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#Homosexuality

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Alright this is pretty awkward but here it goes.

So someone I work with just added me today on Facebook today. He admitted his homosexuality and how he's sexually attracted to me. Told him he could ask me any questions he had. He mentioned how he thought I had a big my cock from what he saw in the changing room, asked me for the size of it, if I was circumcised and what I was wearing right now (and a bunch of other questions).

Now aside from the few laughs I got from the questions, I gently avoided his questions by saying "I don't know" and what not. I mean he's a really nice guy and I'm one of the only person that knows about his homosexuality.

Problem is, when he asked if I could possibly send him a picture of my dick I said something along the lines of "Haha not really comfortable with that. Maybe someday". Yeah I farked up, totally lead him on. Now he wants to talk to me some more tomorrow, he's probably going to try to talk me into it.

How do I say "No" without crushing his fantasy?
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tell him straight up how u feel, dont be mean about it though... if ur not attracted to other men then tell him ur not gay that u like pssy
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"Maybe someday."?? Dude, wtf? Don't go the easy way to get your cock sucked lol Just simply be honest. Crush dreams or not, do what you have to not what he wants.
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Guess the easy way out is saying "No".. obviously.
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LOL. Reminds me of HIMYM when lilly kept saying to scooter, "We will never be together..............right now".
Moral of the story, man up and tell him how you really feel. Dont lead him on etc etc.
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Skyve wrote:Problem is, when he asked if I could possibly send him a picture of my dick I said something along the lines of "Haha not really comfortable with that. Maybe someday". Yeah I farked up, totally lead him on.


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bro you do not want to be friends with this dude. Shit's only gonna get more awkward and trust me, there is nothing more annoying than having a gay dude be attracted to you. I worked at a restaurant where the chef was gay and it was a big pain in the... I was going to say ass but then I realized how gay that would be. It was very annoying.
For whatever reason these type of gays are very forward/honest so you either shut him down now or he's gonna hit you up for dickpics every time you see him.

Tell him you didn't know how to react to the situation, that you're straight and that you do not appreciate his requests/flirtations/whatever. If he's the type of guy that asks dudes for dickpics without really knowing them I think he will bounce back from your 'rejection' in no time.
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Just tell him that you aren't the type he is looking for.

The sooner you say it the better.
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Re: #Homosexuality

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What the **** did I just read?

What happened to SRF?

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The Invisible wrote:Just tell him that you aren't the type he is looking for.

The sooner you say it the better.

lol type of gay?

my coworker is gay-ish. He works in a gay bar, he's funny and yeah he doesn't bothers me or others. He's cool, but he doesn't act too gay, at least not at where I work.
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Skyve wrote:So someone I work with just added me today on Facebook today. He admitted his homosexuality and how he's sexually attracted to me.


How were 'I'm not gay' not your first words? :?

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dude just send me a picture of ur dick.
i mean...
send him a picture of ur dick
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I have a bit of golden advice for you. How about you don't ask a bunch of gamers what we think, but rather just do what you think. Do you want cock up your ass? No? Than tell him that your straight and that if he wishes to continue being friends than he will have to keep his thoughts to himself. If it makes you uncomfortable than tell him, how fucking hard is that?

....unless it's making you uncomfortable for another reason. This little guy hasn't made you question your sexuality, has he? Oh Skyve, you cheeky little devil! I can see what's going on here. Yes Skyve, it's ok to be thinking about another man's knob. We won't judge you if his flattery reaches your heart and makes you feel fuzzy. We here at SRF appreciate all people for who they are, there are no social standards round these parts. We will love you for whoever you are, even if you do have some tendencies for the bum.

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MrTwilliger if everyone stops asking our opinions then this wouldn't be any fun :sohappy:
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Dammit was I the only one who thought he was finally coming out of the closet? :(
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just type "Sorry but I'm not gay" close your eyes and hit enter
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Not that hard, just be straightforward and honest.

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Avalanche wrote:What the **** did I just read?

What happened to SRF?


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Troll thread, if not then you're most likely a **** yourself if you couldn't say No directly. Go ahead, show him your cock, dont be ashamed of your sexuality. Remember you were born this way, nothing you could've done.

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maybe someday


AHAHAHAHAH


well just tell him you're not gay and he'll give up.

I have many gay friends and they all know im straight and they dont have expectation with me or something even though im slapping their ass and dancing dirty with them for giggles.

If that guy want you to respect his homosexuality then he should respect your heterosexuality.
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Majorharper wrote:Dammit was I the only one who thought he was finally coming out of the closet? :(


Nope. LOL

Too late son, you led a gay man on; so you have to follow through now.
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Is this story really true?
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Holy shit guys I told him I wasn't gay from the start.

And Twillinger, I was waiting for a reply like yours. The mocking "lol why ask gamers". Come on, you guys have to stop using this argument whenever someone shares a life experience. I couldn't care less if you guys are gamers. This is a community like any others where you simply share. There's also that annoying assumption (from you in this case) that my final judgement is based upon the outcome of this thread which is entirely wrong. I'm just gathering some opinions from around me.

I guess what I'm really trying to express here is stop being a condescending douchebag.
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just show him ur pee and get done with it -.-
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Skyve wrote:How do I say "No" without crushing his fantasy?
He'll get over it soon enough.. Don't ya think so?
Seriously.. Just say No
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Skyve wrote:Holy shit guys I told him I wasn't gay from the start.

And Twillinger, I was waiting for a reply like yours. The mocking "lol why ask gamers". Come on, you guys have to stop using this argument whenever someone shares a life experience. I couldn't care less if you guys are gamers. This is a community like any others where you simply share. There's also that annoying assumption (from you in this case) that my final judgement is based upon the outcome of this thread which is entirely wrong. I'm just gathering some opinions from around me.

I guess what I'm really trying to express here is stop being a condescending douchebag.


Good reply.

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some people think that because they are some misfit weirdos and are gaming, that all the gamer comunity is like them.
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Skyve wrote:Alright this is pretty awkward but here it goes.

So someone I work with just added me today on Facebook today. He admitted his homosexuality and how he's sexually attracted to me. Told him he could ask me any questions he had. He mentioned how he thought I had a big my cock from what he saw in the changing room, asked me for the size of it, if I was circumcised and what I was wearing right now (and a bunch of other questions).

Now aside from the few laughs I got from the questions, I gently avoided his questions by saying "I don't know" and what not. I mean he's a really nice guy and I'm one of the only person that knows about his homosexuality.

Problem is, when he asked if I could possibly send him a picture of my dick I said something along the lines of "Haha not really comfortable with that. Maybe someday". Yeah I farked up, totally lead him on. Now he wants to talk to me some more tomorrow, he's probably going to try to talk me into it.

How do I say "No" without crushing his fantasy?


That is how a dude who I no longer consider a friend (not because of his sexual orientation), became a homosexual. I'd be ware of your anus.
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lol Gamers? Are we? At least not much on the OTL side, brah.














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Skyve wrote:Holy shit guys I told him I wasn't gay from the start.

And Twillinger, I was waiting for a reply like yours. The mocking "lol why ask gamers". Come on, you guys have to stop using this argument whenever someone shares a life experience. I couldn't care less if you guys are gamers. This is a community like any others where you simply share. There's also that annoying assumption (from you in this case) that my final judgement is based upon the outcome of this thread which is entirely wrong. I'm just gathering some opinions from around me.

I guess what I'm really trying to express here is stop being a condescending douchebag.

Yeah telling him that doesn't really matter. Some gay guys i am friends with/ have met seem to have a thing for turning straight guys gay, and will continually hound them jokingly or not about stuff like that. If you want him as a friend brush it off and just say no, if you don't tell him to stop talking to you and ignore him.
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