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Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 1:43 am
by Vaya
imagine yourself as a little boy, talking to his very first girlfriend, stammering, and saying stupid things, but so fucking happy and not thinking about what how good is what you're saying, and this girl left you, but you didn't care much, whatever.
again, you're the same little boy, talking to another girl, know the keys to charm her, thinking a million time before making any move, and you made her fall in your love, had her as your own, but you're not as happy as you was before, because you are always afraid of making a mistake and losing control.
which situation is better, being dumb with much self confidence
or being a wise ass with no self confidence
nothing related to me, just a thought i wanted to share.
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 1:50 am
by MrJoey
Only sith deal in absolutes!
Where's the other options? The world is almost never such black and whites such as "being dumb with much self confidence
or being a wise ass with no self confidence"
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 1:50 am
by McLovin1t
first one lol.
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 1:54 am
by .curve
MrJoey wrote:Only sith deal in absolutes!
Where's the other options? The world is almost never such black and whites such as "being dumb with much self confidence
or being a wise ass with no self confidence"
This.
Why can't you just be generally self confident and let things fall into place how they should?
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 2:01 am
by TOloseGT
ah, i remember my first crush, she was very cute, and i didn't really know what to say around her
good times
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 7:25 am
by MrTwilliger
TOloseGT wrote:ah, i remember my first crush, she was very cute, and i didn't really know what to say around her
good times
Most girls are still very cute and I still don't know what to say around most women. Bad times! >:[
As far as the OP is concerned, if you fall in love, you shouldn't be afraid of what to say. That's the whole thing with love, when your comfortable enough around someone talking to them is second nature. I've never been in love nor had a serious relationship, I must say, but it's the same principles that apply with friends. I can talk to my friends and simply be myself without a worry because they know who I am and the reason they talk to me is because they like who I am. Same applies to relationships.
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 7:57 am
by William-CL
Yea where is "be a wise ass with self confidence" option?
Be your own person. Some girls fall for dumb confidence. Others for goofy wise asses that are scared shitless to say 2 words to them.
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 8:07 am
by Noobs_Slayer
Why to afraid to say what you think or even control it? Just say if gf dun like GTFO.
/thread
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 9:09 am
by BloodyBlade
A mixture between the two. While 'get me a sandwhich' or ' get back to the kitchen bitch' is pretty common to scream at girls you shouldn't do this on the first date.
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:22 am
by Vaya
.curve wrote:MrJoey wrote:Only sith deal in absolutes!
Where's the other options? The world is almost never such black and whites such as "being dumb with much self confidence
or being a wise ass with no self confidence"
This.
Why can't you just be generally self confident and let things fall into place how they should?
because it's not something obtainable, you can't say i'm very confident and be confident, it happens because of the environment around you, if you try to convince yourself that you are full of confidence it won't happen
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:57 am
by NuclearSilo
The first.
Because if the girl likes you, she'd say she likes you back or not running away. A good relationship is bidirectional. Of course, you shouldn't tell her the first time you meet, that's rude. Let the time flows to get to know each other a bit.
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 2:15 pm
by Bananaman
NuclearSilo wrote:The first.
Because if the girl likes you, she'd say she likes you back or not running away. A good relationship is bidirectional. Of course, you shouldn't tell her the first time you meet, that's rude. Let the time flows to get to know each other a bit.
She just lets you know that she likes you, a lot of times before you even notice her, but if you are too busy trying to act the way everyone wants you to to please them, instead of focusing on wha tmakes you feel good and what you like and want to do instead, you will never see this coming, and instead you will end up crushing on every girl that looks somewhat attractive, hoping will they like you, or am I good enough.
If you do what you want talk to who you want, and only pay attention to those who want to be around you (including women) and not give a crap what people think of the person you really are, there will be so many beautiful women all over you, you will never have a *crush* again, YOU will be the one many women have the crush on.
All you gotta do is open your eyes, and instead of seeking approval from others, seek it from yourself untill it is AUTOMATIC. (this takes Practice) but once you have mastered yourself, The world will be your oyster.
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 3:34 pm
by BloodyBlade
Thing is : if you need to ask help on a gaming forum you are doing it wrong
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 3:53 pm
by Vaya
BloodyBlade wrote:Thing is : if you need to ask help on a gaming forum you are doing it wrong
no need for help as it's not something related to me, just discussing
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 3:56 pm
by BloodyBlade
oh
then just be yourself
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 4:29 pm
by Vaya
it's not always very clear choice
but i always be myself already
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 5:02 pm
by BloodyBlade
Thing is, you always need to be carefully what you say.
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 5:26 pm
by Vaya
that's an option, another is not thinking much about what you say knowing that you're doing good and believing in yourself
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 9:17 pm
by MrJoey
Threads like this make me wonder if 90% of the srf population is under 16.
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 9:27 pm
by chrisorg
MrJoey wrote:Only sith deal in absolutes!
Where's the other options? The world is almost never such black and whites such as "being dumb with much self confidence
or being a wise ass with no self confidence"
If you're not with me, you're my enemy!
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 9:55 pm
by RuYi
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:26 pm
by SM-Count
know the keys to charm her
Clearly you're psychotic (
def.) in the second scenario so first one.
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:27 pm
by Vaya
that would make a third option
being dumbass with nothing at all
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 12:01 am
by Shomari
K.K wrote:that would make a third option
being dumbass with nothing at all
Which is pretty much what the first option is lol
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 12:12 am
by Vaya
Shomari wrote:K.K wrote:that would make a third option
being dumbass with nothing at all
Which is pretty much what the first option is lol
nope, this boy is more than just dumb
and he's shy and he can't tell her about his feelings
he should have his own option, because he's special
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 12:14 am
by Shomari
K.K wrote:Shomari wrote:K.K wrote:that would make a third option
being dumbass with nothing at all
Which is pretty much what the first option is lol
nope, this boy is more than just dumb
and he's shy and he can't tell her about his feelings
he should have his own option, because he's special
Yeah but he is like 6.
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 12:19 am
by Vaya
Shomari wrote:Yeah but he is like 6.
which makes him different from the first option
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 12:21 am
by Shomari
K.K wrote:Shomari wrote:Yeah but he is like 6.
which makes him different from the first option
K.K wrote:imagine yourself as a little boy
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 12:29 am
by Vaya
Shomari wrote:K.K wrote:Shomari wrote:Yeah but he is like 6.
which makes him different from the first option
K.K wrote:imagine yourself as a little boy
a little boy with alot of confidence, obviously older than 6
and i didn't state that he looks retarded unlike this one
Re: Self Confidence
Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 4:06 pm
by Skyve
MrJoey wrote:Threads like this make me wonder if 90% of the srf population is under 16.
I'm 16
I pass the test
