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Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 11:28 am**

Well i know you guys hate these threads and me...but idk what to do...y fiancee just told me she cheated on me and is breaking up with me. Ive been through breakups before...but how can you lose someone you chose to have life with...spend eternity with....and it all just end....if anyone wants to talk...would appreciate it...

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 11:37 am**

Sharp324 wrote:Well i know you guys hate these threads and me...but idk what to do...y fiancee just told me she cheated on me and is breaking up with me. Ive been through breakups before...but how can you lose someone you chose to have life with...spend eternity with....and it all just end....if anyone wants to talk...would appreciate it...

oh dude... that sucks! it aint just your girlfriend or a fling... it was your fiancee! anywho im probably the last person you want to talk to but if you do pm me ill give you my msn or whatever.

good luck mate

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 1:17 pm**

I've never personally had that happen either way...so I couldn't tell you from experience. but as all things, time heals all wounds. Just don't take it overboard

If she cheated on you, then you never really knew her. She only now decided to take off her mask. It's better for this to happen now than after you got married.

Sorry to hear that. Hopefully you'll get over it <3

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 1:20 pm**

think of it this way, better now than if you were married.

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 1:21 pm**

Ah shit man. That really sucks but try to look at it from the bright side: better now than 5 years later. At least you guys don't have a family yet and all that.

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 2:11 pm**

it sux, but you still have the best signature of all forums

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 5:02 pm**

Sharp324 wrote:Well i know you guys hate these threads and me...but idk what to do...y fiancee just told me she cheated on me and is breaking up with me. Ive been through breakups before...but how can you lose someone you chose to have life with...spend eternity with....and it all just end....if anyone wants to talk...would appreciate it...

been blunt shit happens, been nice would you have rather not found out and got married to her?

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 5:26 pm**

been there, got that happening to me. You will get over it after a while, if it doesnt fix itself

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 5:28 pm**

Back to the drawing board?

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 7:09 pm**

Its better that she is out of your life now, than holding onto you till your married then going away with half of everything!

You'll find someone thats faithful soon enough.

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 7:11 pm**

honestly , she ain't worth it. get rid of her and be single for a while. go have some fun bro.

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 7:46 pm**

God am I glad I'm always the one who cheats...

No one cheats on me. I cheat on them....

not on purpose.. it just happens...

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 7:49 pm**

Icealya wrote:God am I glad I'm always the one who cheats...

No one cheats on me. I cheat on them....

not on purpose.. it just happens...

Well aren't you cool.

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 8:25 pm**

.curve wrote:
Icealya wrote:God am I glad I'm always the one who cheats...

No one cheats on me. I cheat on them....

not on purpose.. it just happens...

Well aren't you cool.

hey hey hey, they always hit on me first!!

I'm always nice and quiet and they just go after me.. I don't know what it is...

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 8:26 pm**

Sylar wrote:it sux, but you still have the best signature of all forums

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 8:33 pm**

I feel bad for you, that has to suck.

cpinney wrote:think of it this way, better now than if you were married.

+1 to this. At least you don't have waste money going through some stupid divorce. I hope you have a good marriage with someone who is loyal to you

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 9:07 pm**

Icealya wrote:
.curve wrote:
Icealya wrote:God am I glad I'm always the one who cheats...

No one cheats on me. I cheat on them....

not on purpose.. it just happens...

Well aren't you cool.

hey hey hey, they always hit on me first!!

I'm always nice and quiet and they just go after me.. I don't know what it is...

Idiot

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 10:24 pm**

think of it this way, better now than if you were married.

^

Good luck with that bro =/

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 11:07 pm**

cpinney wrote:think of it this way, better now than if you were married.

In a sad way, this is so true. And i know how hard breaks up are, i'm kinda going through one too. I'm really sorry that happend. There are alot of fish in the sea, looks like it's time to start over, fresh.

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 11:10 pm**

cpinney wrote:think of it this way, better now than if you were married.

+1

I wish you the best Sharp, and I'm sorry to hear you lost the woman you loved. Try to hang in there and maybe you should speak to family or friends in order to share some of the pain you feel inside, it will make you feel better knowing some will always be there for you, especially in moments such as these. Don't lock yourself up in there man. You will beat this as well.

Greetings from Grimjaw. :love:

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 11:14 pm**

Grimjaw wrote:
cpinney wrote:think of it this way, better now than if you were married.

+1

I wish you the best Sharp, and I'm sorry to hear you lost the woman you loved. Try to hang in there and maybe you should speak to family or friends in order to share some of the pain you feel inside, it will make you feel better knowing some will always be there for you, especially in moments such as these. Don't lock yourself up in there man. You will beat this as well.

Greetings from Grimjaw.

I think he was holding out on your response Grim. Always great words of encouragement even at a loss.

Once again, hope you're holding up well Sharp.

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 11:46 pm**

Thanks guys. Idk just keep wondering how devotion can end so fast...i never thought it would happen really. Bad how you can love someone so much and they still hurt you in the worst way. Trying to figure out what to do, i dont want to give up on her, even though trust will take awhile to rebuild...but idk, also thinking she doesn't know how she feels. Hate this feeling. If this doesn't work im being single for a hell of a long time.

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 11:54 pm**

Sharp324 wrote:.but idk, also thinking she doesn't know how she feels. ..

of course she dosen't they dont ever know. always so in decisive.

did she say when she did? maybe if it was awhile ago she wasn't sure, and now she is sure and decided that she should tell you?. i dunno haven't read thread.

Posted: **Thu Feb 26, 2009 11:57 pm**

wootpops wrote:
Sharp324 wrote:.but idk, also thinking she doesn't know how she feels. ..

of course she dosen't they dont ever know. always so in decisive.

did she say when she did? maybe if it was awhile ago she wasn't sure, and now she is sure and decided that she should tell you?. i dunno haven't read thread.

Sharp said she is planning on breaking up with him. So my guess would be it's recent.

Posted: **Fri Feb 27, 2009 12:01 am**

Sharp324 wrote:Thanks guys. Idk just keep wondering how devotion can end so fast...i never thought it would happen really. Bad how you can love someone so much and they still hurt you in the worst way. Trying to figure out what to do, i dont want to give up on her, even though trust will take awhile to rebuild...but idk, also thinking she doesn't know how she feels. Hate this feeling. If this doesn't work im being single for a hell of a long time.

It's because you love them that they are able to hurt you the most. I know how you feel dude. You let down that protective barrier that you've built up in order to prevent things like this. Then when you're at your most vulnerable, they rip your heart in half and step on it. Honestly, she doesn't deserve you if she can't make up her mind like this. I know it sucks, but you have to accept it, learn from it, and move on. Trusts will be rebuilt, and now you know you'll find someone better out there for you. Just give it time. Again, you have my best wishes.

Lastly, I leave you with some lyrics.

Try to pretend that I never even knew your name
'cause everything you are disgusts me
(Too bad I can't turn back time)
So I wouldn't be here
what I'd give for you to disappear
so tell me girly how's your edge?

Posted: **Fri Feb 27, 2009 12:07 am**

lol. sro mmo ot section etc etc.

Posted: **Fri Feb 27, 2009 12:53 am**

Wow man. Good luck finding someone else and getting through this. :love:

Posted: **Fri Feb 27, 2009 12:57 am**

Sharp324 wrote:Thanks guys. Idk just keep wondering how devotion can end so fast...i never thought it would happen really. Bad how you can love someone so much and they still hurt you in the worst way. Trying to figure out what to do, i dont want to give up on her, even though trust will take awhile to rebuild...but idk, also thinking she doesn't know how she feels. Hate this feeling. If this doesn't work im being single for a hell of a long time.

no man just leave her. If she cheats on you she will definitely cheat on her next man. A woman who lies is going to lie to you again, I GUARENTEE IT.

Posted: **Fri Feb 27, 2009 1:47 am**

Icealya wrote:
.curve wrote:
Icealya wrote:God am I glad I'm always the one who cheats...

No one cheats on me. I cheat on them....

not on purpose.. it just happens...

Well aren't you cool.

hey hey hey, they always hit on me first!!

I'm always nice and quiet and they just go after me.. I don't know what it is...

this is probably the single most retarded thing i have ever read in my entire life....
as if them hitting on you justifies it...
youre just too weak to find one person and commit to them so youd rather take any convenient excuse to get out of it....
just pathetic

OnT: shit sucks man but youll get through it....
i know this isnt much of a comparison but my girlfriend broke up with me a while ago and i found that the easiest way to get over it is to look at the situation objectively. Realize that the least she owed you was commitment and if she cant even offer that she isnt worth your time. My gf breaking up with me ended up being a great boost for me i started improving myself (maybe out of spite but im ok with that =p) and youll slowly realize youre worth more to someone else than you were to her
(this post turned into quite the rant....how unlike me...)

Posted: **Fri Feb 27, 2009 1:57 am**

A little background before i respond to this topic.
Me and sharp have known each other for a long time. We've been great great friends for years. Met on Olympus back in 06 talked on msn on a daily basis up until a few months ago when we got into an argument about this relationship.

I do not know how much i can say about the story because i don't know if he wants me to reveal things about it. Sharp if you want me to say my side of the story then let me know otherwise i cant say much. But i was 1000% against the relationship with his fiancee.

Now that this has happened I'm just kinda speechless. It was what i wanted to prevent from happening.

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