Wut u talk bout with ur girl girlfriend

[theblindarcher]

Just wonderin

[MrJoey]

Lemme guess, you've got a girl that's suddenly a girlfriend or going to possibly be one, and you turn into a nervous wreck and can't figure out how to start a conversation? lol

[Reise]

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[Brago]

If she doesnt want to talk, dont ask if shes mad at you like 3 times in 1 month.. gets her to say she doesnt want to be a B to you but it gold old..

yea i learned it the hard way :p

[MrJoey]

English please?

[theblindarcher]

Lemme guess, you've got a girl that's suddenly a girlfriend or going to possibly be one, and you turn into a nervous wreck and can't figure out how to start a conversation? lol

eh somewhat getting a girlfriend isnt the problem...i jsut sometimes dont hav anythin 2 say to her

[Mirosuke]

+1 to this topic, but i usually kiss her and thats all lol

[_Scarlett_]

eh somewhat getting a girlfriend isnt the problem...i jsut sometimes dont hav anythin 2 say to her

Welcome to being male; where you don't have many thoughts, nor cares. When you don't have anything or much to say, get them to talk. Ask her questions, and not small-talk questions like "how's your day," etc. Ask her questions that would possibly keep her talking, or spark interest from you to get talking.

[XemnasXD]

If you have to ask other people what you and your girlfriend should talk about, don't worry because.

1) You have nothing in common
2) Its clearly not that serious
3) It won't last long

So just relax and try to get in her pants asap...conversation, not even needed

[_Scarlett_]

If you have to ask other people what you and your girlfriend should talk about, don't worry because.

1) You have nothing in common
2) Its clearly not that serious
3) It won't last long

So just relax and try to get in her pants asap...conversation, not even needed

LOL, this is the most realistic answer you're gonna get +1 and <3

[Azilius]

Xemnas has the most realistic reply accept I don't think you're quite ready to uh..Just judging by what I've seen.

[Ashikiheyun]

Talk about the universe, her beliefs in the afterlife, what she thinks our purpose is here, or if we even have one.

But yeah, those are more topics for when you're in a more serious conversation.....until that happens, just tell her she looks sexy/beautiful. Or if you really want to talk ask her a bout a current event she knows about or is interested in.

[inky]

You serious?

You don't have any common interests? Here's a fun conversation between people in relationships: gossip about others; one of the best ways to really connect and have fun with someone is verbally talking shit behind people's backs - it creates a bond of trust between 2 people.

But come on man..you really need to ask SRF on what to talk about with your girlfriend?

[Barotix]

just **** her and move on, jeez guy.

[SneakyBanana]

I just talk to my girlfriend about anything really.

Me and my girl don't share any interests to be honest but that works in our relationship becuase it gives us more to talk about becuase no matter what she is talking about i still listen.

If your conversations are dry doesn't that tell you that you don't work together? unless your both really shy and nervous.

Try these questions to break the ice:

1. Hello, how are you?
2. How was work/school?
3. What would you like to do?

just **** her and move on, jeez guy.

Thats why you only have your hand

[Crowley]

+1 to this topic, but i usually kiss her and thats all lol

you dont even have a gf

[XesoS]

just ask if she likes sex , ask if she likes to give orals , ask if she likes anal . If she refuses or will answear with NO , just say Fuc/< you and look for new one

[penfold1992]

lol i must say anal isnt all that apealing to me but ur right hahaha, i wouldnt mind

if you dont have anything you can say to her then u have a problem. relax and just start a very broad topic. dont ask her how she is or what the weather is like or w.e because those things are easy to answer in a sentence and ull be stuck again so ask very open questions about her intrests maybe or what her plans are for next week or something like that...

the REAL problem is finding something to say that wont bore her.
i can chat all day about games and programming and rubiks cubes and w.e all day to her but she doesnt really want to hear that....
i cant help u there, ive got that same problem hahaha

[Midori]

you must have poor social skills, pretty fucking easy.

[BrokenSaint]

How hard can it get talking to people nowadays?

[penfold1992]

How hard can it get talking to people nowadays?

talking on the internet is much easier then rl.
i hate myself in rl really... im not like fat or anything like that i just have very weird views on a lot of things and im pretty much self sufficient even tho i do have friends i generally dont like 2 be with them in my spare time.

so i can chat all day on internet but come with blanks in rl.
i met my gf online and it was one of the best choices ive ever made.
if any1 gets a chance to long distant relationship try it.
u can see her when u want and u dont have 2 be constantly around her so that she annoys u xD

[_Scarlett_]

How hard can it get talking to people nowadays?

I'll agree with you that it's not hard. However, for those who are shy, intimidated, or scared (rejection, or what that other person will think of them) talking to other people can be a challenge. But in this situation, since he's talking to someone he likes, then I'll assume he doesn't want to come off or be seen in a negative light and only wants to bring the "best" he's got.

Like I and others have said: it's about having a conversation, not small talk. Just be yourself, chill, and just have fun.

[IceCrash]

rawr.

[Doron]

start texting her with a nice gossip you heard, then send a <3.

while she is sitting next to you.

Or something funny about a teacher if you're in the same class which will make her giggle, 80% chance she texts back.

Or, the old note if she's sitting next to you, or in front of you in class.

[Blinxx]

question is though.... how long have they've known each other that he has to ask what a gf and bf talks about?.... right? I mean no offense it HAS to have some sort of connection where two people actually understands or have some THING in common on... Where they actually get along on... where they have something to say about. Unless it was rather a quick " get together " as in they get together not long after getting to know each others existance, then he has to think like they're barely going out ask her questions ask her on what she's interested in as people have mentioned. A person could be shy, not to the extend they turn out as a mute.

In simple words, you should already know what to her speak about. You got with that someone for a reason, find that reason out. If you have to ask others what to talk about with your special someone, then I'm afraid you have got this whole " relationship " thing totally wrong... unless of course we're talking about a short term thing... then I suggest you follow Xem's advice on " how to work a good not so long relationship with someone " tips.



OnT: I talk to my shorty about anything, even such as I'm going to give her a whole team.... whereas her decision to decide in which sports they get into lol. <3 my midget

[IceCrash]

guys...
it's great that you're telling him how and stuff.. but if he can't think of his own shit, then when he does everything ppl alredy mentioned he'll be stuck again

[Ichimaru420]

How hard can it get talking to people nowadays?

I'll agree with you that it's not hard. However, for those who are shy, intimidated, or scared (rejection, or what that other person will think of them) talking to other people can be a challenge. But in this situation, since he's talking to someone he likes, then I'll assume he doesn't want to come off or be seen in a negative light and only wants to bring the "best" he's got.

Like I and others have said: it's about having a conversation, not small talk. Just be yourself, chill, and just have fun.

I agree...well said

[Amelie]

lol

[IceCrash]

lol

[heroo]

Silkroad.