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So there's this girl who I really like. I've known her and her family for a good 7-9ish years now, We've known each other since we were both like 7. She's been taking various dance classes since she was young. For Ballet to hip hop and everything in between.

Now, my church has a dance team. It's mainly Ballet/davidic dancing. My mother and the girl who I like's mother are the leaders of this dance team. I used too be apart of this dance team for a while when I was younger *the girl is still in this dance team*. I'm not really crazy fond of this type of dancing because, well. I find it incredible girly/gay. But I was thinking that perhaps I should re-join in order too win some brownie points/spend more time with her. And no, we're not an "item".

tl;dr: A girl I like is in this ballet dance team. I don't really like doing ballet but am thinking of joining too win some brownie points from her.

So what do y'all think?

it depends how you feel for her... if you would rather spend time with her then doing anything else then go for it.

Is she gonna care if you join or not? Maybe she would like it just as much if you showed interest by watching, and therefore save yourself from doing something you would rather not do

i wouldnt re-join, id deffinatly go to the shows and tell her she did great after, make an effort to get closer to her, let her know your there!

Edit: What he said^ he just got there quicker is all lol

Is it that girl you talked to me about? If so, GO GO GO.

you better make sure she likes guys who do ballet before you do this. Otherwise it'll turn into a fantastic trip in the Friend Zone, thats assuming you're not there already. But a boy she can finally talk about ballet with, that'll just be the perfect friend....

why can't you just see her after the dance classes and win her anyway? i'd do that for a girl i love, not for a girl i like...

Ask her the **** out.

Don't go with the pathetic "I've got tooooo do this and I've got tooooo do that to spend time with her and this one sided romance will blossom into something I can write home about... toooo" No, dancing with her will not make her suddenly more attracted to you, spending time with her will make her think your a good friend, dancing will make her think your gay and she'll try to set you up with guys. Ask her the **** out, my one and only advice for every teen who's attracted to anyone. There's never a right time if she's gonna says no, anytime's a right time if she's gonna say yes so the only problem with time is if someone else becomes a man and asks her out first.

Also, please don't bullshit me with 'I don't want toooo ruin my friendship" either, if she says no it'll be awkward for a week, she'll talk about it for maybe a week and a half, then it'll be like it never happened, never brought up in conversations again till she gets pissed. I've been rejected enough to know this happens like this everytime with someone you know.*

Grow some balls and ask her out. Don't expect a reply unless your next post is "I asked her out and she said: "

*Unless you have that dick friend who won't let you live it down, but so what? It's not like asking and getting rejected means anything. Yeah, you'll feel really really bad and embarrassed, so?

Why did I type this? This will be my new template for all posts like this; copy+paste+1 post count.

if you don't make a move on her, you'll only be in the friend zone, because she doesn't know you like her, she'll just think you just really like hanging as only...friends.

Kirkaldi wrote:Is it that girl you talked to me about? If so, GO GO GO.

Lol'd

SM-Count wrote:Ask her the **** out.

Don't go with the pathetic "I've got tooooo do this and I've got tooooo do that to spend time with her and this one sided romance will blossom into something I can write home about... toooo" No, dancing with her will not make her suddenly more attracted to you, spending time with her will make her think your a good friend, dancing will make her think your gay and she'll try to set you up with guys. Ask her the **** out, my one and only advice for every teen who's attracted to anyone. There's never a right time if she's gonna says no, anytime's a right time if she's gonna say yes so the only problem with time is if someone else becomes a man and asks her out first.

Also, please don't bullshit me with 'I don't want toooo ruin my friendship" either, if she says no it'll be awkward for a week, she'll talk about it for maybe a week and a half, then it'll be like it never happened, never brought up in conversations again till she gets pissed. I've been rejected enough to know this happens like this everytime with someone you know.*

Grow some balls and ask her out. Don't expect a reply unless your next post is "I asked her out and she said: "

*Unless you have that dick friend who won't let you live it down, but so what? It's not like asking and getting rejected means anything. Yeah, you'll feel really really bad and embarrassed, so?

Why did I type this? This will be my new template for all posts like this; copy+paste+1 post count.

With our church we both go too. We don't just ask someone out on a casual date. Whenever you do ask a girl out you'd better be pretty dang serious about marrying this girl. You've gotta talk to her father and blablabla.

Yeah I know. Who the heck does that anymore? I do.


Oh and atm she likes someone else. = /

Dude yes, do the ballet. That'll totally win you chicks.

The version of "to" you're using only needs 1 "o" bro. (The more you know!)

Don't waste your time joining up and dancing like a fool to get near the girl, just get near the girl. Shouldn't be too hard since you have already known her for so long.

DUDE ask her out, SO WHAT IF THAT MEANS something close to MARRIAGE in ur church, WOULDNT U MARRY A GIRL U LOVE?, IMO DONT JOUN THE BALLET, imo show her some of ur other interests, ask her out as friends if you like, BUT KISS HER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, after a kiss girls open up so much and look u differently, try some techniques like the do you wanna kiss me? technique, if she says yes GO FOR IT, if she says no say I WASNT SAYING U COULD, I WAS ASKING IF YOU WANTED.

Reise wrote:The version of "to" you're using only needs 1 "o" bro. (The more you know!)

Bah! I've never understood which to*o?* use when.


Oh, haha. We both have braces atm so kissing should be fun. Reise, get the wire cutters.

You use too many "o"'s when you're talking about quantity usually; like too much or too little. Can also use "too" to mean also. Can I come too?

irnerdmaybaiyesno?

Just try to be yourself, if that doesn't work, it probably won't last

True that,

Just got to give it a go...

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OH Noes Crim, You Got ROCKED!

The rockblock strikes again.

Reise wrote:The rockblock strikes again.

Lol,

Crim, you know nothing but <3

Enjoy your friendzone.

AznFury wrote:if you don't make a move on her, you'll only be in the friend zone, because she doesn't know you like her, she'll just think you just really like hanging as only...friends.

yep or this will happen;

what kind of dancing are we talking about here?
in couples or something? if so, go for it.
if its just everyone apart, don't do it, it will just get you a one-way ticket to the friends zone (assuming your not already in it....)
If you have to win brownie points with her, just ocassionally wait her up after ballet and walk her home or something, saying you thought she did really well...

I'm mostly certain that there are a thousand things that'll get you closer to her than dancing ballet.

D'oh, all my toughts have been said already.

I got a friend ( girl) we are in same class for 11 years. I never realy felt anything more then friedship to her, but this summer i started to feel that i like her and much. Well what i did? I told her about my feelings, she told me that she likes me... as a friend. Yeah it was hard for both us for like 5 days, but now we r still friends and very good ones, eventhough i like her even more now. I still have hope life goes on. Grow some balls dude and tell her, it's not easy but better then living and not knowing what she feels.

I'd say no, im not a dancer. just hang out with her at your house or her house... lol

Goobronicus wrote:Is she gonna care if you join or not? Maybe she would like it just as much if you showed interest by watching, and therefore save yourself from doing something you would rather not do

Hi Goob.

SidiousX wrote:Hi Goob.

Hi Nigi

just ask her out
dont go thro the trouble of going to a dance team you hate. then later u find out she doesnt like you. then u just wasted ur time

SidiousX wrote:

Goobronicus wrote:Is she gonna care if you join or not? Maybe she would like it just as much if you showed interest by watching, and therefore save yourself from doing something you would rather not do

Hi Goob.

Slap that ass

Tsume wrote:

SidiousX wrote:

Goobronicus wrote:Is she gonna care if you join or not? Maybe she would like it just as much if you showed interest by watching, and therefore save yourself from doing something you would rather not do

Hi Goob.

Slap that ass

just a little bit..