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Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:09 pm
by theblindarcher
Yes sorry im making such a dumb thread...but im just so Farking confused right now
My girlfriend and i have been dating for like 4 months and things were going great but the week after winter break i felt like everything started falling apart she diddnt respond to my texts, she dont talk to me that much and she dont sit next to me, then my friend was talking to her then she said that she needed some space. We have midterms coming up next week maybe that is the reason idk any advice guys...
thanks in advance

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:11 pm
by HughGRection
first of all how old are you?

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:16 pm
by Goseki
HughGRection wrote:first of all how old are you?


This first. Age and maturity could be the difference between kids messing around, and someone's trying to pass you a hint.

Are you good friends with her friends? Pay attention to what she's doing. Odds are she prob met someone else over the break or got bored with you. Sucks m8te.

Did you forget your anniversary, etc. Think about what she's doing. Like just ignoring you totally and randomly, no reasons. Or maybe you forgot something, you guys got into a fight.

Although re-reading it now as I write this, seems like she lost interest or found someone else. Especially since you mentioned this:
theblindarcher wrote:she dont talk to me that much and she dont sit next to me.


If you guys have the same class and she's obviously ignoring you like that by trying to not sit near you, without good reason, such as teacher made you partner up, or whatever. Or unless you guys are in a fight, I'd say it's time to dump or be dumped.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:18 pm
by Xyzzzy
Dude, 4 months.. just leave her. I'm assuming you're in highschool at the latest so you've got plenty more chances. May not seem like it from your current perspective but its not worth your time, at all. Its just some chick.

She obviously doesnt want you either if she's avoiding you so cut your losses and ditch out.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:22 pm
by theblindarcher
its like she just with her friends i mean i dun got a prob with that idk how a girl can change so Farking fast we were great one day then she suddenly changed Farking sucks
but thanks...

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:24 pm
by Squirt
Lol, aren't you like a high school freshman? Let her go, believe me there are plenty of other girls out there.
Also lol, texting is really stupid, just corner her somewhere and force her to talk to you. I it's over the. It's oer, there are other fish in the sea



Edit: lol, maybe she's on her period.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:26 pm
by theblindarcher
Squirt wrote:Lol, aren't you like a high school freshman? Let her go, believe me there are plenty of other girls out there.
Also lol, texting is really stupid, just corner her somewhere and force her to talk to you. I it's over the. It's oer, there are other fish in the sea



Edit: lol, maybe she's on her period.

...maybe wtf i dont get it why the hell they get so mad when ther vags bleed god damn if my penis started bleeding ill be like oh shit and fix it with a band aid girls are totally confusin

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:33 pm
by Squirt
theblindarcher wrote:
Squirt wrote:Lol, aren't you like a high school freshman? Let her go, believe me there are plenty of other girls out there.
Also lol, texting is really stupid, just corner her somewhere and force her to talk to you. I it's over the. It's oer, there are other fish in the sea



Edit: lol, maybe she's on her period.

...maybe wtf i dont get it why the hell they get so mad when ther vags bleed god damn if my penis started bleeding ill be like oh shit and fix it with a band aid girls are totally confusin

Lol, that Is sig worthy. How oldare you guys anyways?

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:34 pm
by theblindarcher
im 15 shes 15

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:40 pm
by XMoshe
theblindarcher wrote:
Squirt wrote:Lol, aren't you like a high school freshman? Let her go, believe me there are plenty of other girls out there.
Also lol, texting is really stupid, just corner her somewhere and force her to talk to you. I it's over the. It's oer, there are other fish in the sea



Edit: lol, maybe she's on her period.

...maybe wtf i dont get it why the hell they get so mad when ther vags bleed god damn if my penis started bleeding ill be like oh shit and fix it with a band aid girls are totally confusin


I think you need some more lessons on that. If you think like that about it maybe you aren't even worthy of having a girlfriend atm.

Seriously :roll:

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:41 pm
by theblindarcher
XMoshe wrote:
theblindarcher wrote:
Squirt wrote:Lol, aren't you like a high school freshman? Let her go, believe me there are plenty of other girls out there.
Also lol, texting is really stupid, just corner her somewhere and force her to talk to you. I it's over the. It's oer, there are other fish in the sea



Edit: lol, maybe she's on her period.

...maybe wtf i dont get it why the hell they get so mad when ther vags bleed god damn if my penis started bleeding ill be like oh shit and fix it with a band aid girls are totally confusin


I think you need some more lessons on that. If you think like that about it maybe you aren't even worthy of having a girlfriend atm.

Seriously :roll:

wtf u expect me to do study vaginas and why girls get pissed when theirs start bleeding

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:46 pm
by Goseki
theblindarcher wrote:wtf u expect me to do study vaginas and why girls get pissed when theirs start bleeding


If you expect to grow up and actually find someone later in life, yes. If you enjoy being a single guy playing online games and talking on forums, than no.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:50 pm
by theblindarcher
Goseki wrote:
theblindarcher wrote:wtf u expect me to do study vaginas and why girls get pissed when theirs start bleeding


If you expect to grow up and actually find someone later in life, yes. If you enjoy being a single guy playing online games and talking on forums, than no.

u gt a point...

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:12 pm
by vietxboy911
you guys are taking it hard on the man lol.

it doesnt matter how old you are, your high school gf/crush could be your wife in the future yanno..

personally, i would try to talk to her to see whats up, first things first, do things 1 step at a time

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:19 pm
by Draquish
Dump HER! Go up to her and say it's over. Boom.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:23 pm
by wootpops
theblindarcher wrote:wtf u expect me to do study vaginas and why girls get pissed when theirs start bleeding


it all depends on the woman. and your 15 lol no sense having a girlfriend since you probably don't even know how to have sex.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:26 pm
by Goseki
vietxboy911 wrote:you guys are taking it hard on the man lol.

it doesnt matter how old you are, your high school gf/crush could be your wife in the future yanno..

personally, i would try to talk to her to see whats up, first things first, do things 1 step at a time


Well thing is, they're 15. And it seems like the girl's just trying to break it off with him without doing it in person, which is what some people do. IMO less mature ones. So he could try and press it, but when she's avoiding him and sitting away from him in situations where it's pretty easy to pick where you sit and saying she needs space. That's either A) She's having a really really bad month and being a bitch or she's trying to break it off.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:33 pm
by Squirt
wootpops wrote:
theblindarcher wrote:wtf u expect me to do study vaginas and why girls get pissed when theirs start bleeding


it all depends on the woman. and your 15 lol no sense having a girlfriend since you probably don't even know how to have sex.

With the Internet at their despense? I'm pretty sure any kid over the age of 13 in the US knows how to have sex because of te required health classes one needs to take to pass middle school.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:37 pm
by XMoshe
wootpops wrote:
theblindarcher wrote:wtf u expect me to do study vaginas and why girls get pissed when theirs start bleeding


it all depends on the woman. and your 15 lol no sense having a girlfriend since you probably don't even know how to have sex.


Yeah because having a gf is only for having sex >.>

And well, I guess you should corner her idd, not call or text but in person and make her tell whats up.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:19 am
by Toasty
Your 15. Move on.

Who cares about serious relationships at young ages.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:25 am
by Reise
The world is ending and you're gonna die.

Better write your will and give me all your shit.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:31 am
by inky
I don't mean to belittle you because of your age but everyone goes through that phase. The thing is, you guys are still young and you're probably going to look back at this in the future as nothing more than a little playtime. You haven't even graduated from HS yet. Hey, some people just get tired and worn out sometimes. It could be her being too moody for a million different reasons, or she might start to feel a little suffocated from you (I'm putting my bet on this), or she just found a new guy that she likes. It's simple as that. Just let it go, don't bitch and don't whine because self-pity will only go against your cause. Not to mention you're going to look pathetic to everyone (your gf and every girl in your school). Suck it up and do the same. If she starts chasing you and you still like her, then good. If she doesn't, then fuck it. At least you didn't ruin any chances of hooking up with other girls with raging hormones.

Or...you could follow Reise's suggestion but hand your stuff over to me before going an hero. =p

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:36 am
by Amarisa
don't listen to these guys.....if you care for her attempt talking to her in person and ask whats wrong. possibly bring her a small gift before midterms. but if she does not go back a little bit to how she was after midterms it would seem she is no longer interested

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:45 am
by inky
Amarisa wrote:don't listen to these guys.....if you care for her attempt talking to her in person and ask whats wrong. possibly bring her a small gift before midterms. but if she does not go back a little bit to how she was after midterms it would seem she is no longer interested


Clearly, she's not as interested anymore. lol. Or not at all and she feels a bit guilty about breaking up with him. If she actually cared, she probably would've returned a call or something. They're highschool midterms ffs.

But yeah..... I guess I do have to agree talking in person would be best. Just don't start crying and shit, especially in front of her for some pity love. Do not shame us :x

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 1:38 am
by Zypher
girls suck who cares

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 1:47 am
by Mirosuke
lol leave her alone, get next victim.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 3:08 am
by Lempi
Is this guy for real?

All i found in this thread was some epic lulz.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 3:18 am
by larrylhm
from the way he talked...it seems as though he's an immature and insensitive guy. "wtf u expect me to do study vaginas and why girls get pissed when theirs start bleeding"

well if i were to be his gf i'll definitel dump him if he's someonelike that. -.- now u might know the reason why she's avoiding u...cos ur attitude needs improving on.

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 4:10 am
by CrimsonNuker
Did you recently expose your lower body to her?

It sounds like shes gonna break up; so make haste and do the deed ;)

Re: Girlfriend So Confused :/

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 4:30 am
by Fury
How do you expect complete strangers to help you with your relationship problems? Seriously...its beyond me.