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A dier dilemma
Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 2:01 pm
by Ichimaru420
Hmm well I don't make much topics here but I have had something on my mind for a while.
Well I have this kinda problem(if you can call it that)

where I seem to turn a lot of girls down who like me at bars and at partys or w/e because I set my expectations to high of girls.
I have heard from some people who say "it don't matter what she looks like just as long as you get laid and I also have friends who say theirs nothing wrong with how I am and maybe I might change as I grow older and mature.
I just find it annoying people going on about what works for me like my friends or the even the media and there obsessions with virgins (Not saying I am one btw).
So yeh any1 got any tips for me lol

Re: A dier dilemma
Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 2:16 pm
by asusi
I can see my self in you by reading this i had same "thing", and i think you are virgin

(nothing wrong with that, so was i one day..)
but bro your friends are right,, how often you do it,you gonna want more and more,,
my advice:

safely off course

Re: A dier dilemma
Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 8:43 pm
by Pally
My advice would to lower your standards a bit. You never know they might be just the right person for you after you get to know them.
You might have passed up a great person and that would be a really sad thing, what if they where the one.
Id kno this is just my suggestion. Don't be hatin.
Re: A dier dilemma
Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 9:36 pm
by StealMySoda
Theres nothing wrong with setting your standards high.
Some people just enjoy having sex and not the relationship that goes with it.
Some people like the relationship and sex is just an extra.
Those who know me will know which one I am. You've just got to decide which you are.
Re: A dier dilemma
Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 10:31 pm
by Alterran
the media is involved with your love life?
Re: A dier dilemma
Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 10:57 pm
by Du De Wei
stop being emo face ur own problems like a man and grow some balls
Re: A dier dilemma
Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 11:55 pm
by dom
The girls you're going after are too hot for you. Go with ugly ones and work your way up (or down).
Re: A dier dilemma
Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 10:15 am
by Grimjaw
There are ugly girls in this world?
Re: A dier dilemma
Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 1:40 pm
by Ichimaru420
Thanks 4 the reply's.
Re: A dier dilemma
Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 6:07 pm
by antics
Ichimaru420 wrote:Hmm well I don't make much topics here but I have had something on my mind for a while.
Well I have this kinda problem(if you can call it that)

where I seem to turn a lot of girls down who like me at bars and at partys or w/e because I set my expectations to high of girls.
I have heard from some people who say "it don't matter what she looks like just as long as you get laid and I also have friends who say theirs nothing wrong with how I am and maybe I might change as I grow older and mature.
I just find it annoying people going on about what works for me like my friends or the even the media and there obsessions with virgins (Not saying I am one btw).
So yeh any1 got any tips for me lol

nothign wrong with high standards
it will hjust make it harder for you to find someone
meh doing it just to get laid is lame to me
must we result to seck as a "game"?
Re: A dier dilemma
Posted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 12:14 am
by satman83
Stop being so stupid ok...just have some fun.
Re: A dier dilemma
Posted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 12:19 am
by Draquish
Lay young, marry old.
Re: A dier dilemma
Posted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 1:05 am
by Mr.Ganji
antics wrote:nothign wrong with high standards
+1
depends on the kind of relationship you want to have...just one night stand? Or committed girl/boyfriend relationship?
Re: A dier dilemma
Posted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 6:34 am
by Ichimaru420
Mr.Ganji wrote:antics wrote:nothign wrong with high standards
+1
depends on the kind of relationship you want to have...just one night stand? Or committed girl/boyfriend relationship?
tbh I'm looking more for a Committed relationship.