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Has anyone here ever talked to someone they liked and then when you finally ask the person out they tell you their already dating someone.

Finally asked a girl that I have been talking to daily after 2 months out and someone already asked her out a week ago.
I feel like such a moron for playing the patient card.

Btw love the new emoticons =/.

haa sry for u man

Aww, you got unlucky there.

Well better to have shot and missed than not having shot at all. weird translation of a dutch saying: "Nooit geschoten is altijd mis."

Practice makes perfect, I guess next time you won't stay in the friend zone too long.

Thee_UniQue wrote:Aww, you got unlucky there.

I don't know if I should even hit her up on AIM anymore =/.
It was a bit awkward in school when we talked, but Iono, just really confused as to what to talk about now when I see her.

Anyone else experience this?

She can't date the other person if she's dead, just sayin.

2 months? lul.

EvGa wrote:She can't date the other person if she's dead, just sayin.

Oh my god that was so damn awesome. I think I'm going to cry. *shiny eyes*

I'd give you some advice, but honestly, if there's one thing I suck at, it's talking to girls. I'm not embarrassed or shy, I just don't have any idea about wtf to say.

Thee_UniQue wrote:

EvGa wrote:She can't date the other person if she's dead, just sayin.

Oh my god that was so damn awesome. I think I'm going to cry. *shiny eyes*

I'd give you some advice, but honestly, if there's one thing I suck at, it's talking to girls. I'm not embarrassed or shy, I just don't have any idea about wtf to say.

it's not what you say.
it's how you say it.

Seji wrote:

Thee_UniQue wrote:

EvGa wrote:She can't date the other person if she's dead, just sayin.

Oh my god that was so damn awesome. I think I'm going to cry. *shiny eyes*

I'd give you some advice, but honestly, if there's one thing I suck at, it's talking to girls. I'm not embarrassed or shy, I just don't have any idea about wtf to say.

it's not what you say.
it's how you say it.

yea have you seen 40 Year Old Virgin? All u have to do is ask questions

lol

my guess is that you are a really creepy guy and she just said that to make you leave her alone. Considering i find it hard to not know she is going out with someone when you talk to her "daily".

I wait 2 weeks before I ask. 2 months is just too farking long. You could also try flirting with someone thats already taken, and hope that within a couple weeks/months time, they'll brake up, and you'll be there for her. If ya know what i mean.

cpinney wrote:my guess is that you are a really creepy guy and she just said that to make you leave her alone. Considering i find it hard to not know she is going out with someone when you talk to her "daily".

Oh please don't hit me with that whole Interet guy technique.
And creepy? Please, get a new bashing technique cause that one gets old.Just cause you talk to someone it doesn't mean your going to ask them about every single detail about their life.

@Heosphoros, its high school I'm taking my time mate, real passive you know?
No need to jump the gun, not like I'll die if I don't get a girlfriend before the year is over.

You've got 2 years. Till 2012, sadly, my graduation year.

Heosphoros wrote:You've got 2 years. Till 2012, sadly, my graduation year.

I'm 2012 as well ;D!

maybe she thought of you more as a friend rather than a bf/gf. waiting two months = bad idea

Squirt wrote:

cpinney wrote:my guess is that you are a really creepy guy and she just said that to make you leave her alone. Considering i find it hard to not know she is going out with someone when you talk to her "daily".

Oh please don't hit me with that whole Interet guy technique.
And creepy? Please, get a new bashing technique cause that one gets old.Just cause you talk to someone it doesn't mean your going to ask them about every single detail about their life.

@Heosphoros, its high school I'm taking my time mate, real passive you know?
No need to jump the gun, not like I'll die if I don't get a girlfriend before the year is over.

no idea what you are trying to say there.

it was not meant to bash you, but sense you took offense i can only assume that you are.

no, i wouldn't expect you to, but i would believe that would be something you would need to find out before you asked her.

your asking SRF.
SRF!
what did you expect? o_O

I'm in the complete opposite situation

I've been talking/hanging with this girl for about 2 months now, and I've heard her mention stuff about some guy named AJ likee "What do you want for Christmas?" "AJ!" and he name on msn has like AJ , but recently, we were talking about B2ST, and there the fucker is, AJ. GMH.

Also, last night my friend told me that he was going to break up with his gf, one of my friends too. Then he asks me if I could like walk her home after; so that way he knows she doesn't do anything stupid...

Talk about damaged goods.

Squirt wrote:

Heosphoros wrote:You've got 2 years. Till 2012, sadly, my graduation year.

I'm 2012 as well ;D!

Sucks for you buddy!

I just recently got with my girlfriend, i think monday?

I waited for what 3months because of complications with another girl liking me which was her best friend e.t.c

But we were already sleeping together before we were going out so yea it was kinda obvious we were gonna end up together just a matter of time...

On another note I have once waited 6 months for a girl, and then she said no (fail) haha but yea plenty of other fish!

Idk whats ur physical build in real life but id just go annoy her new bf a little bit (I can do that im big enough) idk bout you, just for the laughs and giggles see what he does

Hopefully next one will be the right one

wait till valentines day ( roughly 2-3 weeks away ) and buy her all the stuff u can, and youll win her, as long as she gets the message

Squirt wrote:Has anyone here ever talked to someone they liked and then when you finally ask the person out they tell you their already dating someone.

Finally asked a girl that I have been talking to daily after 2 months out and someone already asked her out a week ago.
I feel like such a moron for playing the patient card.

Btw love the new emoticons =/.

I've been there! =(

She would have said no anyways.

ohh these are srf icons...i thought people were copy pasting image links

EvGa wrote:She can't date the other person if she's dead, just sayin.

Said it wrong.

She can't date the other person if that other person is dead. Then you can play the sympathy card on her, tell her it will all be ok, and she won't be able to help but fall in love with you.

It's a win win for everyone. Except the one dude.

In other news, I'm hitting up Six Flags this weekend with my ex, so I'm excited about that.

hahaha I recently remembered about this guy I liked.. and he gives me his Facebook.. and there's this girl sending him one of those facebook games message.. and her name sounds *slightly* like his, so my reaction is "oshit hes married".. then I realise I read it wrong . but ouuuuch the heartbreak of the 1 minute of my dumbness when I thought he was not meant to be mine at all lol

**** that bitch. all you gotta do is keep doing what your doing and step it up some. buy her shit and rub her feet and squishy parts and i guarantee she'll forget that other buy before hes gone.

Heosphoros wrote:You've got 2 years. Till 2012, sadly, my graduation year.

Same here. Kind of ironic, too. I spend all my life in school just to die when I'm finally out.

Never happened to me before but, yeah it sucks fo sure...