Relationship help?

[Nick Invaders]

I feel kinda stupid for asking this, but it's bothering me.

Spoiler!

So there's a girl I like and I feel that she likes me back, but I'm not totally sure. She returns my phone calls, wants to hang out, etc. But there is one problem.

A while back she said she was "committed" to someone, but not dating him. The reason for that is because that guy does not live in-state. At first I dismissed it because well, he lives out of state.

So here's the problem. He flew in this weekend to hang out with her and that's what she's doing the whole weekend. Before he arrived, I asked her in a text if she is still committed, her reply was "I think I am still committed."

I asked her how it was going and she said it was going "amazingly". I'm not sure how to take this. I don't know if they are just being friends and just hanging out because they haven't seen each other in 1.4 years (she told me). Or if it's something else.

Should I just drop the suspicion and assume every thing is fine (for me)? Or should I be pretty worried? I'm the latter atm.

Also:

Spoiler!

I sent her a text saying "I can't stop thinking of you." and her reply was "There really isn't much to think about."

ahm....did I just screw myself over or something with this text? I sent it at like 1 am last night and I was super tired. I don't even know how to take her response.

[CrimsonNuker]

Posting relationship topics on the internet is like the ultimate troll bait, just sayin.

[Nick Invaders]

Which is why I said I feel stupid asking this. I am expecting at least a few.

[Azilius]

I feel kinda stupid for asking this, but it's bothering me.

Spoiler!

So there's a girl I like and I feel that she likes me back, but I'm not totally sure. She returns my phone calls, wants to hang out, etc. But there is one problem.

A while back she said she was "committed" to someone, but not dating him. The reason for that is because that guy does not live in-state. At first I dismissed it because well, he lives out of state.

So here's the problem. He flew in this weekend to hang out with her and that's what she's doing the whole weekend. Before he arrived, I asked her in a text if she is still committed, her reply was "I think I am still committed."

I asked her how it was going and she said it was going "amazingly". I'm not sure how to take this. I don't know if they are just being friends and just hanging out because they haven't seen each other in 1.4 years (she told me). Or if it's something else.

Should I just drop the suspicion and assume every thing is fine (for me)? Or should I be pretty worried? I'm the latter atm.

Also:

Spoiler!

I sent her a text saying "I can't stop thinking of you." and her reply was "There really isn't much to think about."

ahm....did I just screw myself over or something with this text? I sent it at like 1 am last night and I was super tired. I don't even know how to take her response.

Uhhhh what kind of response is 'There really isn't much to think about.'

That screams bitch. Maybe she meant it differently but wtf. If she didn't mean it in a rude way I'd say go for it.

[dom]

Spoiler 1: She likes other guy, not you.

Spoiler 2: She is getting annoyed that you're reading into things that aren't there.


Any other questions?

[Nick Invaders]

Uhhhh what kind of response is 'There really isn't much to think about.'

That screams bitch. Maybe she meant it differently but wtf. If she didn't mean it in a rude way I'd say go for it.

I really don't know, that's exactly what she wrote. Knowing her, she most likely meant something else, but what it was I have no idea.

Spoiler 1: She likes other guy, not you.

Spoiler 2: She is getting annoyed that you're reading into things that aren't there.


Any other questions?

For 1: Kay that hurts. But it wasn't coming totally unexpected.

For 2: mmk

Well that sucks.

And no, no other questions.

[DinoNuggets]

aww man that sucks
Hope it goes your way after he leaves and she realizes she needs someone there all the time and gives up on the other dude

[Snazzi]

Backhand that bitch, show her who is boss.

Nah, I agree with dom.

[Nick Invaders]

I'm thinking it's probably the way dom said, even if I don't like it.

I'm not entirely sure how to act now. Should I just keep going and see if it get's better?

[DinoNuggets]

I'm thinking it's probably the way dom said, even if I don't like it.

I'm not entirely sure how to act now. Should I just keep going and see if it get's better?

i say keep pushing forward if its still like that for more than 2-4 weeks give up on her...

[Snazzi]

I'm thinking it's probably the way dom said, even if I don't like it.

I'm not entirely sure how to act now. Should I just keep going and see if it get's better?

i say keep pushing forward if its still like that for more than 2-4 weeks give up on her...

+1. Atleast you will get the opportunity if you keep going at it.

[antics]

women are bitches that way. her guy is away so she flirts with you. then when hes back its like you dont exists

[Nick Invaders]

K thanks guys.

This weekend is not over yet T_T (and it's a 3 day weekend).
I think I'm just gonna lay low and not text her. Don't want to ruin it all on accident before I see her at school.

[DinoNuggets]

women are bitches that way. her guy is away so she flirts with you. then when hes back its like you dont exists

+1

Idk if im ever gonna understand girls under 21 after 21 they kinda become less "slutty"

[DinoNuggets]

K thanks guys.

This weekend is not over yet T_T (and it's a 3 day weekend).
I think I'm just gonna lay low and not text her. Don't want to ruin it all on accident before I see her at school.

try not to change around her i know its hard but shes gonna realize that something is bothering you and it'll get even worse it might even lead up to you guys not talking.

[Snazzi]

K thanks guys.

This weekend is not over yet T_T (and it's a 3 day weekend).
I think I'm just gonna lay low and not text her. Don't want to ruin it all on accident before I see her at school.

You in Australia mate? I got a 3 day weekend too

Nah, just don't seem to clingy lol, then hopefully it'll be all goods.

[DinoNuggets]

K thanks guys.

This weekend is not over yet T_T (and it's a 3 day weekend).
I think I'm just gonna lay low and not text her. Don't want to ruin it all on accident before I see her at school.

You in Australia mate? I got a 3 day weekend too

Nah, just don't seem to clingy lol, then hopefully it'll be all goods.

here in usa we have 3 day weekend too lol saturday sunday monday(labor day)

[Nick Invaders]

women are bitches that way. her guy is away so she flirts with you. then when hes back its like you dont exists

+1

Idk if im ever gonna understand girls under 21 after 21 they kinda become less "slutty"

Thing is. She doesn't seem like she would be one to act this way.

K thanks guys.

This weekend is not over yet T_T (and it's a 3 day weekend).
I think I'm just gonna lay low and not text her. Don't want to ruin it all on accident before I see her at school.

try not to change around her i know its hard but shes gonna realize that something is bothering you and it'll get even worse it might even lead up to you guys not talking.

Okay. Hopefully she hasn't picked up on it already.

K thanks guys.

This weekend is not over yet T_T (and it's a 3 day weekend).
I think I'm just gonna lay low and not text her. Don't want to ruin it all on accident before I see her at school.

You in Australia mate? I got a 3 day weekend too

Nah, just don't seem to clingy lol, then hopefully it'll be all goods.

Nah, USA. Labor day weekend.

[DinoNuggets]

anyways Nick goodluck on your woman troubles everyone goes through them :/ dont let her ruin your weekend

[Snazzi]

[Nick Invaders]

Thanks. I'm trying not to. I've been drowning myself in video games, and watching starcraft tourneys. Of course it's only so long until I think of her again. But hopefully it turns out fine. If not, oh well, gotta live with it.

[DinoNuggets]

Thanks. I'm trying not to. I've been drowning myself in video games, and watching starcraft tourneys. Of course it's only so long until I think of her again. But hopefully it turns out fine. If not, oh well, gotta live with it.

watch husky hes tha best commentator xD

[Nick Invaders]

Thanks. I'm trying not to. I've been drowning myself in video games, and watching starcraft tourneys. Of course it's only so long until I think of her again. But hopefully it turns out fine. If not, oh well, gotta live with it.

watch husky hes tha best commentator xD

haha husky + day9 foreva

[DinoNuggets]

Thanks. I'm trying not to. I've been drowning myself in video games, and watching starcraft tourneys. Of course it's only so long until I think of her again. But hopefully it turns out fine. If not, oh well, gotta live with it.

watch husky hes tha best commentator xD

haha husky + day9 foreva

i like day9 for tutorials on builds but <3 husky's fast voice xD

[Tasdik]

Go for it.

Better that you go for it, get shut down hardcore and stop being friends with her, then you having all these pent up feeling about her for the rest of your life/whenever you see another moderately attractive girl.

[Nick Invaders]

i like day9 for tutorials on builds but <3 husky's fast voice xD

Yeah, though they are good when they cast together. I love when husky commentates ZvZ. His voice get's progressively faster and by the end I have no idea how he can talk that fast lol

Go for it.

Better that you go for it, get shut down hardcore and stop being friends with her, then you having all these pent up feeling about her for the rest of your life/whenever you see another moderately attractive girl.

Kinda don't want her to go away, even if it doesn't work though. We get along very well. Might happen though. I've tried with other girls. Two of the three are still friends with me, though we went through some rough times.

[DinoNuggets]

gotta hate that farking friend zone!

[Nick Invaders]

gotta hate that farking friend zone!

ikr?

[cpinney]

you in the friend zone brosef, do yourself a favor and don't ever talk to her again unless she starts the convo.

[satman83]

You know shes done nothing wrong at all.
She told you from the begining that she was with someone else so whats the big shock anyway? were you hoping that if you hanged around her long enough she would forget the guy she likes very much and instead start liking you?

Also are you kidding me? did you really send her that in a text? (Spoiler 2), mate...unless your going out with the girl. Or shes openly admited to liking you/your 100% she does you shouldnt really send messages like that, its creepy and stupid.