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So my girlfriend of 11 months went on holiday with a friend(a guy) and he is being an idiot and keep leaving her, last night he tried to kiss her and she slapped him. she went back to the hotel and he came back throwing things around and shouting etc (he was drunk). So my girl calls me crying i freak out and book the next flight out, leaving Friday.

Went into work and asked for it off with none payed leave they said no, so i quit.

Am i mad, my mum and dad seem to think so aswell as my friends?!

I would want someone to do this for me if it ever happened to me lol, only problem was the only flights out were £667 and then the hotel that they are staying at is £400ish for the week, plus food and drink im bringing another £600.

/i didnt go on the holiday in the first place incase i was not going out with her at the time of the holiday.

Ehm, yeah.. just wait till she gets back.. its not worth over 1k+ pound lol

I wouldn't say you're mad. Although I don't think you acted rationally. You have to calm down.

believe me bro i think you do the good thing to go there,
cause she sees you care about her, if you wait till she comes back then shes like wtf ? he doesnt even care, i would go, but its your choice...

SidiousX wrote:Ehm, yeah.. just wait till she gets back.. its not worth over 1k+ pound lol

and thats the reason why your still single, lulz

I think I would do the same thing. Or maybe book the next flight home for your girlfriend, if things are that bad and she needs to come home.

Be cheaper to pay gay strippers to show up at his door - more effective too.

asusi wrote:believe me bro i think you do the good thing to go there,
cause she sees you care about her, if you wait till she comes back then shes like wtf ? he doesnt even care, i would go, but its your choice...

Oh im already going, i have the holiday booked.

I wanted to go on holiday anyway and the way im seeing it, im showing my girl that i do actually care.

Bastet wrote:I think I would do the same thing. Or maybe book the next flight home for your girlfriend, if things are that bad and she needs to come home.

She paid for a holiday that has 2 weeks left from friday, im not going to ask her to come home after paying the money.

Im just going to go and make the holiday alot better...

But why didn't you go with her and her guy friend in the first place? If you wanted to go on holiday?

Bastet wrote:But why didn't you go with her and her guy friend in the first place? If you wanted to go on holiday?

/i didnt go on the holiday in the first place incase i was not going out with her at the time of the holiday.

I think it would be hard to go on holiday with someone you just broke up with, watching them around other guys etc...thats why i didnt go. When it was booked we were only going out like 2-3 months.

question.

Why couldn't she just come home?

Dude I would of acted the same way.

Wait so she's your girlfriend, but he keeps leaving her?

Kraq wrote:Wait so she's your girlfriend, but he keeps leaving her?

Leaving her as in walking away and leaving her alone...?

again...why can't she just come home...

Why would you also trust her with a male friend on vacation, and couldn't she go on vacation with you?

Do you even know the guy?

SneakyBanana wrote:

Kraq wrote:Wait so she's your girlfriend, but he keeps leaving her?

Leaving her as in walking away and leaving her alone...?

Oh, I thought you meant he left her in a relationship sense.
Shoulda said "leaving her alone."

Anyway, I agree with xemnas she should just come home. If it's bothering her enough for you to go, it should bother her enough for her to come back.

But, seeing as your already going and the question was are you "mad", no. You're irrational.

the smart thing would have been to just have called them on the day of your flight and told them that you were ill and couldnt come in.

You are not mad. Just go there and make your girl happy!

dont see the logic in spending that much to go be a hard-ass and come back unemployed...its not like he raped her bro..maybe you should of thought this one thru

I wouldn't feel comfortable letting a lover stay at a hotel with a friend of the opposite sex when I wasn't there tbh....

Sacchin wrote:I wouldn't feel comfortable letting a lover stay at a hotel with a friend of the opposite sex when I wasn't there tbh....

What if the opposite sex was a best friend?

Kraq wrote:

Sacchin wrote:I wouldn't feel comfortable letting a lover stay at a hotel with a friend of the opposite sex when I wasn't there tbh....

What if the opposite sex was a best friend?

Best friend only feels more threatening.

I don't trust people and have reason not to from past experiences. And, I know how women work.

SneakyBanana wrote:So my girlfriend of 11 months went on holiday with a friend(a guy) and he is being an idiot and keep leaving her

letting your gf go on a vacation with an ex-bf, yea, ur mad right there

if she was going with a girl then thats another story

Sacchin wrote:

Kraq wrote:

Sacchin wrote:I wouldn't feel comfortable letting a lover stay at a hotel with a friend of the opposite sex when I wasn't there tbh....

What if the opposite sex was a best friend?

Best friend only feels more threatening.

I don't trust people and have reason not to from past experiences. And, I know how women work.

sounds like your the jealous controlling type...girls just love a man who gets pissy when they hang out with their established long time friends...

Only reason someone would do that would be for the benefit =3.

XemnasXD wrote:

Sacchin wrote:Best friend only feels more threatening.

I don't trust people and have reason not to from past experiences. And, I know how women work.

sounds like your the jealous controlling type...girls just love a man who gets pissy when they hang out with their established long time friends...

I do :3 Well not pissy but yar

I'm best friends with a girl I've known since kinder, we talked like 4 hours everyday and her boyfriend hated my guts. *cough* I had no intention of going out with her nor did I like her. We were just friends.

XemnasXD wrote:sounds like your the jealous controlling type...girls just love a man who gets pissy when they hang out with their established long time friends...

Sounds like you don't know much about girls or anything about me personally. I do believe I said "from past experiences", if you have ever had the luxury of someone you loved and were even engaged to destroy your trust after being together for 6 years then you might understand. Most, if not all the boyfriends I've had also felt the way I do.

So please, let's have a little one on one talk before you can properly evaluate me.