what would you do?

[Amarisa]

so i found my brother messing around with his gf tonight and out of pure curiosity im wondering what would you guys do in my situation. when i say messing around i mean making out and his hand up her shirt (even tho the fact was her shirt was half off). now before you say anything i already made up my mind on not telling even if its a big no no in my house. why you ask well because its not my place to tell there 19 if they want to mess around and make a mistake and get a baby be my guest. also i go with the whole dont ask dont tell because to be honest what will i gain from telling my parents that they were being teens and bound to happen anyways. anyways what would you guys do would you tell or would you be like me and just say its there life?

ps. we get along just fine btw few arguments here and there but other then that were nice to each other but that has nothing to do with my decision

pss. i want a mature discussion dont be rude for a harmless discussion

[Snoopy]

They're 19, old enough in my opinion to make decisions on their own. If, like you said, are stupid enough to basically throw their live away at 19 and have it dedicated to a child. That's their choice.

I don't think you should tell anyone. Also, I'm pretty sure someone can't get pregnant by putting your hand up someones shirt. So let them be.

[Amarisa]

They're 19, old enough in my opinion to make decisions on their own. If, like you said, are stupid enough to basically throw their live away at 19 and have it dedicated to a child. That's their choice.

I don't think you should tell anyone. Also, I'm pretty sure someone can't get pregnant by putting your hand up someones shirt. So let them be.

well i mean if there doing this in our house what could they possible be doing outside of the house? im sure they have done it thousands of times already (they have been going out for 3 years btw)

[Snoopy]

They're 19, old enough in my opinion to make decisions on their own. If, like you said, are stupid enough to basically throw their live away at 19 and have it dedicated to a child. That's their choice.

I don't think you should tell anyone. Also, I'm pretty sure someone can't get pregnant by putting your hand up someones shirt. So let them be.

well i mean if there doing this in our house what could they possible be doing outside of the house? im sure they have done it thousands of times already (they have been going out for 3 years btw)

True. Does he live at home though? That's probably why they're "doing it" at home. If he didn't live with you, at home I'm sure he wouldn't do it at home.

[iSinnnn]

no big deal, no reason to tell.

[Amarisa]

They're 19, old enough in my opinion to make decisions on their own. If, like you said, are stupid enough to basically throw their live away at 19 and have it dedicated to a child. That's their choice.

I don't think you should tell anyone. Also, I'm pretty sure someone can't get pregnant by putting your hand up someones shirt. So let them be.

well i mean if there doing this in our house what could they possible be doing outside of the house? im sure they have done it thousands of times already (they have been going out for 3 years btw)

True. Does he live at home though? That's probably why they're "doing it" at home. If he didn't live with you, at home I'm sure he wouldn't do it at home.

yes hes living at home till he finishes college

[user]

1. given that he doesn't even efing support himself, i think you should tell your parents b/c if a baby comes along, it will be up to your parents and other tax payers to unfck the situation

2. is she hot?

3. you should get a video camera ready to make a sex tape and sell it on the net

[CrimsonNuker]

LOL TELL ON YOUR BROTHER FOR FOOLING AROUND? gg brotherhood.

[Amarisa]

1. given that he doesn't even efing support himself, i think you should tell your parents b/c if a baby comes along, it will be up to your parents and other tax payers to unfck the situation
he has a job my parents would make him support it

2. is she hot?
yes and no in the middle i guess you would call it

3. you should get a video camera ready to make a sex tape and sell it on the net
haha yes i should but then again how would i sell it im not 18 >.> as im sure you have to be 18 to sell porno because you have to be 18 to watch it lol

LOL TELL ON YOUR BROTHER FOR FOOLING AROUND? gg brotherhood.

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[Xyzzzy]

Wait, how old are you?

[Amarisa]

Wait, how old are you?

17 in a few weeks lol

[Tasdik]

1. given that he doesn't even efing support himself, i think you should tell your parents b/c if a baby comes along, it will be up to your parents and other tax payers to unfck the situation

Agreed.

Any other time I probably wouldn't tell.

[user]

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[CrimsonNuker]

Oh a girl...well that explains everything.

[Draquish]

???

[.curve]

Should have walked in there saying something like..."those pee stains just won't come out of your sheets."

[user]

Should have walked in there saying something like..."those pee stains just won't come out of your sheets."

more like "you left your herpies cream in the washroom again"

[.curve]

Should have walked in there saying something like..."those pee stains just won't come out of your sheets."

more like "you left your herpies cream in the washroom again"

Yeah I just couldn't think of anything good.

[Amarisa]

Should have walked in there saying something like..."those pee stains just won't come out of your sheets."

more like "you left your herpies cream in the washroom again"

lol that would of been amazing but no i take out the garbage (why i do it i dont know) so i came in asking if he had any and he gave me a real quick no.

[Doppleganger]

Should have walked in there saying something like..."those pee stains just won't come out of your sheets."

more like "you left your herpies cream in the washroom again"

Yeah I just couldn't think of anything good.

Or like Hey *Brothers name* Jessica called and she wants to know when your going to start paying child support.
lolz

[.curve]

Or like Hey *Brothers name* Jessica called and she wants to know when your going to start paying child support.
lolz

Lawl yeahhhhh.

[Doppleganger]

Spoiler!

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Spoiler!

[user]

Or like Hey *Brothers name* Bridget the Midget called and she wants to know when your going to start paying child support.
lolz

[woutR]

19 year olds in a 3 year relation having sex at home, this is madness!

[Grimjaw]

Where does you're loyalty lie? You're brother or you're parents?

You should not tell on you're brother, after all for him it's very exiting and normal for his age. Most likely it's exiting for her as well. You're parents probably expect it's happening anyway. As long as it's going on in their house, they have the feeling of having some control over it. And would most likely prefer that as well.

If you're brother had the talk with you're parents about the birds and the bees then he should know what might happen if they go to far. But you can't stop it anyway. You can tell you're parents but then they'd be doing it outside or at her place. Talk to you're brother about it, then tell him what could happen, and then leave it at that.

I never got caught once with my girlfriend, but then again I locked the door and turned the TV on.

[Sylus]

Putting hands up your gf's shirt won't lead to sex, trust me I tryed.

Edit:I am not as old as you think I am

[MrTwilliger]

Im pretty sure at 19 you can say, with a sound mind, that their decision to express their love physically is their business and their business alone. Hell im the last person to try lust, im not very physical and with that said im still a dam proud virgin. But that doesn't mean i can't see how simply natural sex and such like activities are. Hell its a part of life. They are adults now, whats the big problem? If its consensual than thats all that matters.

[Sinner]

So let see if I got it right... You guys think people shouldn`t have sex till` they`re planning on having a baby? I`m talking about being at the age of 24+ ..

[user]

So let see if I got it right... You guys think people shouldn`t have sex till` they`re planning on having a baby? I`m talking about being at the age of 24+ ..

who said that?

[Sinner]

So let see if I got it right... You guys think people shouldn`t have sex till` they`re planning on having a baby? I`m talking about being at the age of 24+ ..

who said that?

No one said that directly.. But that`s what I thought after reading some posts