My best friend....

[Majorharper]

http://www.thepeterboroughexaminer.com/ ... ?e=3450226

*sigh* He passed away on wednesday night, in a horrible car accident, his mom called me last night, and I have barely slept since then. In life many people around us that we love pass away, usually when they are old, like grand-parents or uncles e.t.c. But no one should ever die at 19 years old. No one. This piled up on other news that my mother was just diagnosed with breast cancer this week. What the hell is going on... It feels like when something bad happens everything else follows. I will be going down to my best friend's house to see his mom and be there with her on tuesday. Whats worse is that she was basically alone when this happened as my friend's father lives in Dubai... Im still freaking out and I am still shaking, yet it doesn't seem like I can believe it. Worst part is that I talked to him tuesday night, and I told him i'd be skyping him wednesday night, but he never showed up

I will keep my head up and be strong and succeed in school along side my mother and helping her get through all she has going on. Times are hard im telling you.

When someone so close to you dies it makes you reflect on life way more, trust me its true, and if anyone else here had that happen before, they know what i am talking about.

[Something96]

May he R.I.P

Life can be a bitch sometimes, but nothing we can do

[poehalcho]

The best of luck to you and your mother and to your friend's parents as well. I can only imagine it must be very painful for all of you
I don't really know what else I can say to console you...

May your friend rest in peace.

[inky]

Sorry to hear that.

[Isis]

I am so sorry to hear about your friend, you need to be there for his mum, as well as your mum.

Makes you realise life is too short. Live life to the fullest.

[*BlackFox]

How tragic. I'm so sorry for your loss.. Please stay strong
And I do hope your mom get well soon.

[Majorharper]

Thanks for all your kind words everyone i appreciate it a lot. Even though your all so far away it helps to know there are people here to listen its very heart warming

[bergon]

<<Mod Edit: Gtfo of this thread with that shit, not the time or the place. You don't go to a funeral and try and convert people.>>

But yeah, anyhow, sorry to hear about your friend. I'll be praying for you and your family.

[Shomari]

RIP.

[CrimsonNuker]

Really sorry to hear that. I also had a scare for my friend this week. His brother called me to tell me that he hasn't been home, and when I tried to call, his phone was disconnected. He doesn't hang with the best crowd either; so I've been checking the news constantly and hoped for the best.

RIP

[cin]

Best of luck to you, your mother and your friend's family.
Try to stay strong in these tough times, and be there for each other.

[heroo]

Sorry to hear, best of luck! Time will eventually heal all wounds.

Death is a part of life too.

[Snazzi]

I cannot even begin to imagine how bad you must feel.. I have no idea what I'd do if I was in your situation. You're an inspiration man.. Stay strong, and may he RIP.

[Majorharper]

I just thought about this, and I just wanted to say, to everyone here, whether you do it or not it doesn't matter. But next time you see someone you deeply care about, tell them. Tell them you love them, and that they matter to you. Because sometimes you might not get a second chance to say it. We are not safe from anything, just going to the mall 5 minutes away from your house, you could get killed. So what I am asking all of you, is next time you see a family member, your girlfriend, your wife, who ever matters to your eyes, tell them that they mean a lot to you. Give them a big hug, doesn't matter if they don't understand why or even if they aren't used to it. Even though you might not get along with some people, it doesn't mean you don't have any feelings for them. They don't need an explanation. Just do it. You never know when a phone call and come in. Not saying to people LIVE IN FEAR OF DEATH, but rather to appreciate the people around you, and tell them what you sincerely think.

I told my friend tuesday night on skype that i'd be talking to him tomorrow again, since we didn't talk for long, but that chance never came and never will come. I had the chance to speak to him the night before, weirdly because I hadn't talked to him in 2 weeks. I don't believe in fate but dam sometimes I think I should...

[Fury]

Sorry to hear.

Unfortunately everyone deals with tough times so just know that you're not alone. One of my closest mates had his dad pass away and was diagnosed with testicular cancer all in the same week. He got it through it so well because he had a strong mind. Weeks later you could barely tell he was going through anything tough thats how well he was coping.

I guess my point is, as hard as it may be, you have to be strong for everyone and especially for yourself. Hope this helped in someway.

RIP.

[Goseki]

2012





















In all seriousness, sorry for your loss.

[BuDo]

I know what it feels like....My advise is don't do like me and alienate yourself because of this...sit with someone and actually talk about it...and do it repeatedly till you can finally accept it...

[Pinoy_Archer]

Sep. 22, 2011. Jake C****. A High School close friend, dota partner, cutting-classes buddy, we used to hang with him until he got into too much drinking which kinda made his heart complications worse. Until, one faithful night, his Girlfriend cheated on him. He went to a drinking's spree, then died the day after that cause of death was cardiac arrest...

The day that he's lifeless body was found should have been the day that he was going to meet his family. He'll be on his way for a proper flight training the next day... What a lost opportunity.

P.S. that feeling when you see his pale wrinkling face through 5mm of hardened laminated glass... Cannot unfeel... Cannot Un-nightmare...

[Skyve]

Read it on Facebook but didn't want to comment.

Lache pas.

[Majorharper]

Thank you everyone I talked a lot with my girlfriend and my mother now my dad flew in from Dubai (he is working but he came to montreal from toronto) so I will see him today and talk to him. Thanks guys means a lot I mean it when I say it.

[_Clitrix_]

I offer you my condolences, you should be glad you didnt end things on a bad term, that would suck, R.I.P

[Squirt]

Sorry to hear about it man . I'd be depressed too.

[Mirosuke]

Sorry to hear, best of luck! Time will eventually heal all wounds.

Death is a part of life too.

But not accidental death -_-

My condolences. R.I.P.

[heroo]

My uncle died in a car accident 6 years ago. It destroyed me. It is a part of life, whether you want it or not. Life is unpredictable. Not everyone will have a happy life and die of old age, some loved ones are taken away of you in a very cruel way. But I guess life can be cruel. One day you're having a great time with them, the next day they're gone. Like Majorharper said himself, better spend times with the ones you love and tell them that you love them.

Hopefully Majorharper will only get stronger from this. Take good care of yourself and think of the good times you had with him. Those memories are the most important thing he left you. Support his family. Be there for them and they will be there for you.

I wish you the best.

[Majorharper]

Thanks once again and heroo is right cherish the moments you had with him or her, and life your life the way your loved one would have wanted you to live it.

[Key-J]

Dude,

Let him RIP. Keep him in your heart, and we will spare a thought for him.

Times like these are hard.

[*BlackFox]

It is a part of life

Yeah.. It's all a part of life. And yes life can be cruel. And there's no matter who it is that has died, no matter what the circumstances are.
Well, "It's not Just my beloved dog" A family member died some years ago. But It still hurts like hell to lose someone you loved or know.

But like BuDo and other said. Talk about it! It does help you get through this tough time!

[Blurred]

Hey man, I'm really sorry. I too know what it's like to loose a best friend. May he R.I.P man.

[Millenium]

I'm so so sorry to hear what broke you guys off. I'm sure had he been alive, you guys would have been good bros for a long time to come. People who leaves us behind often teaches us big lessons about our own lives. It just sucks that we had to lose too much, just to learn that we have to live our every moment to the fullest.