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How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 11:41 am
by Rakion
When i was young my parents have this one:
now i'm college they have this one:
How does your Punish you? Teach you a lesson?
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 11:43 am
by Avalanche
Punishment is never the answer, only suppresses behavior.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 11:49 am
by Grimjaw
This is joke topic is obvious joke topic.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 11:56 am
by Snoopy
I don't get punished...
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:03 pm
by Melez
I just get threatened I'll get grounded, but they never do it.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:05 pm
by Rakion
AvAlAnChE1 wrote:Punishment is never the answer, only suppresses behavior.
Well my parent used to say, that "i'm beginning to make a crooked line and if i cant make it straight then thats their duty to help me... when ever a punishment is done. The also says "When i hit you(with the belt) it doesn't mean that i hate you, it means that i love you and care for you. I just dont like to see you grow up in a society being a left alone child, that has never thought a lesson. It hurts more to us(Parents) to see their child crying while being punished."
btw... the college part of the pic was a joke. And i am very curious though on how does your parents punish you when you did something wrong. I got a class mate that has experienced, he was put inside a sack his head outside the damn thing and was suspended 3 feet off ground on a mango tree, he didnt said what was the reason. and tbh hes the most respectful, non-offensive, quiet type of person i ever knew and hes very greatful that he has experienced that... and if he didnt, who knows what he would grow up to be. Pretty ironic but i heard it from my two ears.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:14 pm
by Grimjaw
I'm doing so many things which my mother is proud off, there's no need to punish me. Even if I did something to mess up once, and it's not intentional, she always forgives me. She trusts in me to know right from wrong and make the right decisions where they count. It's mostly because of her that I grew up to be the way I am now.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:16 pm
by Avalanche
The only time punishment should be administered under extreme conditions, but even then, you tell your child WHY they are being punished rather than beating the hell 'outta them.
Punishment should be administered with rewards for appropriate behavior. The negative effects tho is that children who become punished resent their parents more and more, and adapt to that physical or mental abuse and then pass that onto their children through learned helplessness.
When a child does something wrong like throw a tantrum, instead of giving into the child's needs or punishing them, ignore them. They will eventually learn and leave no scars. This way, they don't become brats, and they aren't emotionally scarred for life.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:27 pm
by Sacred_lie
Melez wrote:I just get threatened I'll get grounded, but they never do it.
same xD
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:53 pm
by satman83
used to get beaten as kid
but now am old....much much much older 
nothing, lol they only
speak to me when i visit 
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:59 pm
by Rakion
Sacred_lie wrote:Melez wrote:I just get threatened I'll get grounded, but they never do it.
same xD
Soo Lucky...
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 1:52 pm
by cpinney
it hurts so good.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 2:14 pm
by Kirkaldi
i dont get punished.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 2:28 pm
by chickenfeather
AvAlAnChE1 wrote:The only time punishment should be administered under extreme conditions, but even then, you tell your child WHY they are being punished rather than beating the hell 'outta them.
Yes, there should always be a good reason.Punishment should be administered with rewards for appropriate behavior. The negative effects tho is that children who become punished resent their parents more and more, and adapt to that physical or mental abuse and then pass that onto their children through learned helplessness.
That is not necessarily the case, I was beaten by whatever was within reach of my parents(ruler, belt, umbrella, etc) but I never resented my parents. 
I knew there were results for acting a fool and I prepared to accept full responsibility for my actions.When a child does something wrong like throw a tantrum, instead of giving into the child's needs or punishing them, ignore them. They will eventually learn and leave no scars. This way, they don't become brats, and they aren't emotionally scarred for life.
Judging from my own experience, I find that people around me who were beaten as children were generally better people that those who were not beaten(they act like assholes/spoiled brats). Of course, the APA says otherwise http://www.apa.org/releases/spanking.html
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 2:49 pm
by Priam
laaaaaaaaaaaame.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 4:23 pm
by SidiousX
chickenfeather wrote:AvAlAnChE1 wrote:The only time punishment should be administered under extreme conditions, but even then, you tell your child WHY they are being punished rather than beating the hell 'outta them.
Yes, there should always be a good reason.Punishment should be administered with rewards for appropriate behavior. The negative effects tho is that children who become punished resent their parents more and more, and adapt to that physical or mental abuse and then pass that onto their children through learned helplessness.
That is not necessarily the case, I was beaten by whatever was within reach of my parents(ruler, belt, umbrella, etc) but I never resented my parents. I knew there were results for acting a fool and I prepared to accept full responsibility for my actions.When a child does something wrong like throw a tantrum, instead of giving into the child's needs or punishing them, ignore them. They will eventually learn and leave no scars. This way, they don't become brats, and they aren't emotionally scarred for life.
Judging from my own experience, I find that people around me who were beaten as children were generally better people that those who were not beaten(they act like assholes/spoiled brats). Of course, the APA says otherwise http://www.apa.org/releases/spanking.html
I agree on this, i sometimes got slapped or got a kick on the butt but nothing more, never got beaten with like belts just a kick or a slap lol, and i dun think my parents shud hav done otherwise.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 4:38 pm
by Doron
but never by my parents...
my parents don't punish me..
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 5:14 pm
by Isis
I was 17 the last time my mum tried to punish me and my dad has never tried.
When I was younger my mum would smack me..
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 5:47 pm
by woutR
Up to around when I was 8 I got a slap as punishment. Makes you think twice before you go cause some mischief again.
I don't blame them for a bit. When I see annoying kids getting stupid reprimands from their parents telling them they won't be able to see TV if they don't quit or whatever I just want to walk up there and smack those **** myself.
I'm not talking about a really hard hit or anything, just an educational slap. The same as it goes in nature, if you touch a nettle once and it hurts, you won't touch it again.
My parents only gave me a slap when I really wouldn't listen. I'm not saying you should slap your kids every time they misbehave.
If you slap your kids once they'll listen better in the future.
And now you can blabla about how physically punishing your kids is a sign of weakness and despair and all that good stuff, it's just effective and it's made sure I wasn't a source of irritation for anyone else.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:17 pm
by destructionmama
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 7:36 pm
by .curve
Personally I got the whole, "We're not mad at you, we're just disappointed in you." Definite knife through the heart.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 7:48 pm
by Grimjaw
.curve wrote:Personally I got the whole, "We're not mad at you, we're just disappointed in you."
I got that as well + the no TV thing + no visits from friends. Not even to mention my girlfriend at that time, who simply got told I wasn't allowed to see her because I needed to be punished for my behavior. But I don't blame my mother for it, not one bit.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 8:08 pm
by .curve
Grimjaw wrote:.curve wrote:Personally I got the whole, "We're not mad at you, we're just disappointed in you."
I got that as well + the no TV thing + no visits from friends. Not even to mention my girlfriend at that time, who simply got told I wasn't allowed to see her because I needed to be punished for my behavior. But I don't blame my mother for it, not one bit.
When I was younger, my stepmother smacked the kids with a wooden spoon, but she would never hit me. No idea why. I got the chair in the corner to think about what I did. Now that I'm older it's: No tv, no internet past certain times, no car, no going out. Sucks being the oldest. My sister gets in trouble, and my parents take her license for a day. Then they give it back, buy her a new car, and let her go to the movies. gg no re
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 8:20 pm
by Swindler
My parents dont punish me, I punish them.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 8:31 pm
by .curve
HejsaN wrote:My parents dont punish me, I punish them.
Was waiting for someone to say that. I was going to, but I figured I'd answer.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 8:34 pm
by Swindler
.curve wrote:HejsaN wrote:My parents dont punish me, I punish them.
Was waiting for someone to say that. I was going to, but I figured I'd answer.
Seriously, My parents have never punished me, not sine I got into the teenages...
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 8:40 pm
by noobert mclagg
<<Removed -BS>>
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 8:55 pm
by XemnasXD
AvAlAnChE1 wrote:Punishment is never the answer, only suppresses behavior.
some kids need to get smacked. I frown everytime i see some brat acting out in public screaming and running and acting wild. I would have never in all my life even thought about doing most of the stuff kids get away with now. The belt is crude instructor but when used properly it instills in a person a sense of boundaries and limits which is what kids lack these days imo.
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 9:01 pm
by Ancients
wooden spoon....................
Re: How does you Parents Punish you?
Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 9:18 pm
by izmeister
