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Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 4:59 pm
by Something96
Well, long story short.
Theres a girl, that I've known ever since I was 3 (15 now), and after the last time I saw her I can't get her out of my mind, I came to realise that I love her.
But the problem is that, we are really close friends, and we are kinda related to each other, and I don't wanna mess up our friendship by confessing and finding out that she doesn't love me.
halp
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 5:07 pm
by SM-Count
Here's a revelation that will rock your world, telling someone you like them and them not liking you back doesn't destroy friendships. It's awkward for a month then it's like it never happened. BOOM!! I know your mind is completely blown right now so take the next week to recover and grow some balls and just ask her out in 2 weeks.
oh shit forget all that, did not read the post through:
we are kinda related to each other
yeah **** that, stay far away, incest is not ok
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 5:10 pm
by Something96
SM-Count wrote:Here's a revelation that will rock your world, telling someone you like them and them not liking you back doesn't destroy friendships. It's awkward for a month then it's like it never happened. BOOM!! I know your mind is completely blown right now so take the next week to recover and grow some balls and just ask her out in 2 weeks.
oh shit forget all that, did not read the post through:
we are kinda related to each other
yeah **** that, stay far away, incest is not ok
*kinda*
Not actually related, I think my cousin married her aunt or something
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 5:22 pm
by only_me
if you tell her that you love her, it doesn't matter if she doesn't like you.. just ask her out and see how she acts (on your date :>)
if she's interested in you, you'll know. if she's not, then just say to her that you went out just like friends
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 5:28 pm
by *BlackFox
The_Player wrote:we are really close friends
Just stay friends!
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 5:38 pm
by .AWAKE.
did anyone else lol at 15 year old's talking about love
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 5:52 pm
by takolin
The_Player wrote:
*kinda*
Not actually related, I think my cousin married her aunt or something
I doubt that qualifies as a problem.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 6:07 pm
by Shomari
.AWAKE. wrote:did anyone else lol at 15 year old's talking about love
pretty much.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 6:27 pm
by Tasdik
Incest and 15? Yeah, no.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 6:32 pm
by Miguez
I find it ironic that your name is "the player".
Just go to the movies with her or whatever and see how it goes, if it "clicks", you'll know.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 7:06 pm
by DumboDii
Common sense?
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 7:26 pm
by Avalanche
You should watch Arrested Development for advice.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 7:28 pm
by .curve
Miguez wrote:I find it ironic that your name is "the player".
Just go to the movies with her or whatever and see how it goes, if it "clicks", you'll know.
lol but it would have to be a PG13 movie.
.AWAKE. wrote:did anyone else lol at 15 year old's talking about love
Yes. Also weird that they're somewhat related.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 7:34 pm
by Goseki
AvAlAnChE1 wrote:You should watch Arrested Development for advice.
AMEN
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 8:04 pm
by MrTwilliger
I will try to be compassionate here, despite the going trend atm. When your at the age you are, relationships may seem a lot scarier and surreal than they actually are. Most of the time though, you just have to remember to use some simple common sense. Do you get the feeling that she likes you? Does she flirt with you? Does she seem to act like more than just a friend around you? If you don't feel like she likes you than chances are, she doesn't. Which is a harsh thing to say, but a lot of the time it's the case. You have a lot of familiarity with the girl, your not necessarily "in love" with her but you've grown accustomed to her being in your life. It's natural to feel the way you do.
If you honestly thing that there may be something between you two, than tell her how you feel. Don't tell SRF how you feel, it's not like we can talk to her for you. Talk to your close friends, their opinion is probably more valid than ours. But if you don't think she likes you, than just let this one slide.
Also, you really aught to check out exactly "how" your related to her. Because that is pretty messy, truth be told.
Also, everyone lay off the guy. I mean hell, he's 15. We were all young at one stage and we all did things which we would consider stupid now. I know I did, that's for sure. Cut him some slack and actually give people a chance to grow up.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 8:49 pm
by woutR
You dont just tell a girl that you like her out of the blue. Trust me on that one, it does not work.
Ask her out.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 9:54 pm
by Doron
Go with what Twilliger said.
And yeah, the related part got me.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 11:04 pm
by NuclearSilo
15 doesn't know love
you simply wants her physically because her boobs grow bigger and you pen*** also grows bigger.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 11:06 pm
by wootpops
go get her tiger!
and silo shut up your annoying.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 11:18 pm
by Skyve
Douchebags. It seems that on SRF, the older you are, the more you think you're knowledgeable when it's rarely the case here. Get off your high horse, most of you guys never even experienced love or had a girlfriend/partner.
He has feelings for her, who cares if he calls it "love" and if it's truly is love.
You can be in love at 15. I wasn't.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 11:40 pm
by Miguez
Easy there soldier... It's true that the responses to anything dating/love related on SRF are pretty mean and negative most of the time, but that's also the case for most forums, it's the Internet after all. If he wants dating advice he should go to a dating advice forum. He's free to ask us our opinion but by doing that he must be ready to hear what the people have to say, be it nice or mean.
Now going from that to assuming that "most of you guys never even experienced love or had a girlfriend/lover" is taking a huge step that is not only pulling facts out of your arse, it can also be offensive.
With that said, love has no definition, teenagers go around saying I love you all the time nowadays, it looses most of it's importance really. Who are we to decide what he feels? He feels it and he can call it whatever the **** he wants.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 11:46 pm
by cpinney
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 11:49 pm
by Bananaman
The_Player wrote:Well, long story short.
Theres a girl, that I've known ever since I was 3 (15 now), and after the last time I saw her I can't get her out of my mind, I came to realise that I love her.
But the problem is that, we are really close friends, and we are kinda related to each other, and I don't wanna mess up our friendship by confessing and finding out that she doesn't love me.
halp
Hi.
Dont tell a girl you love her. (unless youve been dating her for a long time)
1) ask her out, just be like hey lets go to xx fun place etc. . .
2) have fun with her
3) kiss her sometime when you feel the situation is right. YOU are the man so YOU need to make the move and the move is NOT telling her *how you feel*
telling a girl that you like her in most cases freaks her out. Contrary to popular belief (TV Drams) you ahve to be the MAN! just have fun and if it goes well kiss her at a good time (youll know when that is) HOWEVER if #1 fails . . .as in she declines more than once then take it as a sign that she aint into you or most likely is seeing someone else atm.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 12:15 am
by Miguez
Don't mean to be an ass, but this.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 1:40 am
by ZaKnighT
Bananaman wrote:Hi.
Dont tell a girl you love her. (unless youve been dating her for a long time)
1) ask her out, just be like hey lets go to xx fun place etc. . .
2) have fun with her
3) kiss her sometime when you feel the situation is right. YOU are the man so YOU need to make the move and the move is NOT telling her *how you feel*
telling a girl that you like her in most cases freaks her out. Contrary to popular belief (TV Drams) you ahve to be the MAN! just have fun and if it goes well kiss her at a good time (youll know when that is) HOWEVER if #1 fails . . .as in she declines more than once then take it as a sign that she aint into you or most likely is seeing someone else atm.
^ correct.. and in case u didn't watch this movie.. you have to watch it you will like it and its kinda funny !!
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 2:26 am
by BuDo
The younger and in love you are the more real the love is... 15 and in love makes sense because love doesn't make sense....real love is without reason or sense..... The older you get the more you start to love with your mind and less with your feelings ....and love shouldn't be calculating...
So to those that think he's too young to be talking about love I have to disagree with you... Your moms and dads don't act the way they used to when they were younger because wisdom and common sense has taken a hold where pure blind foolish love used to be. They've grown up.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 3:45 am
by inky
Chloroform it.
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 4:02 am
by CrimsonNuker
I knew I shouldn't have clicked this thread >=(
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 5:52 am
by asusi
Love??lololol You "like" her, itz funny how people twist those things. Love is when you are with some body so many years and no matter what happens you stay together trough good/bad times, that's love
@Topic,
We can't give you advice, cause you never know how she react, just follow your instincts and wait for the right moment...
Re: Need help on girl issues.
Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 7:22 am
by Love
Offer her 50 bucks for physical contact, share results o.O
