although i didnt know her rly well, i still ahv memories of her. and these memories make me really sad and hurt. i did not cry hard but did tear up. it still hurts. her death didnt shock me as much as seeing grown up men adn male friends crying as hard as girls. seeing my friends cry on ym shoulder is rly hard. i remember the friend who swa the accident cry adn cry and he kept pulling on my sleeve and wouldnt let go.
wat is a good song for these death situations. im gonna learn it adn play it for her family. guitar is wat i play. if i cant learn it fast then ill jsut do a video and play teh music while showing a slide show of her photos.
can u guys plz name a few songs such as tears in heaven or such.
its not pity i need. a few songs would b really apreciated. you very much
thank you so much for the last song. i like the playlist too, they are awsome bands but i cant really play taht music in front of them. ill try my best to play teh last 1.
When i was in year 12 at school my best friends brother passed away. He was such a great bloke, he was so nice, smart and caring. He was driving home and someone ran him off the road straight into a power pole. He was killed instantly.
I still have this vivid image in my mind. I was sitting on my "emo corner", alone, crying, heart broken. Daniel, a close mate of mine, came up and sat down next to me. We just sat there, hugging, crying.
Death is not an easy thing to deal with, i admire what you are doing. I cant think of a song atm but im going through my playlist, hopefully i can find sometihng for you. Though something by John Williamson would work quite well.
Maybe not the best for it but its a good song. But i would say the second is the best one.
Re: lost a friend recently
Posted: Sat Oct 25, 2008 2:51 am
by devilti
tedtwilliger wrote:When i was in year 12 at school my best friends brother passed away. He was such a great bloke, he was so nice, smart and caring. He was driving home and someone ran him off the road straight into a power pole. He was killed instantly.
I still have this vivid image in my mind. I was sitting on my "emo corner", alone, crying, heart broken. Daniel, a close mate of mine, came up and sat down next to me. We just sat there, hugging, crying.
Death is not an easy thing to deal with, i admire what you are doing. I cant think of a song atm but im going through my playlist, hopefully i can find sometihng for you. Though something by John Williamson would work quite well.
thx man, and if i brought painful memories back im sorry. first time a fiend died. just dont kno wat to do for her family
Re: lost a friend recently
Posted: Sat Oct 25, 2008 3:15 am
by Du De Wei
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Re: lost a friend recently
Posted: Sat Oct 25, 2008 3:50 am
by devilti
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lol thx, but i cant sing that well. luv the song though
why are you bringing drama when you didnt even know the person ?....
Re: lost a friend recently
Posted: Sun Oct 26, 2008 7:09 am
by devilti
Love wrote:why are you bringing drama when you didnt even know the person ?....
drama? first i said not really well, but i still talked to her, i knew ehr friends and family.
originally i didnt want to explain wat happens when some1 dies. u see, for people with hearts, its hard to not think about her, or what you could have done for her. thats not it, you have to witness her dear friends breaking down, even the guys cried as loud as girls at the memorial. 1 of them i remember vivdly crying on my shoulder and he would not let go of my sleeve, he jsut kept pulling it. her family kneed there crying for 1 hour while all of us spoke positive memories of her.
your oblivious to what death can bring. i had no idea what it was like until few days ago. i always thought i knew any1 will die and i can accept that. assholes will die and i wont pity them. no big deal, ppl die adn ill get over it. but that doesnt happen. i hope you will understand.
Re: lost a friend recently
Posted: Sun Oct 26, 2008 3:18 pm
by NuclearSilo
Play Ouija board, u can talk with your friend for a while.
Re: lost a friend recently
Posted: Sun Oct 26, 2008 4:43 pm
by Schwarzewhatever
Instead of playing a grieving song, why don't you play a happy song? It's always better to remember a beloved one in life than death. Don't mourn about your friend, instead embrace all the memories and feelings you two shared, it's the only way to keep the person alive, and yourself.
However if you still want a death and grieving song to make everyone even more miserable, try with this one, at least it has some hope in it.
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Re: lost a friend recently
Posted: Sun Oct 26, 2008 5:10 pm
by Verfo
It's always hard to lose a close person especially a friend or a parent but hang in there.
Re: lost a friend recently
Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 3:14 am
by user
NuclearSilo wrote:Play Ouija board, u can talk with your friend for a while.
buddy, not sure about you, but if i get the ability to any where i want, i wouldn't be waiting for a friend to whip a Ouija board to communicate with him, i'll go all the places i couldn't go when i was alive
Re: lost a friend recently
Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 3:16 am
by Love
user wrote:
NuclearSilo wrote:Play Ouija board, u can talk with your friend for a while.
buddy, not sure about you, but if i get the ability to any where i want, i wouldn't be waiting for a friend to whip a Ouija board to communicate with him, i'll go all the places i couldn't go when i was alive
lol
Re: lost a friend recently
Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 3:45 am
by Du De Wei
devilti wrote:
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lol thx, but i cant sing that well. luv the song though
heres an easier ones i think lol
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Re: lost a friend recently
Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 4:19 am
by nitrofreez
Here's a nice song. It's called Bridge Over Troubled Water by Paul Simons (the one in the video is a cover by Bon Jovi).
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Re: lost a friend recently
Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 10:19 am
by NuclearSilo
user wrote:
NuclearSilo wrote:Play Ouija board, u can talk with your friend for a while.
buddy, not sure about you, but if i get the ability to any where i want, i wouldn't be waiting for a friend to whip a Ouija board to communicate with him, i'll go all the places i couldn't go when i was alive
Trust me, the ghost doesnt necessary need to be around. He can hear you wherever he is when you call his name.
