Goseki wrote:Ask yourself this. Do you want a girl that is willing to end her relationship solely for you? Or do you want a girl that breaks up her relationship for her own reasons and you're there to support and comfort her as the rebound.
If you choose A, than go fck their shit up.
If you choose B, than just be supportive of what she does, like the ballet and talk to her often. Wait and see.
Dangers of A include she's just a hoe who will eventually dump you for a better guy.
Dangers of B include you fall into the role of supportive friend.
You say she mentioned she thinks her relationship won't last, ask her to hang out, see what she likes, if her boyfriend is a dick about something and she tells you, slip in "I wouldn't do that, I think blah blah blah". If you notice she starts getting really attached to you, can quickly slip in the "are you guys still going out?" phrase. If she says yes, act/be slightly sad. Not enough to make you look like a pussy, but enough to show you're slightly put out. If she's really interested in you, she'll prob say her thing won't last. If not, she'll prob say we're just friends.
In which case you can throw in the closer and tell her to call you if she needs someone to talk to. Than stop hanging out with her. Treat her as a friend at this point until she calls you cuz she broke up with the douchebag. If she doesn't, it's a lost cause, but you have a friend. Or a fuckbuddy, whichever.
Problem is, she's in utah. We can't hang out. I mean I got her number, *and was the only guy to do so, even though several people asked*, I could start texting her a bunch. But I don't know if I want to let myself become even more involved with her if it doesn't work out. I don't know if I could handle it.
It's weird though, cause when I was with her I caught her correcting herself. Like she'd say something that could be taken slightly romantically, then she'd correct herself and put it in the we're friends category. Which lead me to believe she was interested in me. Even if it was only slightly.
Also, she didn't say they were going to break up. It was one of her friends. This same friend loves the idea of us being together so perhaps this will work to my advantage. It never hurts to have a girl's friends on your side. Heh.
Perhaps I'll just have to play the waiting game and see what happens. She confuses me.
CeLL wrote:you only see her once in a while. just be outright blunt about it. itd be different if you saw her everyday at school. just be like, "i know you got a man, but im totally diggin ya. wanna go blow some trumpets and and eat some manna n shit?" shes 18 shes gonna respect you being flat out honest way more than oogling her for another 4 years before she decides she wants to "experience the world" and plunges vag deep into secularism.
You'd be surprised with how accurate your descriptions of our churches are. Shofar's anyone? Ha.
Anyways, I don't really ogle her. Which I know sounds weird. But I'm not constantly obsessed with her, physically, like I normally am with girls. I don't really know why. But I'm not. *don't get me wrong she does look pretty dang good, but yeah*
. Anyways, so this girl is 18. She works on a ranch out in Utah. She's an incredible ballet dancer. Has an amazing laugh. And is incredibly clumsy off the stage which I find adorable. And yeah...
Crumpets for Pres
