall i do...talk about it to her or let ig go? hhmm

Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:27 pm
by [SD]Kratos
ok this is her last msg on msn
now i listen rihanna and ne-yo hate that i love...

Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:30 pm
by Wu
now i listen rihanna and ne-yo hate that i love...
What's that, music?
If you like her keep up the contact I'd say
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:30 pm
by StealMySoda
Don't get too caught up in it. If you really are interested in her, tell her how you feel see what happens. If she pushes you away, its all good, its not like you see much of her anyway

Re: Doubting about a girl....
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:32 pm
by Amelie
[SD]Kratos wrote:Saturday we were both invited to a party and i was like..normal lol i was talking with everyone and having fun but she seemt to be , very talkative with me, like more interested than before...ehm
dont get wrong ideas about this. If a girl just approaches and start talking to you, it doesnt mean "she's more interested". Unless she really implies it.
To me, it's just a regular thing that women do. Now what you must do is trying to talk to her more often, if that's the girl you like (love), then it would be cool if at least you get to know her better and be good friends. Time will tell if she gets interested on you.

Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:33 pm
by DrunkiMunki
StealMySoda wrote:Don't get too caught up in it. If you really are interested in her, tell her how you feel see what happens. If she pushes you away, its all good, its not like you see much of her anyway

Communications my lord, communications!
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:34 pm
by RuYi
If you like her, tell her how you feel!
Don't waste any time on figuring out what she'll do when you tell her or what she wants. Women have no idea what they want, trust me.
And listen to other music!

Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:39 pm
by gamef
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:43 pm
by [SD]Kratos
YEah i have no problem talking to her im just scared to scare her oO
like...She stops talking to me cuz she's scared i keep talking to her about this...hmm
Girls

Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:43 pm
by MrBow
Alcohol should of made the game on the party easier..

Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:44 pm
by DrunkiMunki
MrBow wrote:Alcohol should of made the game on the party easier..

it makes things worse for me

Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:47 pm
by school
i say go for it like sit with her and tell her you love her and want to know what she thinks about that and if she feels the same way about you worse thing that can happen is she says no and you can either move on or try to win her back just be coola bout it

Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:49 pm
by Quyxz
Past the link to this topic accidentily in your MSN conversation with her. :')
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:58 pm
by Reise
When in doubt, just whip it out.
Re: Doubting about a girl....
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:58 pm
by dom
Amelie wrote:[SD]Kratos wrote:Saturday we were both invited to a party and i was like..normal lol i was talking with everyone and having fun but she seemt to be , very talkative with me, like more interested than before...ehm
dont get wrong ideas about this. If a girl just approaches and start talking to you, it doesnt mean "she's more interested". Unless she really implies it.
To me, it's just a regular thing that women do. Now what you must do is trying to talk to her more often, if that's the girl you like (love), then it would be cool if at least you get to know her better and be good friends. Time will tell if she gets interested on you.

+1, and she was most likely drunk - if she wasn't, that's not the kind of women you would want anyways.
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:59 pm
by [SD]Kratos
Quyxz wrote:Past the link to this topic accidentily in your MSN conversation with her. :')
lol ...
not sure
A forum...would scare her, and she doesnt speak english, i mean we're french
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:59 pm
by Doron
I'd say: go for it, yet, it's a woman thing to talk alot, so it could be somthing like, she has got 5 months to talk up to you so,.. You never know...
Yet, I would just start to harmlessly flirt with her, then a bitinnocent flirt, and then just build it up to real flirt untill the time is there...
And so what that you're in different classes???
Did it stop Romeo and Juliet that they lived in different cities??
Did it stop my two good friends to start a relation ship even though he had to do the year over and she is going on further, on an even higher level of smartness, and they can only see eachother in the 2 short breaks we got and when their lucky they have the same gap hours or they run into eachother when they walk from classroom to classroom??
HELL NO!
God, I'll say this once and never again, because I don't like things like this:
Love is just like Nike allways says:
Just do it!
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:00 pm
by [SD]Kratos
alright, then just wait guys, i'll post the rest of the convo after...
not ever asking help here if i get kicked out
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:02 pm
by cin
talk to her more often, but dont wait too long with telling her how you feel.
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:02 pm
by Itonami
Talk to her about it. You never know what can happen.
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:04 pm
by Sagan
StealMySoda wrote:Don't get too caught up in it. If you really are interested in her, tell her how you feel see what happens. If she pushes you away, its all good, its not like you see much of her anyway

This is good advice. Once you graduate high school you never have to hear from anyone again. Take some chances. Even if it only pays off once every 30 times, that is still more then the ones that never try. Now that I am settled down and engaged I realize how much fun I really did miss in high school.
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:07 pm
by dom
Sagan wrote:StealMySoda wrote:Don't get too caught up in it. If you really are interested in her, tell her how you feel see what happens. If she pushes you away, its all good, its not like you see much of her anyway

This is good advice. Once you graduate high school you never have to hear from anyone again. Take some chances. Even if it only pays off once every 30 times, that is still more then the ones that never try. Now that I am settled down and engaged I realize how much fun I really did miss in high school.
A guy in my class in grade 8 asked 6 different girls out on MSN in the same night - he's 19 now and he has never recovered from it.
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:13 pm
by MrBow
dom wrote:A guy in my class in grade 8 asked 6 different girls out on MSN in the same night - he's 19 now and he has never recovered from it.
lmfao

Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:21 pm
by Quyxz
[SD]Kratos wrote:Quyxz wrote:Past the link to this topic accidentily in your MSN conversation with her. :')
lol ...
not sure

A forum...would scare her, and she doesnt speak english, i mean we're french
Francais? La lange de amour. Je ne parle pas francais tho mdr
haha my french is badddddd
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:23 pm
by dom
Quyxz wrote:haha my french is badddddd
On voit ca.
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:25 pm
by Quyxz
dom wrote:Quyxz wrote:haha my french is badddddd
On voit ca.
voit is from voir?
Then you mean something like 'we see it?'

Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:26 pm
by dom
Quyxz wrote:dom wrote:Quyxz wrote:haha my french is badddddd
On voit ca.
voit is from voir?
Then you mean something like 'we see it?'

bravo!

Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:27 pm
by [SD]Kratos
Okay....

Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:28 pm
by Quyxz
dom wrote:Quyxz wrote:dom wrote:Quyxz wrote:haha my french is badddddd
On voit ca.
voit is from voir?
Then you mean something like 'we see it?'

bravo!

je suis le pro
no, ce n'est pas vrai
excusez-moi pour le offtopic chat, kratos
Re: Doubting about a girl....
Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:30 pm
by Luoma
Amelie wrote:Now what you must do is trying to talk to her more often, if that's the girl you like (love), then it would be cool if at least you get to know her better and be good friends. Time will tell if she gets interested on you.

From experience it has always seemed to be the best way, no rush take it easy
Thing not to do - "Whip it out"
