HTVHitokiri wrote:I met someone who spoke to their husband for 3 years by internet and phone, ended up being married. Its stupid to say its not a legitimate relationship if you don't have physical contact.
I would almost say that while they are harder to maintain, these relationships force you to see someones personality, and to just see that. How many people have relationships for purely physical reasons? And nobody can look at someone and see their personality. I personally couldn't pull it off, but if you can handle the long distance part of it I don't see what the big deal is.
You are not gonna meet the perfect people in your town always. They may be off in California, in France, in Holland, in Spain, maybe a few cities over from you. I don't get why people give such a problem to people who have internet relationships.
HTVHitokiri wrote:I met someone who spoke to their husband for 3 years by internet and phone, ended up being married. Its stupid to say its not a legitimate relationship if you don't have physical contact.
I would almost say that while they are harder to maintain, these relationships force you to see someones personality, and to just see that. How many people have relationships for purely physical reasons? And nobody can look at someone and see their personality. I personally couldn't pull it off, but if you can handle the long distance part of it I don't see what the big deal is.
You are not gonna meet the perfect people in your town always. They may be off in California, in France, in Holland, in Spain, maybe a few cities over from you. I don't get why people give such a problem to people who have internet relationships.
Anyways you guys all misread, I don't have anything against internet dating. I was merely asking the question: if asked out or hit on by someone you can see everyday, would you say 'no, I've already got a boyfriend/girlfriend?'
...Would you forgoe all sexual contact except for your own hand just to be faithful to someone who you at the most look at and talk to over a webcam?
Living with somebody day in/day out is completely different from falling in 'love' with someone's personality. Dating somebody over the internet is a completely different world than dating in real life.
Blackchocob0 wrote:Living with somebody day in/day out is completely different from falling in 'love' with someone's personality. Dating somebody over the internet is a completely different world than dating in real life.
Little different is it but think about is first step to meet someone over internet and next step can be meet outside from internet and I know some are married now and working fine for them...
And P.s was no webcam involved
What's with you? If they choose each other to be the special someone, let them be. How they choose to run their lives if up to them. Don't butt in.
And you said: "But yeah bottomline, you ain't boning your online girlfriend. Therefore, you're not in a REAL relationship. You're in an ONLINE relationship." That's just your superficial definition of a relationship. I see nothing wrong with two people caring for one another and being happy because they have each other.
Sig "Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience." Anonymous
Let's face it sex is a vital portion of a relationship, whether for enjoyment, or to conceive a child. All he wants to know is would they turn down an offer from someone they know personally because of their ties with someone over the internet.
Is that so hard to answer? Or are you all afraid of looking like a bad person by saying you would take the offer?
Anh_Hung_Rom wrote:Well it's like you go to a funeral and ask the widow when is she gonna marry again. Being considerate FTW!
Sorry, I'm an asshole.
And seriously you people need to calm down and READ WHAT I SAY. I have nothing against people dating over the internet. Whatever floats your boat, I really don't care all that much. I'm simply curious as to the question I've asked...I don't know how many times.
Gandalf I'm not superficial because I believe being physical is an essential part of a healthy relationship. It's simply my definition.
Lol @ the whole thread. Man it was intended to be a congratulatory post on a 5 month(who celebrates aniversaries by every month...? ) anniversary, and I turned it into a debate about online dating.
Man I'm an asshole.
The funny part? I've had an online girlfriend back in the day in my early stages of Runescape. I already told you fools, I have nothing in particular against online dating. I was asking a simple question in relation to online dating - a question all but Zero himself(though I bet it was a lie, his girlfriend is reading ) avoided. I wonder why?
Blackchocob0 wrote:Lol @ the whole thread. Man it was intended to be a congratulatory post on a 5 month(who celebrates aniversaries by every month...? ) anniversary, and I turned it into a debate about online dating.
Man I'm an asshole.
The funny part? I've had an online girlfriend back in the day in my early stages of Runescape. I already told you fools, I have nothing in particular against online dating. I was asking a simple question in relation to online dating - a question all but Zero himself(though I bet it was a lie, his girlfriend is reading ) avoided. I wonder why?
aha! so you admit to finding Gorillas attractive?!
Blackchocob0 wrote:Lol @ the whole thread. Man it was intended to be a congratulatory post on a 5 month(who celebrates aniversaries by every month...? ) anniversary, and I turned it into a debate about online dating.
Man I'm an asshole.
The funny part? I've had an online girlfriend back in the day in my early stages of Runescape. I already told you fools, I have nothing in particular against online dating. I was asking a simple question in relation to online dating - a question all but Zero himself(though I bet it was a lie, his girlfriend is reading ) avoided. I wonder why?
Didn't you say you'd quit posting on this topic like....9 post back 0o....o0....wtf just stop already your starting to repeat yourself which isn't good cause you just keep reiterating the same insults lightly sprinkled with empathy to disguise it.
Congrats to the couple
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Blackchocob0 wrote:Lol @ the whole thread. Man it was intended to be a congratulatory post on a 5 month(who celebrates aniversaries by every month...? ) anniversary, and I turned it into a debate about online dating.
Man I'm an asshole.
The funny part? I've had an online girlfriend back in the day in my early stages of Runescape. I already told you fools, I have nothing in particular against online dating. I was asking a simple question in relation to online dating - a question all but Zero himself(though I bet it was a lie, his girlfriend is reading ) avoided. I wonder why?
i answered it : |
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Blackchocob0 wrote:Gandalf I'm not superficial because I believe being physical is an essential part of a healthy relationship. It's simply my definition.
Sex satisfies the flesh, love satisfies the soul.
Because sex can be given to you by any given person; But love, now there is something you need to appreciate.
Blackchocob0 wrote:Gandalf I'm not superficial because I believe being physical is an essential part of a healthy relationship. It's simply my definition.
Sex satisfies the flesh, love satisfies the soul.
Because sex can be given to you by any given person; But love, now there is something you need to appreciate.
) avoided. I wonder why?
