Have you ever had a girlfriend/boyfriend?

[Squirt]

Guys actually need their parents' permission to date? What the fuck? I just find it odd. I thought, if anything, it would be encouraged =/

Anyway...

I've had a few but only one serious and long relationship (current one). The others were pretty short and I felt free to screw around since I really didn't think much of them.

And I don't mean to flame or anything but the whole "I was never interested / never bothered to look for one" excuse is getting old. Then again, what really annoys me are single guys acting like every women out there are simply not up to their standards. It's a probably the most pathetic excuse out there. (These go for people around the dating age, not someone in 6th grade - it's common sense but I just felt like I needed to point that out)

Religious parents = strict

2nd part, how could it be getting old when most of us are just kids lol?
I'm 16 and I know that I'm still young so why sweat it? If I ask a girl out and she says no, w/e.
But I'm not going to obsess over it like most guys in my school do.

[vietxboy911]

50/50 azn guys mainly like white/azn girls lol
I like white girls more, cause i dont find azn girls that attractive around here , plus, i heard they dont shave downstairs , and i get along with them more

[Jstar1]

I don't get how you Asian guys are having problems. White girls love foreigners and Asian females are awesome. Talk about math and shit, gets em wet.

foreigners as in muscular tall men with hot eastern european accents.

I don't know the culture in other places, but at my school, an asian person has to be whitewashed in order to hang out with the social elite. Is "whitewashed" even a common term in other American schools? Its not necessarily a derogative word, just a term for an asian who purposely acts white and tries to be like a white person. I guess its the opposite of a weeaboo.

I don't like them at all, I mean putting in an effort to make friends in a bigger circle is fine and all, but the whitewashed kids at my school are snarky, arrogant, and completely ignorant of their own country, let alone speak their language properly. Not to mention they treat us regular asians with disdain.

bottom line is though, white girls generally do not go for asian guys. Though the other way (asian girl and white guy) is a lot more popular. And I'm not saying this out of bitterness just because I don't have a girlfriend, just saying what I see at my school, nothing more.

[CrimsonNuker]

17, Yes.

<- Is asian (chinese)

Asian girls are a +++++

[XemnasXD]

one or two or three...

[ryan1166]

I'm 15 and I've had 5 girlfriends since grade 8. I'm allowed to date and stuff but all of my relationships don't work out. Girls can be b1tches sometimes, ya know? ^^. I'm not sure if I'm ugly or not but I hope I'm not D: (me in the pic ;D)

[Goseki]

IMO, if you can't take her out on a date by yourself, than don't bother getting a gf. You're still too young.

[Vuesters92]

I'm an shy asian guy, but i do try to talk to girls even tho i'm not very good at it I'll admit. i did dated a few girls back in middle school, but none of them were serious relationships. One girl i will mostly regret in middle school is my white cheerleader gf(she is pretty good looking), during lunch she would moved really closed to me that i don't have any room left to eat , but i'm blind of the relationship because i have a crush on her best friend. 3 months into the blind relationship i decided to ask my gf best friend out and got rejected and as a result i lost everything. now what hurt even more is that my gf(now ex)should have shown hate towards me but didn't, instead she treats me like a friend. looking back in the 3 month relationship i remember that she once told me not to used her like many others guys have done and i told her that i wouldn't.

but that was like 4 years ago. i did moved on, but still looked back and felt very stupid and would like to go back and changed everything i could.

[bot_antist]

I'm 16 years old and I haven't dated/no girlfriend, I guess it's pretty depressing for me. But it's actually hard for me to bring myself to talk to girls, I have no idea why...

So like, I wonder if there are other people like me with the same thing...

If you can't find a date at all throughout high school don't put yourself down, that doesn't mean your a social reject. Consider that you just saved the money and time you would have spent on a girlfriend in high school, and instead spend those resources on a girlfriend in college, which is more important anyways since your finding a life partner that you're going to raise a family with.

i'm too asian for a girl

This. Its hard, especially in a white-dominated high school. Plus most of the asian girls that I see at school are either unattractive, super whitewashed, or just no chance for real social contact.

i feel your pain

[Miguez]

My parents are supportive of me dating girls...

I mean, it's a good thing for you

[CrimsonNuker]

I'm an shy asian guy, but i do try to talk to girls even tho i'm not very good at it I'll admit. i did dated a few girls back in middle school, but none of them were serious relationships. One girl i will mostly regret in middle school is my white cheerleader gf(she is pretty good looking), during lunch she would moved really closed to me that i don't have any room left to eat , but i'm blind of the relationship because i have a crush on her best friend. 3 months into the blind relationship i decided to ask my gf best friend out and got rejected and as a result i lost everything. now what hurt even more is that my gf(now ex)should have shown hate towards me but didn't, instead she treats me like a friend. looking back in the 3 month relationship i remember that she once told me not to used her like many others guys have done and i told her that i wouldn't.

but that was like 4 years ago. i did moved on, but still looked back and felt very stupid and would like to go back and changed everything i could.

Wait what? You asked your gf's best friend out....while you were still in the relationship?

[vietxboy911]

I don't get how you Asian guys are having problems. White girls love foreigners and Asian females are awesome. Talk about math and shit, gets em wet.

( Jstar's words here )

Well down here, There is only a few azn people in my school ( majority i would say black, and white/hispanic is close, prob white more )

and we are generally diveded into 2 (azn)groups, the "geeky" and "non geeky"<( i belong to that group ) i mean, its not like real groups, and people pick on the geeky ones ( you know the ones that look weird at school ), but it does mean different social statuses. I've always been able to get along with everyone in my schools( white/black w/e ), and i do hang around the more populous kids, but it isnt like what it sounds like... like we dont pick on them ( or at least i try not to, but you know theres always people who are going to lol )usually the people in our school will accept who they are and deal with it :o I never had a probelm with any of it though, so i dont know anything about them really.

I'm viet, and i have no probelm getting along with white peeps (girls included ) most of my friends are auctually white; but i dont try to be like them just to be like them if u know what i mean. i have my own swagger Azn people are a minorioty in my school, but people love me and the ones i know that are chill.

as for the white girls; its like eating new candy; you ethier like azn guys or you dont. like i said before, i perfer white women but youknow, us azn guys are now starting to get the white women

[inky]

Guys actually need their parents' permission to date? What the fuck? I just find it odd. I thought, if anything, it would be encouraged =/

Anyway...

I've had a few but only one serious and long relationship (current one). The others were pretty short and I felt free to screw around since I really didn't think much of them.

And I don't mean to flame or anything but the whole "I was never interested / never bothered to look for one" excuse is getting old. Then again, what really annoys me are single guys acting like every women out there are simply not up to their standards. It's a probably the most pathetic excuse out there. (These go for people around the dating age, not someone in 6th grade - it's common sense but I just felt like I needed to point that out)

Religious parents = strict

2nd part, how could it be getting old when most of us are just kids lol?
I'm 16 and I know that I'm still young so why sweat it? If I ask a girl out and she says no, w/e.
But I'm not going to obsess over it like most guys in my school do.

Read the part in parenthesis. I don't wanna judge but usually people start going out around that age. You don't have to "obsess" over it - the world won't run out of women. I'm just saying that it sounds to me like an excuse =p

[Goseki]

I'm an shy asian guy, but i do try to talk to girls even tho i'm not very good at it I'll admit. i did dated a few girls back in middle school, but none of them were serious relationships. One girl i will mostly regret in middle school is my white cheerleader gf(she is pretty good looking), during lunch she would moved really closed to me that i don't have any room left to eat , but i'm blind of the relationship because i have a crush on her best friend. 3 months into the blind relationship i decided to ask my gf best friend out and got rejected and as a result i lost everything. now what hurt even more is that my gf(now ex)should have shown hate towards me but didn't, instead she treats me like a friend. looking back in the 3 month relationship i remember that she once told me not to used her like many others guys have done and i told her that i wouldn't.

but that was like 4 years ago. i did moved on, but still looked back and felt very stupid and would like to go back and changed everything i could.

You win more slaps + darwin award for dating. Cheers!

[Fresh]

15 years old, and yeah, i've had a lot of girlfriends but they're those GF's that don't go longer than a week or 2.

Im dating someone now, and it's been 4 weeks already.

[Sharp324]

in b4 the ego-massive-destruction-flames

(ive tried to post this like 6 times and i always get the "At least one new post has been made to this topic. You may wish to review your post in light of this." notice ¬¬)

OT: well... join a soccer team... or a music band! go to malls and stuff... and yeah! the "friends zone" sucks as hell! my advice is that.. get popular on ur own hands! get a car "im still a kid" then get a bike but ride it with style! lol

Ah yes childhood...when everyone is ignorant.

[asusi]

still got my gf....

[Crowley]

To be honest, no. And I don't think I need a girlfriend at 15.

[Love]

Not to show off or anything but girls talk to me and are privileged to be in my presence ...

Spoiler!

what is sad is that is true.

[asusi]

To be honest, no. And I don't think I need a girlfriend at 15.

you don't need girlfriend on 30 either...
can you explain why? im curious..

[Love]

To be honest, no. And I don't think I need a girlfriend at 15.

you don't need girlfriend on 30 either...
can you explain why? im curious..

rly Bob, rly ?

[woutR]

I was a real pimp in elementary school... now, not so much.

[Psychedeelic]

been engaged.. so I guess that's a yes in the poll.

[Snazzi]

Had a few, none atm though.

[frankaslt1]

Nop 19 y.o

[XemnasXD]

Anything that takes place in Elementary School or Middle School doesn't count btw...we're excepting 9th grade and up ppl...

[woutR]

Anything that takes place in Elementary School or Middle School doesn't count btw...we're excepting 9th grade and up ppl...

It was a joke
I haven't had a 'relation' since I was 13, so haven't really had one ever.

[XemnasXD]

Anything that takes place in Elementary School or Middle School doesn't count btw...we're excepting 9th grade and up ppl...

It was a joke
I haven't had a 'relation' since I was 13, so haven't really had one ever.

lol, your joke was the last person that was directed at...

[Draquish]

Girls around here are easy. No need for a gf ATM. Still talking to a chick I went out with for three years, we're thinking about trying things again when she gets back(moved). Mostly fwb atm.

[DumboDii]

Don't force it. Get to know the girl before going into serious relationship. Otherwise she will most likely turn out to be a real slut or something that you are NOT looking for. Believe me.