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So, like any great story, this one begins with a girl. Now, this girl's personality is incredible, that, and she enjoys gaming. Now, I know what you're thinking, but no, she's not a fatty/fugly face like most girl gamers are. *Oh wait, was that out loud?*

Anywho, I like this girl's personality a lot. But what makes me hesitant to start dating her/whatever, is that I'm not all that sexually attracted to her. Which I realize sounds odd, and that physical appearances are fleeting and not what you should base a relationship off of, well, not entirely anyhow, but is still an important aspect to any relationship. I'm confused as to how I should proceed here. All my friends think I'm crazy for not being physically attracted to her, they all think she's gorgeous. But eh, Idk.

Help?

P.S. She lives in FL, while I'm in TN, which makes me wonder if the long distance has something to do with the lack of physical attraction...

pics so we can decide.

It could be the long distance. I know for a fact that some pictures are totally different that how a person looks. It could just be something that they wear and i know for a fact that you still like the person regardless what they are wearing, but if you like her personality go for it

tl;dr : Go for it.

Oh hi there^^

_Equal_ wrote:pics so we can decide.

Haha, typical SRF.

Doron wrote:Oh hi there^^

No. Just, no.

You want the more mature version?

Fine. Why should you base a relationship purely on whether or not you're sexually attracted to someone? If nothing else, you can be her friend and see where it goes from there.

Pix or gtfo

so... let's get this clear

you like her as a person
but you don't wanna **** her
yet you're wondering if you should date her or not?

Where's the doubt mate, looks like you're lookin at a friend here, hope you're lookin forward to listen to her stories about her ex's and how she hates guys so she just spends the entire days at the basement playing games


just kidding

IceCrash wrote:so... let's get this clear

you like her as a person
but you don't wanna **** her
yet you're wondering if you should date her or not?

Where's the doubt mate, looks like you're lookin at a friend here, hope you're lookin forward to listen to her stories about her ex's and how she hates guys so she just spends the entire days at the basement playing games

So true

By the way, is she into you? Or your just assuming you could date her just cause you feel like it?

And a bit off-topic, I thought your religion held you from boneing until marriage?

is this just a remake of your previous, "i like a girl that lives really far away, but im not sure if i should ask her if she'll tell all the guys she knows that shes dating an invisible boyfriend," thread?

Hit it or stay virgin.

Tasdik wrote:P.S. She lives in FL, while I'm in TN, which makes me wonder if the long distance has something to do with the lack of physical attraction...

forget it bro, that shit don't work.

Macsnow wrote:
By the way, is she into you? Or your just assuming you could date her just cause you feel like it?

And a bit off-topic, I thought your religion held you from boneing until marriage?

Doesn't mean we don't WANT to bone before then. ; )

cpinney wrote:

Tasdik wrote:P.S. She lives in FL, while I'm in TN, which makes me wonder if the long distance has something to do with the lack of physical attraction...

forget it bro, that shit don't work.

3/4 married siblings of mine's spouses were a result of long distance relationships. But yeah, it's lame.

CeLL wrote:is this just a remake of your previous, "i like a girl that lives really far away, but im not sure if i should ask her if she'll tell all the guys she knows that shes dating an invisible boyfriend," thread?

Oh haha, I had forgotten about that. But no, different girl. The other one got all fat, both physically and mentally. =p

_Equal_ wrote:You want the more mature version?

Fine. Why should you base a relationship purely on whether or not you're sexually attracted to someone? If nothing else, you can be her friend and see where it goes from there.

Not purely off of it. But it does play a significant part. Oh, and we've been friends for like, 2-3 years now. Being texting hoes and texting like a bazillion times a day. But yeah.

Tasdik wrote:

cpinney wrote:

Tasdik wrote:P.S. She lives in FL, while I'm in TN, which makes me wonder if the long distance has something to do with the lack of physical attraction...

forget it bro, that shit don't work.

3/4 married siblings of mine's spouses were a result of long distance relationships. But yeah, it's lame.

that is surprising,but anyway i would say just keep it how it is, text the hoe n shit and keep her on the back burner until maybe you go to uni and are closer to each other.

If you aren't attracted to her physically then sounds like she should just be a friend.

long distance relationships are risky. usually they don't work out and I can say that from own experience. you know what they say bro; out of sight, out of mind.

long distance relationship doesn't work on girls with hormone ready to burst out anytime.

you mean a girl

She's been friend zoned.

wait wut

Tasdik wrote:

cpinney wrote:

Tasdik wrote:P.S. She lives in FL, while I'm in TN, which makes me wonder if the long distance has something to do with the lack of physical attraction...

forget it bro, that shit don't work.

3/4 married siblings of mine's spouses were a result of long distance relationships. But yeah, it's lame.

They are the exception to the rule, that's it.

After reading this thread let me just say it again.

Oh hi there^^

Loving a girl with no physical attraction is called friendship, she'd be great for you as a friend.

but if she could notice that you're getting closer to her with no sexual intentions at all, she'll think about something..

NuclearSilo wrote:long distance relationship doesn't work on girls with hormone ready to burst out anytime.

Jaja, wth man

CeLL wrote:is this just a remake of your previous, "i like a girl that lives really far away, but im not sure if i should ask her if she'll tell all the guys she knows that shes dating an invisible boyfriend," thread?

THANK YOU!

I knew I read a similar thread from Tasdik before.

You are a moron,

/awesome contribution.

im gonna give you a blatant honest answer. dont f.uck with long distance. you arent there. you will be an invisible boyfriend. she WILL want physical attention. maybe not secks, but just attention. i have been in this equation. i was the guy she sought attention from. asking her to be committed to an invisible boyfriend will put stress on you, her and other guys that she is seeking attention from. just dont do it. stay friends until you can live near her.

cpinney wrote:

Tasdik wrote:P.S. She lives in FL, while I'm in TN, which makes me wonder if the long distance has something to do with the lack of physical attraction...

forget it bro, that shit don't work.

This

Long distance relationships are just a cock tease

nohunta wrote:

cpinney wrote:

Tasdik wrote:P.S. She lives in FL, while I'm in TN, which makes me wonder if the long distance has something to do with the lack of physical attraction...

forget it bro, that shit don't work.

This

I have a girlfriend for 3 years now, she lives 250km away from me? distance relationships does work, it's not the distance, it's HOW you handle it.

And before you all start yelling "internetz relationshipp"

I see her twice in week, most of time in weekends cause i have to work trough the week it self.