Jstar1 wrote:For example if a person is half white/half asian and living in America, its easier for them to assimilate there compared to them traveling to their asian country and trying to fit in there when they don't speak the language/don't know the culture, etc.
Errmmmmmmm wha? Im sorry but i draw the line there (jk that sounds way to serious) but i am half white/asian and i do live in america and i had an easier time assimilating in the Philippines than i did in the US and thats when i was like 15. The culture or language doesnt have to be a reason that you cant fit in especially when you have an Asian mother who wants to teach you everything about it.
XemnasXD wrote:which is ironic because everything you type is horse shit and down syndrome...
It isnt my fault that she speaks like she got pregnant when she was 13 and her father sold crack. She makes good quality music, doesn’t look bad, but doesn’t speak a damn thing like either.
BuDo wrote:I think some of you guys need to check yourselves and deeply/seriously ask why you're not attracted to a person because of their race. It's actually ridiculous because every one of us has the capacity to fall for anyone because we're all HUMAN.
You're under the total influence of cultural engineering if you began feel its odd to date outside your race. This type of brainwashing is no different than other forms of prejudice.
You're relationship with your girlfriend/boyfriend wouldn't meaningful if part of the reason why you love her/him was because he/she wasn't Black/White/Asian/Latin etc.
I'm not saying it is not OK to have a preference but what is true basis of that preference should be understood.
Everyone has a different taste of everything. It's just a matter of taste.
BuDo wrote:I think some of you guys need to check yourselves and deeply/seriously ask why you're not attracted to a person because of their race. It's actually ridiculous because every one of us has the capacity to fall for anyone because we're all HUMAN.
You're under the total influence of cultural engineering if you began feel its odd to date outside your race. This type of brainwashing is no different than other forms of prejudice.
You're relationship with your girlfriend/boyfriend wouldn't meaningful if part of the reason why you love her/him was because he/she wasn't Black/White/Asian/Latin etc.
I'm not saying it is not OK to have a preference but what is true basis of that preference should be understood.
sorry im not fond of deep purple/neon black nipples... part of physical attraction has something to do with apperance you know.
I'm in a bit of a tough situation when it comes to mixed relationships. I'm an easy going person, I try not to judge people based upon the way they look. Be it black, white, Asian, mixed, Arabic, whatever. Personally, I don't care. It's just the color of your skin, it doesn't affect who you are as a individual. In the end it's your personality that counts the most.
The problem lies with my family, though. Both of my parents are incredibly racist, more so than I can comprehend. I've seen my mother get up and move carriages just because an Indian man has sat down in front of of us. She complains constantly that our small little country town is slowly becoming more cultural and treats anyone "non Australian" as pure scum. I truly hate this mindset of theirs.
But what does this mean? If I had a girlfriend who was of a different ethnicity, I don't know how my parents, in particular my mum, would react. If I had a girlfriend who was Asian for example, I would bring such disrespect to my parents. They'd constantly complain and moan about it and make it out to be like I'm bringing shame upon our family.
When I like someone, I like them for who they are as an individual, not what race they are. True beauty comes from within and reflects upon our exterior, that's what makes someone attractive. Black, white, Asian, Arabic? I don't care; just let me see what kind of person you are first. With all that said I'm a skinny, white, pansy-ass IT nerd. Who's going to be interested in me? >_>
I personally think Jennifer Aniston and her Sgt Slaughter chin looks like a guy. I think Taylor Swift is flat on both sides. Fergie is a butta face. Tyra Banks forehead reminds me of Brain from Pinky & the Brain. Lucy Lui and Ziyi Zhang are not sexy. Penelope Cruz looks like she has Autism.
These are all ppl that other ppl find hot but just don't do it for me. But that is just my $0.02
But those are celebs. In real life I find women of all races attractive. Maybe cuz I was fortunate to grow up in the Boston area. We have a massive selection of fine women to chose from. Those of you who live in less populated areas have a smaller pond to fish in. Someone who lives in Miami, FL will probably have a different view on things than someone who lives in Miami, Ohio.
As far as dating goes some of ya make me laugh. Maybe becuz some of you guys are young. But you shouldn't look at everyone you date as a potential wife. If that is the case then your in for a really sad love life. Enjoy dating for what it is..... dating. Unless you still live at home the entire "meet my parents" deal should not come into play at all.
i bet you would
